Through Night and Day Movie: Realizations and Lessons.
"Kahit saktan mo lang ulit ako, okay lang, dahil wala na akong gustong mahalin kundi ikaw"
- Jen
Love is not just about the happy moments. Love is also about compromising. We should always put in mind that both of your happiness should be taken into consideration. Don't give always, Don't take and take. It must be give and take. Fill in each other’s gaps
Another thing: you should always maximize your understanding. Just because your relationship had to go through the darkest time, remember the embryo of your relationship - and that is love. Hindi porke may nagbago lang sa isa sa inyo, susukuan nyo na. Isipin at pag-usapan nyo yung possible causes kung bakit may nagbago kase baka may underlying reasons yun. We can't bring back time, that's a sad reality. So before you decide to give up on someone, make sure you've already exhausted lahaaaaat ng pag-unawa mo. Syempre mahal mo diba, bat mo susukuan agad sa isang beses na nagbago? Baka mamaya, kung kelan mo sinukuan, malaman mo yung reason ng change and wala ka nang magawa kundi magregret. Time is a b*tch. Always remember that.
Ben: yung Jen kase na nakilala ko considerate sa feelings ng iba, sensitive, hindi pabago bago ng isip diko alam, parang iba eh nahihirapan ako.
Jen: nahirapan ka? Ben, dipa tayo kasal ben pag kinasal tayo araw araw moko kailangan intindihin, pano yun? araw araw tayo mag aaway dahil di moko maintindihan?
Dito talaga papasok yung " Find a heart that loves you at your worst, and arms that will hold you at your weakest. "
Lesson learned: kaya pakita nyo muna worst nyo una palang para alam nyo kung sino mag iistay or sa una lang.
Lastly, you're lucky if you find someone who loves you through your flaws. The end of a relationship does not equate to the end of love. You can still love a person even if you're no longer together and no matter how much pain you bear while seeing him loving someone else, you can't do anything but to be happy for him because that's the highest form of love - selfless.
Ending Thoughts
To those people who are in love and being loved right now. If you are in the right person, that person will understand you even in your worst or best. Sometimes, we are just drive by our emotions. We can speak bad words by not just minding it and that will cause the relationship to be broken. Remember that you can't erase the wound that is already bleeding, even though that can heal, still there would be a scars. That's why love and care that person that you are with right now. If you think that your relationship is toxic and not healthy anymore, then that's the time you will give-up.
That's the time na magiging toxic na ang relationship pag palagi nalang nag tatake or naggi give ang isa sainyung dalawa. Love should be understandable and shouldn't be mandated or force. By the moment that everything has done, that's the time na manghihimayang tayo.
Sa pagpasok sa relationship hindi agad-agad. Pinag iisipan at pinagdadasal yan!
Dapat maging handa ka sa lahat. Hindi araw-araw masaya, hindi laging puro tawanan, hindi puro lambingan minsan dadating yung point na may tampuhan at hindi magkakaintindihan.
Jen & Ben story ang isang patunay ng mga salitang "PINAGTAGPO pero HINDI TINADHANA" sakit diba? Oo masakit talaga lalo na nung akala mo kayo na para sa isa't-isa pero hindi pala.
Kaya dapat matuto tayong maghintay sa tamang oras, panahon at tao! Hindi basta pasok ng pasok sa isang relasyon.
Pray for someone who will love you at your worst and who will love you in sickness and in health!
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ganda ng movie na to kahit masakit hahaha