The True Reality Of A Crazy World!

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3 years ago

Have you been in a relationship and it feels too comfortable but you don’t get the meaning of what is happening... like seriously what is the meaning of this, he touches you in weird places and calls you so many disgusting names...

Please can we have sexual maturity in our age gap, another thing is you need to stop letting grown men or ladies control the narratives. You are going through a lot of pressure to make sure your relationship stands, putting in a different character, going beyond what your believes where..

If you where being called those names by a different person would you take it, I’m sure you’d lift up your hand up to give that person a hot and resounding slap... but because he is the one making the provision, you try to cover up.. I encountered something much worse today and that was the main reason for this topic, judge this case with me..

So a lady came out of a mall and she was walking out with a guy whom I supposed was her boyfriend and the next thing I saw was he pushing her towards a vehicle forcefully pulled up her clothes right in public and it felt like a normal scene as people kept walking past them.. I don’t know if that’s normal to her or to me but it’s not, These character traits won’t stop no matter how hard you try to convince the person about it..

Let me tell you what the problem with the society is, that we stopped using common sense a long time ago and we get to the place where we just start to do everything on the sides of the adversary not knowing that it breaks you completely.. you’ve got to put up boundaries in your relationship.

You’ve got your standards to take this to marriage and suddenly you fall, or you want to just live in peace but that doesn’t work either...

what you’ll do is to fold your arms and watch the humiliation, and watch them call you all manner of things.. I wish I could mention them here but that wouldn’t be allowed.. As humans we have our way with a lot of things and think we can get away with it, it always ends in shame when you are being controlled and you say nothing about it...

life happens and when you have the blue prints of your life, it changes when you meet that person... anything that’s worth having is worth waiting for, I am not a relationship advisor but I’m not going to avoid not saying my displeasure towards this issue.. he calls you a whore, a sex machine and every other unspeakable things..

Your objective shouldn’t change because of a 1 month pleasure you would get.. I’m preaching now stay with me, instead of that why don’t you wait and don’t dive in rough.. he be playing you for weeks and you didn’t notice it.

You’re a damsel, you’re beautiful and no one should harass you publicly like that... That’s just the reality In the word, it feels a lot better when you use every opportunity to cause pain... But this isn’t always normal, most times it’s what we see in pornography or what we have seen physically in our dispensation that comes with a devilish character..

Make sure the person is cleared from any psychological problem before you engage in any relationship, don’t be a slave to anyone...

The lady would have chosen to be free, I still don’t get why she let him do that... but it’s not my case to look into, maybe she has a different taste entirely... in as much as that area was public then I doubt if she was truly knowing what she’s doing...

Thank you for getting to this point, and it looks as if I’m a bit all over the place... sorry about that.

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Staying in an unhealthy relationship would just ruin your life and wasting your time. It's not easy though, I can't judge the girl coz he maybe love the boy. One day when she realizes her worth, she would definitely sacrifice the love and chose her life.

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3 years ago

It seems that there are people who like to be mistreated, it sounds like masochists, but in a real relationship there must be mutual respect.

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3 years ago

I really think that scene is horrible. We should be aware that no one has the right to offend us, not even our partner. Nowadays there are many very toxic relationships, where in the end everything ends in tragedy.

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3 years ago

It's about knowing one's worth. She doesn't value herself, if she does she won't allow a guy treat her so bad in public

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3 years ago

Exactly... something was definitely missing in the whole scene and that was her worth and sanity... it’s really a bad one

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3 years ago

I think the relationship is toxic no respect for the other partner. but is not easy to let go. Even the strongest people can find themselves in a toxic relationship but the longer they stay, the more they are likely to evolve into someone who is a smaller, less confident, more wounded version of the person they used to be.

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3 years ago

Emotional struggle and it’s not as if she wouldn’t want so deeply to pull out but the mind is one hell of an influence... I love your point on evolving into something different..

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3 years ago

I don't know much about relationship between opposite gender but what I know is that a man with psychological problems does not always accept it and would like to change. Why I said that was because you mentioned pornography , there is a man here who almost damaged his wife's organ because he is addicted to watching porno Common sense in morals isls hard to find these days

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3 years ago

This is horrifying... he has taking up the act already, I pity the one actually suffering from it.. he seriously needs help.. it will go a long way if we exhibit just the right character

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3 years ago

Any form of abuse once sighted should be dealt with instead of waiting cause it will get to a point it will be hard to handle it or get out of it, and most people stay in relationships like that because they are trying to maintain it, they don't want to Start all over, I just feel its not worth it.

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3 years ago

In few days or weeks the relationship will crumble... self worth is very important

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3 years ago

I feel sorry for her being treated that way in public. I hope she gets out of that situation the soonest or maybe clear things out so she wont be treated that way again.

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3 years ago

I do hope so too.. it was terrible as I didn’t wait too much to see what happened after.. speech and character is one thing that when it’s messed up, it’s hard.

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3 years ago

I think this is not love at all, but pleasure. The problem is in the both of them; if boy knows how to respect and if the girl knows her worth.

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3 years ago

Self worth is essential... and to that level I feel she wasn’t happy about it, but had to hide it

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3 years ago

Relationship matters can't be talked about to the end. Is based on what you are seeing that you used to talk while some people are blinded by love that they won't know what their partner is doing to them is not pleasing

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3 years ago

Blinded by this same love.. I really do feel for everyone under this condition pretending that it’s fun..

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3 years ago

Physical, mental and emotional abuse are being more normalised these days in relationships. Sometimes it isn't easy to leave an abusive relationship although it seems so. Those who've been in one would understand.

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3 years ago

It’s really the new okay relationship now as people don’t regard their self anymore.. it’s not easy but we must make our stance on them

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3 years ago

You gave me a topic on this your article, and I will do justice to it. It's painful seeing ladies suffer in their so-called boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. When the relationship is not going well, why not quit? But because common sense is not common.

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3 years ago

I read it and I loved it... so many meaning from yours.. thank you brother

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3 years ago

Such things happen either due to something called 'love is blind ' or you are not able to react to the situation immediately, due to various issues. Truly said, Instead of having an immediate partner wait for someone worth for you to come.

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3 years ago

Very well written, like the truth be told waiting is just the best, because the psychological torture one would face will be a lot more... Thank you for this

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3 years ago

Maintaining these relationships is very complicated, abusers generally hide their acts over good deeds, or have the power to manipulate and confuse the other person, although generally it is common for the man to be the manipulator, there are also many cases of women who they do.

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3 years ago

It goes for both sides and that was why I didn’t base on just one.. I have seen it happen, so many relationship aren’t just right... I just wish anyone faced with this will come to a realization that it’s not just worth it

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3 years ago

If I were that lady mentioned above, I will leave my partner right away. I deserved to be loved and protected not harmed.

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3 years ago

Exactly.. I was outrightly thinking the same way.. totally not worth it at all..

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3 years ago

Sometimes Oreo people get into relationships because of what they can get. It could be there is something she is getting from the guy that makes her endure such public humiliation

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3 years ago

Definitely.. it’s all in the money and nothing else... it all comes through and then it’s late already.. Thank for coming by dozie

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3 years ago

There's no need to rush into relationship with someone you're not okay with. Why not wait? Or even if you're in the wrong relationship, don't be afraid to back out

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3 years ago

Very true sir... I really don’t get why someone being abused still stays than backing out.. hopefully people realize this

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3 years ago

Love is blind. Lol

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3 years ago

Every society is the same. They will question you every time. The query will never end. Are you facing it dear?

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3 years ago

Very true it happens literally everywhere... not really though but I watched it happen

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3 years ago

Most relationship it's controlled by the guy's pocket and most ladies can't leave a guy before he calls them disgusting names, they think that if they leave the guy, they won't have extra money as they use to.

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3 years ago

Exactly it’s all built on benefits... I was really troubled by what happened it was so not normal..

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3 years ago

Communication is the key on a relationship. My relationship was a quite shaky for the past few weeks because of lost of communication. Now, we tried to communicate as much as we can.

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3 years ago

I’m glad you both worked it out and now happy... communication is key, if she had said no to that, obviously he would stop., thank you

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3 years ago