To heal a wound, you need to stop touching it

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Date: 4th May, 2022
Wednesday

Whenever we do something wrong knowingly or unknowingly, one may have said so that to err is human. Yeah, human beings are surrounded by many problems which they sometimes overcome but sometimes fail. They get hurt. Their dreams shatter and they feel disheartened by those feelings. But there is a positive thing about human beings too. They never give up and stand against all odd days. All they need to move on and never do the same mistakes that they have done before. That's why I'm using this legendary line to make it more perfect. It’s like a wound that you have in your life already and to heal a wound, you need to stop touching it.

In childhood, we played a lot. We ran here and there with our friends. There was fun and joy. We experimented all childish thing at that time. We ran after dragonfly or butterfly, we jumped from higher places, we had thrown stones without any reasons, we played hide and seek. While doing this we had fallen or got cut in several parts of our body. Right? We got scolded by our parents when they gave us medicine. We felt that pain. It needed time to heal those wounds. Our parents forbid us to touch that because our curious hands never stopped of being there. Quite relatable. We tried our best to abstain from it but maximum time we did that. But slowly we understood the meaning of it and we got healed. Our parents told us about a valuable thing of life. This article is also based on that feelings.

We have faults in our life. We have trust issues in our destinations. We have shattered dreams which are broken by someone else or ourselves. You, me, all of us have flaws and problems in our lives. No one is pure and no one will be. Our ancestors had done wrong, we are doing and the future generation will do that too. To get rid of it and make the bridge of success again, we need to do work hard. First of all, we need to forget the wrong things that we had done before. We must have the lessons from it.

Abstain from Remembering the past

Now while recreating our dreams, we need to abstain from remembering past. That is gone. Those memories are gone and not coming back. You hear me? No matter what you do, those days are not coming back. Neither we have time travelling machine to go to the past and fix things nor it can assure to fix things and situation according to our will. Better we should focus on our future. Past memories will only bring sadness in your life. You will be in a loop to recreate your own version of fixing it again and again. Ask yourself please about it, do you really need this one? I don’t think so.

It's like a wound and you cannot fix it unless you move on. It will be a better part of you. Stop reminiscing it. You have done in your life and now it's time to move forward. You have the abilities to make a change this time. Repeat the dream but do not repeat the mistakes. You can enjoy it again. Come on dude. You are a human & failing is part of a life. We all know it and already accepted it.

Do not run after the old days that are gone. I know you feel sad for those memories as they were connected with your long cherished dreams. But my friend, wounds are needed to be healed. Only then you can do something valuable and valid. The past cannot be revived but future can be restructured. The better point is, you still have time to recreate your own version of it. Then why are you recreating it in past, in imagination? Do it in reality and change the view of our perception. Forget about the wound. Stop touching it. It needs to heal so that you can regain the energy of creativity. Mark my words, you can do it a far better way than past. Go for it dear.

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Comments

I have a big problem with leaving the past days in the past. I find it difficult to turn to a future without my dad. It’s selfish towards my family, I know, but it’s stronger than me, I’ve lost the will to live. Your words are encouraging.

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2 years ago

Memories of the past will always come back to us. We just have to shrug it off and not dwell on it when it comes, that is what makes the difference.

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2 years ago

You have a very valid point. If you keep remembering the past, you'll continue to get hurt. Let's just move on with our lives. You'll be fine

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2 years ago

Forget the past learn from the mistakes let time heal and repent..then be a new leaf again....it's how we are mold in this life given to us

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2 years ago

Very beautiful, you likened the memories and problems of the past to wounds. We can never heal our wounds by remembering our bitter past and our faults. We need to stop touching it, so that this wound may heal on its own, and our bright future may come out of the pain of this wound.

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2 years ago

Remembering the past will bring back the pain of the past which will cause a lot of problem . Nice meeting you Sir

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2 years ago

I love always the title of your articles!!! Very real that's right. Always time and patient is needed to heal and be conscious that we can't always control all the process, so don't touch just wait and focus on being well, and although it can be difficult: be patient!

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2 years ago

This is an amazing article. This would really remind us to forget the past so that we can move on. Letting go of the past making our future beautiful.

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2 years ago

You're right Luci, anyone who has their minds fixated on the past will definitely have issues moving on.

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2 years ago

That's how human beings are. They tend to stand on ground and contend what problems they had in life.

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2 years ago

Exactly we need to erase everything that hurt us we don't need to be in the past just learn your lesson and move on

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2 years ago

That is true my dear, to heal both mind and body we must avoid the things that cause the pain.

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2 years ago

Oh yes, 100% yes. I have real time experience with this

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2 years ago

Learn to forgive others and ourselves so the wounds may totally heal

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2 years ago

Healing takes time but if don't put some effort then it won't heal. Maybe past is part of our life but we shouldn't dwell over it. Focus on what is in the present and plan for the future. In that way, the wound will heal without we even notice.

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2 years ago

Exactly, just leave it and let it heal itself

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2 years ago

You have said it right, dear cousin. Let the wound heal and focus on the present so you could build a better future. It is not bad to reminisce about the past, I do sometimes look back but I don't dwell on it. And I could feel its scars, the wound is no longer there.

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2 years ago

If the wound is still fresh, don't touch it to avoid infection. We could apply this to real life situation whenever we have problem with other people. Let's say that we've been hurt by others. Our feelings would turn to hatred and revenge if we will not forget the past. Thanks for this article my friend. I missed you here. I am inactive for a couple of years.

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2 years ago

True. It is always better to move on and heal. Don't visit the wound too often. Let it sit and heal.

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2 years ago

You are right, leave it bro. Hope you had a great Eid.

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2 years ago

Title seems interesting so I read everything until the end of our article. Ouch I remember something and someone yet as what you said. To heal the wound you need to stop touching it. Anyway it was already a past so move-on. I'm happy, lucky and blessed today. Wound no more. Keep safe brother.

By the way I see interesting article from you. A JOURNEY TO FILIPINO CULTURE VIA READ CASH. I will read it today, thank you for the article about Filipino. ❤️

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2 years ago

I often look at my healed wound scars and feel the power of resilience in how I recovered from the problems.

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2 years ago