Girl, You are Wonderfully Designed

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It is just recently when I was watching some random videos online, then I came up to a video clip from the Miss Universe 2019 Competition, specifically in Question and Answer Portion. The host asked Miss Mexico about the question, "What is the most important thing we should be teaching young girls today?" The first thing comes in my mind is to teach them the value of good moral, to emphasize the importance of personality over beauty. But Miss Mexico gives a better answer in which she says,

It is very important to teach young girls today, the importance of their value. We see many perfection in social media: perfect lives, perfect bodies, perfect faces, perfect relationship, nothing is that is real. We have to teach them that who they are already amazing, who they are already worth it, because what they really are is not what it looks like, it is what they feel, what they act and the way they react to the world. I believe a girl, is worth for what she has to offer to the world, way more than the way she looks.

- Sofia Arazon, Miss Universe 2019 Mexico

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In today's generation, especially the young girls have a lot of privileges than how young girls in the old generation was. Girls these days, have the right to speak out, to choose what they want and to do what they love. In the matter of Globalization, the use of internet widen and as a result social media became part of our everyday lives. Being a girl, it is innate to attract fancy and beauty online, it also serve as a gateway for them to have someone who they can look at; like actresses, dancers, models, singers and other social media influencers. For me, there's nothing wrong in idolizing people in social media, as long as they serve as your inspiration to strive more to reach your goals and to dream high.

But then, in social media you can edit your life to make it perfect, which is so different in real life, you need to face what is real and to fight what is in everyday lives. Bashers is very common in social media, their only goal is to pull down others, acting like they are perfect which is not.

As young girls keep on defending real life in social media, they already set standards what is the perfect beauty and on how a perfect life is. As a result, if they can't reach that standard they end up building sadness, anxiety and finally depression.

Being a concern person, a parent, a sister or brother, we must show to them how important being true to themselves is. It's good to dream high but not in a way that they forget how important their value is. Everyone have it's own path and to know what they can do is better than to get stress about a standard that doesn't fit for them. I have heard a lot of young girls saying "She's so lucky. God's favorite", without looking at themselves that they can do more, if they just act instead of complaining. God is good and fair to everyone, but it is in our hand how we respond on it. Let us spread awareness to every young girl's that they are wonderfully made inside and outside.

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Just a short insight about this topic everyone, you can also share your views about this in the comment section. Thank you!

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Well-said and so excellent with your words😊 I definitely agree with you that modern girls right now are more intelligent, wiser, fast learner and amazing...however, due to high technology, modern girls are being prone to wrong perception and leads to immoral values...some dont have anymore values... juvenile deliquency ... the moral values really depends on the environment and the people that surrounds...It is still a must for parents to guide their children on what is right...

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2 years ago

What she said in there was all true in this times because social media is very toxic when it comes to this kind of things. Some women out there need to change something within their body just to be in with the society but they didn't know that they're original self has been fading away.

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2 years ago

The social Media world has contributed more to people's low self esteem, especially the ladies. They'll look at what they're seeing on Instagram and Facebook, compare themselves and once they see that their appearance is kind of odd to what the photo they're looking at, they'll feel deepresed. That's not life is supposed to be lived, we are born unique, everyone is beautiful and handsome. We should know this and know peace.

Look at this; we've all seen where 'ugly' ladies are getting married before he 'beautiful' ladies, right? Yeah, that's how life is.

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2 years ago

That is the reason why a lot of people feel insecured or pressured about themselves because of what they see on social media. Also, I feel lucky as well that I was born in this generation compared to the life many years ago where woman's capability are limited only.

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2 years ago

That's right. Don't live your life in social media. Learn to see beyond what you see.

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2 years ago

The stereotypes of social media is sickening!

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2 years ago

Yung generation prone sa mg insecurities dahil sa nakikita sa social media nagiging basehan ng standard of worth kahit hindi naman.

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2 years ago

That's a good one, kaso ying iba sobrang lalim nong sugat na nilikha nong iba sa buhay nila ee. Lalo yung mga feeling perfect na pipol kaya yung iba,as lalong bumababa ang tingin sa sarili. Minsan mahirap din na kalaban abg sarili mismo ee aigooo

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2 years ago

Would you believe that I read three articles today that are all related to this? That's how important of an issue it is to address. The more we all learn to appreciate ourselves and love ourselves just the way we are, the better for us all.

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2 years ago

I love this one gosh the title screams "girl you are everything and your worth deserves all the great things" like that hehez we are all beautiful in our own ways, with flaws, imperfections, still we are wonderful, beauty from within are more attractive than the beauty outside .

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2 years ago

Oh yes! I'm beautifully and wonderfully made, I'm definitely happy with the way I was created. And I hope other girls see reasons to this and declare it all day long to themselves. Social media is really giving most people a completely different life from the real life we're living in

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2 years ago

Mom will always say" bring bout your beauty from the inside, don't walk in anyone shadow......". Having confidence in yourself and in your body is the best thing that can ever happen to a young woman

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2 years ago

Holistically we should teach them that for them to avoid being bullied or abused or to feel insecure all the time. We are all made out of love and we are all beautiful.

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2 years ago

I find beautiful people mischievous. External beatification hides the internal character. We are fond of appreciating the outer structure of humans. True beauty is behavioral that is somewhat an abstract trait. Definition of beauty may associate with aspects of the inner core. The questions and answers may hide the inner core. But, interaction for many days helps unfurl some of the internal aspects of beauty.

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2 years ago

Wow i just love your article.

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2 years ago

This is exactly why I tell my daughter how pretty she is.. she wears glasses just like me but am damn sure when she goes to high school or college, they gonna make fun of it because it happened to me.. I had no one to tell and get encouragement from.. hence I want to do that for her from this age..

No matter how a girl looks, she is already perfectly desgined, as told by you.. everyone is pretty and unique in their own way and that is amazin

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2 years ago

I agree that today's girls are having extra facilities. But it is also true that they are also facing more problems. Heartiest prayers for all girls. Shine more.

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2 years ago

Very well said. Everyone of us are gold . Other girls must be aware that everyone was made wonderfully and everyone has their own value.

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2 years ago

It's sad that at this time in human history, we're still talking about how to appreciate ourselves for who we are, but again, that tells you the kind of world we live in today. Really sad

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2 years ago

Life is not based on appearances to cover up our true self-image, but when we are grateful for everything that God has given us, we will accept all the facts, even this will be the greatest opportunity to know who we are. appearing as it is is a choice to be grateful without having to follow other people's ways.

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2 years ago

As an ordinary human who makes feel every people feel important the way they are, and the feeling of their own importance no matter what the world has to say or what they world has to offer. People need to find their own value be it girls or boys. It's a pity that people these days are so overwhelmed by the social media.

well, the thing you mentioned that it is one of the most beautiful time we are living especially the girls, where we recognizes their importance, where the women are running economy, leading by examples, I have also wrote an article about it by the title "the most wonderful era we live" which was as i recall is among initial 5 articles.

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2 years ago

You always leave a good comment, nothing more to add on this haha

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2 years ago

Then do not add haha:)

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