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When No One Is There To Help! Date: January 20th, 2022 Thursday Having first sip of coffee and started typing here. This is one kind of habit which grew while I'm being here. New days and new hopes. Everything changes so quickly. I'm laughing now but may have sad incident coming right through it. Who knows? You can't have the life to granted as you desire. It has full of surprises. Better you should act with it. Understanding the situation and working according it is the best part of human nature. We grief but we adjust. We shout but in the end anyhow we find comfort. That's our human nature. We must be ready for something new. **But what will happen if something big comes out of nowhere and there is nobody to help you? How will you handle that? Any idea? That feel is the worst when you have plenty to share but no way to speak it out.** That's the feeling of today's topic. Hello family. Having my second sip. Already spoken something strange with you, perhaps the truth. I hope you are all well and staying safe in this pandemic which is must. Today I am telling about a feeling which breaks us from inside but we cannot explain those matter publicly. We all had that feelings and will have it more in future. Why this idea popped up? Yesterday I saw a post of @mommykim who is a hard working and one of the most admired person by me. Her situation which shattered my heart, actually inspired me to write down this. You can check her post by clicking **here**. It’s just a mom story but if you deep dug the feelings, you will see the world of anxiety, care and worry. https://read.cash/@mommykim/and-now-i-want-to-go-home-this-instant-93060579 **Felt like New Comer?**
Like that thing, we all had fallen once in that kind of situation when we felt that the whole world stood against us. No one there to help. Felt like a new comer in a big town. This is how we feel. People are doing their jobs and no one there to listen your words or minimum time to understand your feelings. You want to speak but don't know whom to talk and ask for the betterment of your situation. You are mature enough and just keep the pain inside which increase the inner pain. That's bad. Really bad. My third sip from coffee. No one is there to Help
Just imagine you are in an examination hall. The paper has given to you and here comes the question paper. But wait! You just mistakenly wrote something on name section. You know it is a mess and the teacher is busy in his work, your classmates are busy in writing, time is moving fast and you have no idea what to do! Ever happened? This feelings is one of the worst. Only those who lived these moments in life can tell you the situation and how it feels. Many people around you but no one is helping you. Like that day, you may face more critical situation in your everyday life. Those odd situations don't happen daily but when does, it lefts you speechless. The fourth sip of coffee which is more delicious. How to handle?
Ever seen a new comer in town who asks for things but shyness and guilt remain in his/her eyes? When you face these types of situation and you need help badly, just hold your feelings. The Almighty never pushes us to a limit which we can't handle. Just wait for it. You will see someone who can actually help. Just ask for it. When you ask help to random people and get rejected, your heart becomes more heavy and you stop asking for it. This is wrong. You may ask it to an appropriate person. All you need to focus. I know it’s hard but you need to focus on your problems, right? **Fifth and final sip of coffee. Dear friends, you, me, everyone have our own point break. We need help at that time. But it will be better if we help others too. Those odd situations can happen with anyone. Help them and for sure, you can have the return gift in your bad days. That's nature.** All the pictures including the lead image are used from unsplash.com Thanks for being with me. ©Lucifer01
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Allah subhanAllah Ta'ala always there to help. So always says NAMAZ and ask for help to only Almighty Allah.
Absolutely dear. Appreciate your words.
As much as possible, I don't want to ask for help from anybody. If I want to learn, achieve or cope up with something, I do it all by myself. But if someone would offer, I'd so so very grateful.
Iron lady, you helped so many people. Even the Devil.
*I felt that too when I was new in this place where we live. I don't know anyone and have no one to ask for help from. There was a situation where I need to do something but I don't know where and how it should be done. Alhamdulillah, someone whom I just met for the first time, guide me through and I am thankful to her*
SukranAllah. You just made it right.
I don't have any problem about "helping" because I don't ask for help hahha, I struggle on my own and do success by my own
You are a strong woman. Take a bow.
When there is no one to help me, there is one. That's what I have to believe. Such a situation comes in everyone's life. Everything is handled again.
That's right. It's our duty to help others.
At the darkest time, unexpected help will come. I still believe that everyone has kindness within them. Had the same experience when I moved out. I was new to the neighborhood. Thank goodness the people that surrounds me are kind. ~Manju
You were lucky. Best for you. But not everyone is as lucky as you.
I feel you luci that you have lots of thoughts that keep you bothered but you don't have words to speak. Been in this situation too🥺😔
🥺 you understood me dear. Thanks.
Mother Theresa once said"_ being unlove and uncared for is a feeling that is worst than hunger it self". A lot of people may seem as if they have it all in real life, but there is an invisible inscription in their minds amd hearts that always yell "notice me"!
Big hug for that line. So true dear.
That's why I believe, we should be there for us. There's always a return gifts.
That makes the society more balanced. Yes, you are right.
I know how it feels my dear cousin. That's why I learnt doing things by myself so it won't be so hard for me whenever I am in a new situation.
You are a warrior girl. I know your abilities.
I do wish I am my dear cousin :)
It's really hard when you are in the middle of nowhere. The time you want some help. You want someone to lean on but there's nobody you can call. I experience with that Luci. It's really hard. It's really painful. You are having a lot of thoughts that bugging you always. You can't focus. You will feel hopeless. I wanted to run and finding someone to listen to me but no one exist even once. It's so much painful.🥺
Sorry dear. Hey, you can count on the Devil.
It's really hard in this situation especially for the person who is shy in front of people, but it is also one of the reasons why we become more courageous and we become independent. . :)
Failure makes us strong. Well said.
You know, such feelings do deprive us of our desires, nonetheless, we ought to braze up and catch the vibe for a successful life and feeling.
Indeed dear. Hey, good to see you here.
Sometimes I experience that there are some people who could really help you out of the darkness of life. They just give motivation to you and providing things that can make you forget what's behind on you. But it is not all who are willing to help you can only count on them
Absolutely dear. But we can't let them down.
The sad reality of life is, you lend help to those people who asking your help before but once your in verge of struggles, you asked help but no one of them lend their hand. It's very sad that makes human trust fades towards the person. In the end our own self is our own ally and the only person that can accompany us until the end.
We know some people turn their backs. But we still need to help one another dear.
These words make me calm. We all have difficult moments in life when we lack support and when it is difficult for us to even talk about our problems. But we must find a way to find our inner peace.
Told you, I can be your answer. You know this. Thanks.
It can't be helped. There are times that we will fall into this situation. That's why we must develop our skills in resolving problems on our own
That's another valuable point. Well said dear.
I experienced this kind of circumstances and believe me it's hard knowing the fact that we know no one can help you but we need to keep going as the situation does not stay forever may we have difficulty today but for sure tomorrow is another day just believe in yourself that we overcome all those things that we encountered.
Perfectly explained dear. Love the way you narrated.
I've been in that situation before, times that no one is there to help, and it feels awful. That is why I always extend my help to anyone who needs them..
You are a pure soul dear. You will be rewarded soon.
Dear Lucifer, your article at the same time as drinking your coffee made me feel very good, I felt like I was sitting and my dear and kind friend is giving me some advice that I really need. In the same way, when you do good, in times of hardship and sorrow, many kind hands reach out to you...
I will be so happy to have a cup of coffee with the most beautiful woman. It will be an honour.
Thank you dear Lucifer, you have a beautiful inwardness that you see everything beautiful... 🙏
If we will do good to others, it will surly come to us back. These difficult situation make us more strong, if we only try to handle them with positive mindset.
That's right. Help someone & you will be rewarded.
Whenever I see someone's struggling or whenever I saw them having a problem, I'll asking them right away to know if they're okay. I hate seeing someone struggling because of their problem, it was reflecting ne
That's so kind of you my dear. Thanks.
One thing I've learnt growing up is that Karma comes back two times,so helping someone who needs help has been a great opportunity for me and would always be. Every day we should do good.
People should follow it. It is worthy.
I don't know but seeing someone who needs help I don't think twice and just help that person in anyway I could. I felt guilt whenever I ignored someone who needs a help. That's my parents always lectured me to give others a hand if they needed one.
They told the precious words. Thanks to them.
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