To heal a wound, you need to stop touching it
Date: 4th May, 2022
Wednesday
Whenever we do something wrong knowingly or unknowingly, one may have said so that to err is human. Yeah, human beings are surrounded by many problems which they sometimes overcome but sometimes fail. They get hurt. Their dreams shatter and they feel disheartened by those feelings. But there is a positive thing about human beings too. They never give up and stand against all odd days. All they need to move on and never do the same mistakes that they have done before. That's why I'm using this legendary line to make it more perfect. It’s like a wound that you have in your life already and to heal a wound, you need to stop touching it.
In childhood, we played a lot. We ran here and there with our friends. There was fun and joy. We experimented all childish thing at that time. We ran after dragonfly or butterfly, we jumped from higher places, we had thrown stones without any reasons, we played hide and seek. While doing this we had fallen or got cut in several parts of our body. Right? We got scolded by our parents when they gave us medicine. We felt that pain. It needed time to heal those wounds. Our parents forbid us to touch that because our curious hands never stopped of being there. Quite relatable. We tried our best to abstain from it but maximum time we did that. But slowly we understood the meaning of it and we got healed. Our parents told us about a valuable thing of life. This article is also based on that feelings.
We have faults in our life. We have trust issues in our destinations. We have shattered dreams which are broken by someone else or ourselves. You, me, all of us have flaws and problems in our lives. No one is pure and no one will be. Our ancestors had done wrong, we are doing and the future generation will do that too. To get rid of it and make the bridge of success again, we need to do work hard. First of all, we need to forget the wrong things that we had done before. We must have the lessons from it.
Abstain from Remembering the past
Now while recreating our dreams, we need to abstain from remembering past. That is gone. Those memories are gone and not coming back. You hear me? No matter what you do, those days are not coming back. Neither we have time travelling machine to go to the past and fix things nor it can assure to fix things and situation according to our will. Better we should focus on our future. Past memories will only bring sadness in your life. You will be in a loop to recreate your own version of fixing it again and again. Ask yourself please about it, do you really need this one? I don’t think so.
It's like a wound and you cannot fix it unless you move on. It will be a better part of you. Stop reminiscing it. You have done in your life and now it's time to move forward. You have the abilities to make a change this time. Repeat the dream but do not repeat the mistakes. You can enjoy it again. Come on dude. You are a human & failing is part of a life. We all know it and already accepted it.
Do not run after the old days that are gone. I know you feel sad for those memories as they were connected with your long cherished dreams. But my friend, wounds are needed to be healed. Only then you can do something valuable and valid. The past cannot be revived but future can be restructured. The better point is, you still have time to recreate your own version of it. Then why are you recreating it in past, in imagination? Do it in reality and change the view of our perception. Forget about the wound. Stop touching it. It needs to heal so that you can regain the energy of creativity. Mark my words, you can do it a far better way than past. Go for it dear.
Images in here edited via picsart by me.
I have a big problem with leaving the past days in the past. I find it difficult to turn to a future without my dad. It’s selfish towards my family, I know, but it’s stronger than me, I’ve lost the will to live. Your words are encouraging.