Do you think there is a problem?
"Do you think there is a problem? No, there is not. You just need the right key to unlock the door, because using the wrong key will keep you confused and stay put in a place".
Princessbusayo
One thing about us is that we tend to be anxious and feel nervous whenever we are faced with any problems even if they are just little that don't need to worry over. Problems are part of life and until you learn how to deal with them, instead of brooding over them, they will keep scaring you away when you are supposed to find solutions to them.
When problems attack, you should attack back by you finding solutions to clear them off you. Why worry when you know your worries can't solve them? Why being depressed when you should face and clear them off your way?
One fact to know is that you aren't the first person to go through that problem, many have experienced it in the past and few had to solve it while others because they were afraid took their lives.
If you solve the problems ahead of you, you aren't the first person to do that.
If you commit suicide because you feel the problems are too much for you to handle, you aren't still the first person to do that.
We all have our decisions to make and how you want to deal with your problems is over to you to decide and if you think you want to end it or let it end you, it's left to you alone. Your problems will always visit you if you don't take action in dealing with them. But the one good truth there is that no matter how big your problem is, it cannot be too much for God to handle.
Why worry then when all you can do is talk to God? Why worry then when you believe that God is able to take those challenges away from your path so you can walk freely with no disturbances.
Another truth is that God will never allow a bigger problem that you wouldn't be able to overcome to get close to you. He knows your strength and weakness but if you think you aren't strong enough to tackle those small problems, then why are you living?
Problems are created to make us strong and we would never get away with problems because when you try solving one, another one suffice but don't fret because when they keep coming, God will keep pushing them away by your own efforts.
God will never help you take those problems away if you don't learn to talk to God about them. He wants you to speak up. He wants you to see Him as someone who is able to help you out but if you think you don't need Him or anyone, you are only deceiving yourself.
A closed mouth is a closed destiny. If you can't speak up when the fire is burning you from within, how do you want people to know you are going through a lot? Speak up and let people help you.
Don't assume they understand you. Everyone has their own problems they are battling with and if you don't open up to the real and trusted ones, you will only be disappointed in yourself and not anyone.
God has placed some set of people to help us in our journey of life and it is until you pray to Him to send help, that nothing will be done.
One thing about me is that I love to say "there's no problem" even if there is one because I know my worries cannot do anything. My sitting down in one place and not taking any action cannot bring a solution to my doorstep, I need to move out and do what I need to do.
If you are able to trust God and talk to Him about your situation, He is always available to help you out. He only needs to stretch His arm to the ones who come to Him for help and just His hands alone can change things in the right order.
I don't know why I am saying this today but I was just sitting down and I started having this thought and felt like sharing it with us. No problem is bigger than God and if only you can learn to gaze at Him and believe He can handle them for you.
Don't think of committing suicide or doing the wrong thing because you want those problems to end. That's definitely a wrong idea for you. If you die, the problem will be there but you are gone, what do you gain?
We need to learn how to face our fears and talk to the right people who are willing to help us anytime. There are still good people out there who understand the true meaning of humanity. These are people God has placed for some kinds of people and these kinds are those who believe and trust God.
There will not be a problem if you believe there is none since you have trusted God to help you out. Be positive about things and don't get worried or worked up over those mere problems. You aren't the first person to witness it and you will never be the last to experience it. We only need to identify our problems and use the right methods to overcome them.
Thanks for reading.
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[May 31, 2022] (No 151 articles for the year)
Indeed finding the right key is the key :D Pray and have faith that you will find the solutions and the patience and understanding to wait.