Date: December 6th, 2021. Monday
Remaining Days: 25
Morning with good vibes can make your day perfect. It happens with me and that is why I am wishing you a very good morning today. The Devil is wishing you from the front. What more you could possibly desire? Ok, jokes a part. Welcome to my world dear family. Festive vibes going on everywhere? Why wouldn't be? It's December, baby!!! Celebrations going on everywhere. Now, with all these happiness, can we discuss something educative now? Well, we all have teenagers in our home. I mean most of us have surely. Let's talk about them. Shall we?
Teenage
Age between 13 to 19 is called teenage. We all had these days in our life. Now, when I discuss it more I am sure you all will feel those words from your hearts. Why? Because we all passed away those days. We aren't here from another space or not downloaded from internet. Kidding. We remember our days. We did something strange which when we remember either we laugh or feel guilty. Right dear? This is why I'm telling it so. We need to be careful about them. We need to show them the right path which is necessary for them and for their future. Don't let them ruin their lives. Because at this age they start adopting new things and want to be free. Less guidance will affect them. Let's check how.
Rules Breaking Mentality
Teenagers first and I must say the most eye catching change is this one. They start asking questions about rules and regulations. 'What is this, why is this, what if I don't, who is he'... These types of questions are often used by them. They start to ask questions so that they could make their own versions of answers to break the rules. In this age, they don't care about rules. They are more eager to break them and upgrade them as their wills. We need to guide them and make them understand about it's importance. If we don't do it, they will never learn. So we need to be careful about it.
Care Free About Future
Now we understand why it was necessary to be careful about future goals. Now we feel upset about those days when we had opportunities in hands but we failed to connect. And remember when we did that mistake? Exactly, in teenage. Because we didn't cared much about the future. We thought we would fight that tomorrow. Well the tomorrow is today and we failed to fight. Anyway, I am not here to discuss our failures. We don't want them to suffer in the future. Do we? We need to show them and elaborate the future struggling issues. Explain it perfectly. They need to care about their future. Now they are care free. Why? Because they have no worries about foods, cloths and family. Parents are taking care of it. So they are less thinking about it. But what will happen if the guardian angel collapse? I know, some of us lost their parents at a very early age. I, myself lost my father when I was merely 13. I know how it feels when the roof collapsed, you had no where to hide your head. We need to aware about it. Let them listen to the facts. Make them understand and help them to decide their future.
Respect Education
Last but not least, teenagers have lack of respects. It's normal to them. Their break free mentality is the reason for this. Hormone change in body makes it possible. Suddenly they gain height, weight, pubic hair, voice changes, feel attraction towards opposite sex etc. These happened to us. But for this they become wild at first stage. So they needed to be taught some manners. Specially for the elders, old persons and obviously for the women. This teaching will help them a lot. Respect education stage is must for them.
In the end, I must say, they are our very own blood and flesh. Don't talk with them in rude mentality. Have some time with them. Try to understand their feelings. Make them understand that you are there to help them. Teenage is the age of rise. Let them rise with care.
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Teenage life is the bestest for this is the time we have all the freedom we wanted to live a life. However, it's scary and critical that we still need to think of the consequences of our own actions.
I've seen a lot of teenager who's not respecting the elderly and that's a bad news. Everyone should respect everyone