Will And Jada; What’s Your Take On This?
“what is your take on this issue spreading all social media?”
“What will you do if you where in the place of that scene or in the shoes of Will?”
“Do you feel the reaction was deserving of Chris?”
“How would you feel if your man or woman reacts in that way, or what would be your reaction to the display?”
“What are the take home lessons from Will and Jada?”
I wanted to touch on this, coz I’ve seen commentary on twitter and things like that and some women saying they are really glad Will did that.. And it speaks to a broken place of women based on feelings and taking advantage used or abused but I need to challenge you all today to think about this in a different perspective.. Male or female should never allow their spouses to defend a situation by throwing out physically. You may ask me why is that so?” If someone says that to my woman I shouldn’t physically approach him and lay my hands on him cuz it can affect me and everything attached to me, based on that scene I can lose my livelihood..
“What is protection?”
Chris is a comedian and he was in a place where he would say trash things to a lot of people and being that is the context Will should have known.. “If he was I won’t take this from you” Chris will understand and everyone witnessing that event will get that something had happened that was wrong.. No one should take pride in that, risking everything for a feeling.. I was literally shocked when I saw the video, guess what?” A lot of things has been said in the past and not just at that moment, he reacted too fast and that’s how we do sometimes without realizing the effects..
Imagine fighting in school and someone said something about your mom or someone closer to you and your reaction will be “why the hell he gonna say that to me and the next thing is a punch right on the face” the main lesson we must take home from here is that we must be emotionally intelligent.. If the next person is crazy enough to say a lot to you, what make you think that if you confront him he doesn’t have a weapon right there or a gun to even start with..
We pick up a lot on verbal communication than women, and our reactions are supposedly violent.. in every condition we find ourselves I think it’s necessary to apply wisdom. A single thing that happens will lead to a lot more chaos. You can lose your job, your freedom, and your life too, so don’t go projecting from hurt and pain but just a facial reaction will stop the altercation. Words is something that sends everyone to a dark place and a place where we can’t control what we do or react to..
I’m not against protecting your spouse or family but that ain’t the right way. You saw his reply on world wide television after the slap on his face, he is a man too but decided to hold back and allow it slide but as well sending the message how indecent that was to him and to everyone.
Chris would have as well taken that part out of script but realizing and understand that protecting somebody doesn't have to be physical.. I live in a country where if you pick up a fight the starter might not live to finish the fight, that’s how crazy it is.. I hope we can derive a few pointers from here it might also help you, reacting quickly is very bad and I’m saying this from experience.
I like to know your response to this” Take care and have a lovely day.
The month is ending tomorrow, how excited are you to a new month coming.. March has been so good April will be much better for us all..
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March 30th, 2022
I've seen this one in facebook and I just can't believed at first because I'm a fan of Smith.. But later on I found out. His woman maybe offended and the reason why he executed such act but ..why does it have to be in that moment..he could've settle it after...man to man talk... Thry just created a bad image to the public and ..I still admired them because they get to ask forgiveness from each other..