When it comes down to living your favorite life, it can mean different things to different people. What gives you happiness may not be what makes me happy and vice versa.
When you think about what your best life is, what comes to your mind? The truth is your idea of a good life/happiness changes over time, and as humans, our wants are unlimited, and we always want more.
Do you have a firm knowledge of what you want out of your life and find it hard to achieve it in the face of your everyday stresses and responsibilities?
To achieve the best life, you must figure out what living your best life means to you. To figure this, you need to ask yourself some questions such as:
How am I experiencing love?
Your ability to share and receive love to/from others matters more than anything else.
How often am I sharing my Unique Gift?
We all have our unique gifts- the unique essence and energy that makes us. Each individual has a unique gift to offer that no one else can.
Living your best life means finding creative methods to share your best self with others, whether in your workplace, hobbies, or how we live in general.
What are you grateful for?
As humans, we focus on the painful areas in our lives, but that is not how things should be.
You wake up every day; you can walk, talk, and do everything an ordinary person can do, which alone should make you happy.
What is distracting you from your best life?
Well, I was looking at my daily life, which involves waking up and seeing tons of notifications, including friend requests on social media and the never-ending bad news on the Tv.
This dilemma is one most of us go through daily, and we have to ask ourselves this question, how do you manage your time, so your life reflects what matters most?
If you want to live for a greater purpose, boost your happiness, and share your unique gifts with others even with all the hustle and bustle of life, then there are some things you could do.
You must always identify what matters the most to you, and it doesn't have to take a life-or-death experience for you to identify this. It can take a series of tough questionnaires to find out what it is.
What matters the most to you in your life? Let us say you had a limited time to live; what would you do with the time you had left?
Trust me; you will find out what genuinely matters to you in life when you answer that question.
Another way to achieve your best life is to always live in the present; you will be way happier and feel more fulfilled if you learn to experience every moment in your life fully.
Mindfulness increases your mental health, which also helps you physically. It has proven to reduce exhaustion, stress and increase job satisfaction.
To live your best life, you have to find your miraculous scenarios/moments.
To find your miraculous scenario, you can look around and notice what is happening, find something you are grateful for; this could be the way the sun feels on your body/face, music in the background, or rain sounds.
When you combine mindfulness and savoring the moment, you can get powerful reactions, which could improve your mental health and life satisfaction.
Living your best life has a lot to do with your level of empathy, trust, and intimacy, especially in your relationship with those you love.
Learning to hear others out with presence and empathy can significantly transform your relationships.
Being a good listener will help people feel like you genuinely care for them, and this helps you have more understanding of what they want and need from you.
Observation without evaluation is the highest form of human intelligence.
Life throws curveballs at us, and we aren't prepared for them. You need to know how to reset and go back to the center- who you are and your goals and priorities.
If you ever see yourself being negative and sad, imagine your hand hitting a reset button even if it isn't there.
It will only take a minute to re-focus on what your priorities are, and you could stretch, take a deep breath, set what you want to achieve, and start again. It all comes down to your resolve.
Knowing how to reset yourself is crucial for controlling minor distractions and significant changes in your life.
Let me live an easy one here before I finish,
"Spend more time with Nature."
Knowing what matters the most is crucial when living your best life, but this isn't easy due to all the daily distractions we have.
But it would be best if you didn't let this discourage you; with focus and intention, small changes can make a difference.
Now let me ask you a question?
What does living the best life mean to you? And how do you want to achieve it?
Thank you for reading, friends.
Living in the moment and doing our thing. That is living the best life. We all have preferences. And getting to do what we want, our choice and purpose happily and efficiently means living our best life.