Why do women always do this?

Why is she shocked, she's receiving a dose of the treatment she dished out when she was in her prime. This is onw of the major reasons why I'm still single till date. Like I don't have the strength to be chasing anybody's daughter around, or try to convince anybody to love you in return. That's bullsh!t. I let it flow naturally, if it ain't working, then so be it. By the way, I love nairaland so much😂. A very interesting faceless forum.

Being a woman, sometimes we act opposite to our emotions and there's a moment that we can realize in a little bet late

I also experienced that kind of situation yung gusto mo lang ng atensyon sa isang guy tapos sinayang mo lahat efforts nya den pag wala na saka mo nalang maisip ang worth nya

I just most of those ladies don't know what they want, they would literally see the person that love them and give them all attentions needed but they brain will just re direct them to someone that doesn't give a sh*t about them

Ok, being a lady too, I would say playing hard to get is not really because the lady is proud but just not to look too cheap. I know of a sister that accepted for a guy almost immediately the guy asked her out and the guy's friends told him to quit the relationship that the girl is not a wife material and she's too cheap. So what exactly do men want?😂

This topic is a bomb and I wish enough of our ladies here will see this 🧐. Playing hard to get is normal and I think it's in their Gene but its excessive is the problem. It was before I used to cling on calling and texting to get attention even in the misdt of snob, but now once you give a slight symptom of snob, I pack my load and go. I don't have strength for too many talks

You wan play hard to get, na for hook up 😂😂😂. When no be say the guy see you for road or outside dey woo you. Orisirisi

I think most ladies are trying to form that they are hard to get 😁😁. In the olden days, you gotta do small shakara before you say yes to the guy😁😁. But I do not like the idea of ignoring your partner or something...

Using the (hard-to-get) strategy is not a good thing since a lady or woman might use it to sway her future husband away. Ladies simply need to be aware of what they do so that they do not have to blame themselves like the woman you stated.

Building our walls higher is much better for us women, I really admired women who's hard to get and really don't let their walls down to a man, and independent woman indeed, but nowadays I see women easy to get gosh or maybe just they love the person, but yeah women have different perspectives about this.

I laughed a lot when I read it :))) Man, women are the same all over the world. Is this possible? Yes, unfortunatelyg. I experienced almost exactly the same thing. I did not receive a response to my calls for almost 10 days. Moreover, a woman I've been seeing for a long time did this. Then she contacted me and when I said I didn't want to meet anymore she tried very hard to get me back. This woman is 32 years old. Women think they are smart by making little games like this. But they don't realize that they look so stupid and lose value. This is sheer nonsense :)))

Right from the time of our mothers, it's part of courtship and biological for a woman to play hard to get at first, although different women have their reasons. A man might think a girl is cheap when she readily agrees to date him on the first toast. It might also be that a guy might change his mind afterall when he sees that the girl is easy to woo and therefore may be more prone to cheating when they finally kick off the relationship. Some guys see this as a motivation to get to know a lady better. But for others, well I think the stresses of being a Nigerian is enough for them and they are not ready to stress themselves more on chasing a woman where you could easily get another one within minimal effort.

I think women who are hurt deeply once become so scared of staring a deep relationship again.. because you know how it is too hard to trust again because going through the hurt again feels like death.. maybe the lady in the story was scared about being committed to the guy

Hahaha, that's the beauty of courting a lady. But it seems men nowadays are short on patience.

Really everyone does wants young boy or girl. Tbh i also want young pretty girls 🥴

Omo, what she did in her 20s, she's still doing it to play hard, later you will see them in Shiloh with people pictures or praying to marry them, and once the person comes, they will be acting like they never prayed for it. What do women actually want? 😂

Bro you should already know women are complex creatures you can never understand them so just try to be navigating anyhow the one you can grab use it the one you don’t understand just move on

All I can say is that "E go shock them!". It's good for a woman to be classy but when it carries disregard and ego, it isn't nice. Life's stress is too much already to be fucking with people's minds.

Haha I am a woman and I know some really are into that . It is because they believe that if the guy is really serious, he would still.pursue her. They wanted to see effort, hehe. Though every woman have different point of views, others even wanted long courship.

I really don't know who told them that's a,way to measure or prove their worth whatsoever

If you are praying to God for a husband, he wouldn't come down to give you a husband. He will send someone and it is left to you to handle the rest.

Age doesn't require you to jump at every man but it is a big mistake to start forming an attitude when she knows the guy is perfect for her.