Envy, envy, envy. That's what most people feel when they see you rise in life. Like when you achieve something, or when you prove something. They don't want to see you beat them, they don't want to see you reach anything. What they want is for you to go deeper and reach nothing, in our lives, people who have no other desire than to knock each of us down are inevitable. That there is no other desire but to see that we are suffering, most of them right? We cannot say we're perfect because I know most of us to judge someone before knowing the whole story.

Sometimes in my life, I have nothing to do but judge someone too but everything's changed when I know how it feels. I just said to myself, that instead of judging them why don't I listen first? Nothing is lost if we listen. That's why there is a saying, "Listen to the voice around you before it becomes voiceless." which is super true right? Just like the people we support. If we see that their performance is so good, etc, don't we like them even more? But whenever they made some incorrect choices, we forget how they make us happy even in a single thing. So sometimes, instead of listening to their stories, we believe more in speculations.

It's also very unfair on their part like that, because we ourselves will push them in their downfall which is super wrong. Except that we saw something that was really wrong with them and that is the main reason why we are bashing them, right? Like us, they are also human. Like them, we are also human. We make mistakes after choosing the right decision for us, how about those who are the same as us?

It's just like the people at your job, when you're a newbie they look down on you. They just want to trample on the character you have, right? You are often judged because you're just a newbie and knew nothing. You're just a beginner and knew nothing also, you're still adjusting and there are times that instead of helping you they will judge you because you cannot do such things like they do.

But once they see that you have potential, aren't they treating you so well? Not until, one of your workmates, schoolmates, or etc is jealous just because of your good process. And that's when they will begin to slander you, and when they see that you are not affected, they despise you even more. They are more jealous and angry because of the beautiful process you have, that's why be careful with the people you meet. Not everyone treats you as a friend, not at work, not at school. You can't say that the person next to you is betraying you right now, because you might not know, before it sticks to you, they already planned it.

Everyone changes, especially if they see that you are capable, and have potential. Those who were your enemies, are now your friends. Those people who judged you before, are now one your fans.

Be careful, someone is waiting for your downfall.

Final Thoughts

• This article is dedicated for one of my workmates and a friend of mine. There are people who really envy you noh? Ung mas pag nakita nila na umaangat ka, mas naiinggit. Ung kaibigan mo noon, kaaway mo na ngayon at ung kaaway mo noon ay kaibigan mo na ngayon. Walang magagawa, ganyan talaga.