Teenager's Life: Rules Breaking Days And Our Care

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Date: December 6th, 2021. Monday
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Morning with good vibes can make your day perfect. It happens with me and that is why I am wishing you a very good morning today. The Devil is wishing you from the front. What more you could possibly desire? Ok, jokes a part. Welcome to my world dear family. Festive vibes going on everywhere? Why wouldn't be? It's December, baby!!! Celebrations going on everywhere. Now, with all these happiness, can we discuss something educative now? Well, we all have teenagers in our home. I mean most of us have surely. Let's talk about them. Shall we?

Teenage

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Age between 13 to 19 is called teenage. We all had these days in our life. Now, when I discuss it more I am sure you all will feel those words from your hearts. Why? Because we all passed away those days. We aren't here from another space or not downloaded from internet. Kidding. We remember our days. We did something strange which when we remember either we laugh or feel guilty. Right dear? This is why I'm telling it so. We need to be careful about them. We need to show them the right path which is necessary for them and for their future. Don't let them ruin their lives. Because at this age they start adopting new things and want to be free. Less guidance will affect them. Let's check how.

Rules Breaking Mentality

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Teenagers first and I must say the most eye catching change is this one. They start asking questions about rules and regulations. 'What is this, why is this, what if I don't, who is he'... These types of questions are often used by them. They start to ask questions so that they could make their own versions of answers to break the rules. In this age, they don't care about rules. They are more eager to break them and upgrade them as their wills. We need to guide them and make them understand about it's importance. If we don't do it, they will never learn. So we need to be careful about it.

Care Free About Future

Now we understand why it was necessary to be careful about future goals. Now we feel upset about those days when we had opportunities in hands but we failed to connect. And remember when we did that mistake? Exactly, in teenage. Because we didn't cared much about the future. We thought we would fight that tomorrow. Well the tomorrow is today and we failed to fight. Anyway, I am not here to discuss our failures. We don't want them to suffer in the future. Do we? We need to show them and elaborate the future struggling issues. Explain it perfectly. They need to care about their future. Now they are care free. Why? Because they have no worries about foods, cloths and family. Parents are taking care of it. So they are less thinking about it. But what will happen if the guardian angel collapse? I know, some of us lost their parents at a very early age. I, myself lost my father when I was merely 13. I know how it feels when the roof collapsed, you had no where to hide your head. We need to aware about it. Let them listen to the facts. Make them understand and help them to decide their future.

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Respect Education

Last but not least, teenagers have lack of respects. It's normal to them. Their break free mentality is the reason for this. Hormone change in body makes it possible. Suddenly they gain height, weight, pubic hair, voice changes, feel attraction towards opposite sex etc. These happened to us. But for this they become wild at first stage. So they needed to be taught some manners. Specially for the elders, old persons and obviously for the women. This teaching will help them a lot. Respect education stage is must for them.

In the end, I must say, they are our very own blood and flesh. Don't talk with them in rude mentality. Have some time with them. Try to understand their feelings. Make them understand that you are there to help them. Teenage is the age of rise. Let them rise with care.

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Thanks for being with me. Have a good time with the teenagers.

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Teenage life is the bestest for this is the time we have all the freedom we wanted to live a life. However, it's scary and critical that we still need to think of the consequences of our own actions.
I've seen a lot of teenager who's not respecting the elderly and that's a bad news. Everyone should respect everyone

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3 years ago

Respect is must. We must teach them that.

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3 years ago

Teenage ages is one of the critical ages in human growth and development, The curiosity about mnay things in life should be quenched in the right way.

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3 years ago

Everything seems new to them. They want to drive the life's car as their own way which is risky.

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3 years ago

Constant communication is the key in every relationship whether with your partner, your friends, your children, your colleagues. Not just communication but effective one where we listen to what they say. Teenagers are eager, innocent and hot tempered lol! They need to be guided constantly.

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3 years ago

Golden words from you. What to say more? Thanks buddy.

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3 years ago

True. Teenagers nowadays must be taught about good morals. Keep Safe 🤗

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3 years ago

That's right. We need more time for them.

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3 years ago

Good evening mr. Lucy, I like this topic its really hard to raise a teenage child there's a lot to consider. It was also our topic when I visited my sister because her 16 yo son was always out, go with friends anywhere they wanted to go. In this generation teens are hard to control.

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3 years ago

But we need to guide them properly dear. It’s necessary.

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3 years ago

Well spoken bros, teenagers needs serious special treatment boss in respecting for the elderly ones also in education and also to let them know what is right and wrong

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3 years ago

That's why they need our support and care. Hey, good to see you brother.

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3 years ago

Been teaching teenage girls and boys for three years and really it's a hassle and a struggle but I always relate myself to them because I was once like them. I can now reflect on my deeds in the past with them so, I can somehow handle and be able to control them. These people really need guidance, as I needed guidance before. I'm just returning the favor I received from the people who helped me to the young ones who really needed it this time.

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3 years ago

So we have a teacher among us! Respect for your profession and what you do there. You handle them with care and that's what they need. Thanks.

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3 years ago

Teenage life must filled with hope and love, not only about romantic love but especially towards it's friends and family. Just it's so sad that a lot of teenagers are suffering from depression, addiction and lack of education. But I know God is Good, they will have a good future:)

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3 years ago

You are right dear. You always come up with accurate feelings.

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3 years ago

Your father must have been really proud and happy to see how you turned out to be such a nice gentleman even after his absence from your life.. I'm sure he is beaming up there with pride.. and the first point you mentioned about rule breaking is so true, my daughter is not even a teenager yet, she is just 9 but them amout of questions she asks.. omg so tiring lol.. I try to answer her everything but the Qs gets complex and complex to the point that I had to explain her about sex too haha.. took me some time to recover from tht

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3 years ago

Oh dear! I didn't see that coming 😲 today’s generation is too fast. And I know you are a good mother. You are doing well. Thanks, you know the reason ❤️

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3 years ago

oh well I try :)

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3 years ago

Yeah they require attention at this stage from their elders, parents and so that they they wont get trapped under any negative influence just because they starts questioning authority

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3 years ago

Well said. I agree.

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3 years ago

I think this is the best time to feel happy. Even if you don't understand good and evil, it is right to feel happiness.This is the best time to build life.Teenager's time is when parents become friends with inappropriate children. But whatever you say, I miss this time today.

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3 years ago

We all miss those moments. Good to see here.

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3 years ago

They are eager to make thing happen on their own will and they want to be free and do things on their own. That might cause them to make terrible mistakes at times. At times we are left with no other question other than to let them go because we are busy sorting financial problems and we have less or no time for them.

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3 years ago

And that's how the problem starts. We must make time for them.

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3 years ago

The devil wished me good morning!!! Yay!!!! I want nothing more!!!!

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3 years ago

Stay blessed too dear.

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3 years ago

Teenage is very challenging age. It's very difficult to make them understand for why, for what..... true they come with lot of qs. - What if, why so, all negatives. As a parent I feel we should be self controlled and at ease when talking to these kids. Because this is the age where they get easily influenced by others. Nice read.

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3 years ago

Exactly dear. You said absolutely right.

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3 years ago

In teenage stage it more need attention because this is the start to unlock some doors and guiding them is important.

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3 years ago

That's what I said. They need our care.

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3 years ago

At every point in their lives, children need more attention than ever cos they just cant make decisions on their own when they are left alone to do so

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3 years ago

Yes brother. Otherwise they will be misleaded.

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3 years ago

This is the age, when they stray from the right path and adopt the things which leads them to live a meaningless life.But as we have already passed from this phase of life and know the difference between good or bad,we should guide them to choose what is right for them.

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3 years ago

They really need helpful guidance. I agree

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3 years ago