Gaining Self Respect

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Today I've been a very busy day for me that I could not come online. Yeah, our school has resumed today and I have to go back to school. But ever since I get to school I've been so busy and my phone too is not charged...

Oops! I've gotten, I make my hair today, I would have shown the picture here, but unfortunately, I have not taken any pictures with it.... hehehe

Enough of the whole paparazzi, now to the main reason for writing this article.

Self-respect is a way of treating yourself accordingly, knowing that you love and relief like everyone else. We will be surrounded by people who respect and treat us how we want to be treated when we develop healthy reciprocal relationships.

In today's digital world, the majority of Instagram and Tik Tok users engage more in social comparison, which makes them feel worse about themselves. Self-respect will prevent you from comparing yourself and your life with others.

Showing respect to yourself doesn't mean you are egocentric or conceited it does quite the opposite, in return, we gain respect from others when we respect ourselves.

There are some methods for practicing self-respect:

1) figure out what makes you respect yourself: Ask yourself what drill makes you feel your best, when you realize those practices, try to pay yourself the respect by prioritizing them daily.

2) Be honest about who you are and who you aren't: Don't hesitate to do the things that make you feel good not only with yourself but with others. Do everything with honesty and let people know the real you.

3) Don't let other people define your boundaries: Some people have the intention of carrying out a particular task/goal, but the advice they got is often indistinct with their emotional baggage. Whenever you are being told " you'll not be able to do it" or "you Can't" you have to figure out yourself what's true by Ignoring them.

4) learn how to say no: letting others know what you don't like doesn't make you a bad person, but a respectable person. You'll get to create time and energy with things and people that make you happy when you stop saying yes to things you don't want to execute.

5) Apologize with self-respect: it's sparse pleasant saying "I'm sorry", and if you're going to do it, don't hesitate to make it count! Learn not to make excuses when apologizing, because when you do so, it's disrespectful to the other party and your integrity.

6) Don't talk down on yourself: Don't be in the midst of people and be saying " oh my God, I hate how fat I look" or "I'm so ugly". Never talk down on yourself because when you do so, you're permitting people to do the same.

7) Don't be a talkative: know when to speak and when you should keep quiet, you don't always have to say what you are thinking, try to ask " is it going to make sense if I should say this?" You don't have to say everything that crosses your mind.

8) set boundaries: whenever people do whatever you're not comfortable with, let them know, either by your body language or by saying it, you don't have to keep quiet when things are going the wrong way.

9) Avoid unnecessary gossip: You don't always have to be in people's business, you just have to face yours because generally, people disrespect gossipers.

10) Respect others: Respect they say is reciprocal, more than 80% of people will respect you when you respect them, you just have to put down your ego and do the right things you ought to do with others.

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I'm sorry for not being online, because of today's schedule, and I'm very tired now, I have to try to write this article, but after This, I will try to rest my head, but I will make Sure to attend to all my notifications whenever I wake up, my eyes are heavy now, I cannot afford to crawl at night today.... thanks

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