Am I a killjoy?

I agree with what most commented. I can see one of my brothers in your boyfriend and I feel you. Give him time. Maturity doesn't come the same way with everyone. Just don't forget to keep reminding him of his responsibilities and be more thoughtful of your situation and your baby.

You are not a killjoy! You are a responsible mother and you are protecting Clea, that is the most important thing. You will find more comfort and support if you get time to meet other Mom's in the area. The other friend circles will allow you to express yourself and they will be able to share their advice with you.

Sending you much love, it's so nice to read your posts again! xxx

I don't think you were a killjoy. Your reasons for not attending the party are very valid, and every other woman would put the safety and comfort of her child first before any other thing. Because Clea is all you have got, and you are all she's got too before anyone else.......

I hope your boyfriend will learn the lesson and you should not feel any guilt or anything bad feeling towards yourself because you have a valid reason and I hope both of you can fix the things around you.

Hahahaha ana jud ba memsh. Ingana sad ko though way friends si jef na muanhi. Ano lang kadto hilig pa siya duwa ug ml or dota. Though mutabang man siya ni zhyne pero naa jud time na feel nahu tapulan ahung pares hahhahaa. Bitaw ako sad, di sad ko ganahan na naa sa dghan taw ahung zhyne. Okay ra na memsh.

I think you should teach him that he should be no more Mr. Nice guy.

You are not a kill joy though, you are just acting mstured and responsible as a mom, you know things change when you are now a parents somethings that you enjoyed doing when you were still not a mother but now you are so you consider your child and not just yourself. That's not a kill joy that's a mother care and a responsible one.

You are no killjoy my dear and like you said, your boy friend is so immature as it all seems that he allows his family members to control him and the way he runs his affairs instead of him being the controller of all the situations in his life. Therefore, pls I urge you not to hate or be that mad at him next time because of those lapses in him, rather, you can both talk it out and ensure the right things are done. As for the decision to ensure that baby clea is not allowed out at night is one very big thing I support you in ok. Pls send my regards to baby clea😙

Not a killjoy in my vision. You are a protective mom. That's it.

At first ate pamikyado na kase tatay ni clea, dapat kayo unahin niya di barkada. Pero legit na natawa ako bigla sa friends na paramg walang common sense. At isa pa, yung barkada nya alam naman na may pamilya na yung tao, kinokonsente ba nila? Dika naman killjoy ate, syempre nanay ka ni clea gagawin mo yung daoat sa baby. Ikaw nagaalaga tas tatay niya nasa barkada nageenjoy? Nakakagigil HAHAHAHA

I don't think you're a killjoy I think you are justified as a mother you have to protect your child in every way and traveling with a child is tiring they need things constantly, and the fact that your boyfriend doesn't help you should upset you you aren't just the two of you what you do as parents will directly affect your child, and the fact that he drops his fatherly responsibilities for his friends is a very big no actually.

Dili ka killjoy mamsh uy. Its just that, mama lang jud ka nga gusto protektahan imuha baby. Gamy pa kaau imu baby tas ilakaw ilakaw na. Okay lang untag mutabang sba sila sa imuha. Ikaw ramn japun mag antos. Dapat mag learn jud imuha hubby nga mag say no sa friends. Kay lahi nara ba jud bsta naa nay baby. Priority jud ang family.

I truly understand you sis, tama lang yan mahirap magkasakit sa panahon ngayon, tsaka it's time na pagbigyan ka ni bf na jan muna sa inyo mahirap kaya mag alaga ng baby. Hehehe! Gawain ko din yan dati, naglalayas bitbit ang anak pag naiinis ako kay jowa noon😁

Gamay pa kaayo imo anak dapat di sa jud maglakaw lakaw uy, sagdi na sila..di man ka tabangan gyapon ug magsakit ang bata kita ra magpuliki gyud.

Ako sa una pasalamat ko hands on jud papa sa ako anak sa iya..di ra kaayo ko hago. Dapat lang gyud kay pag himo ninyos bata kamo man duha 😂

Di ka killjoy sis, mas maayo man sad ng sa balay nalang mo ni baby Clea para na pud sa safety ninyong duha. Di pa secured ang panahon karon niya isa pa lisod ng manglaag nga naa'y bata, makapoi ka lang ug kinugos niya