"Should You Speak The Truth Even When It Hurts The Recipient?"

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"Why do you have an excuse to judge me from my mistakes as if you weren't flawed just like me? As if you didn't say something and the same time contradict yourself with your actions, trust me I will rather tell you about what you want to hear.. so the question is "where do I see myself in the next 5 to 10 years?"

Sometimes it doesn't matter how many times you fail, you can fail like a million times but all it takes is just one success to make you forget about all those failures. So its something I should probably have about answer to, but really I have no straight idea because I haven't really re-evaluated and although writing wasn't one of then in the first place but I'm going revolve around it and build my personal finance and add it to that as we improve educational aspect where I can work with people more directly to build foundation even earlier.

It's so easy to say I'm going to die then all but at what cost, what if my hard work doesn't equal my success and then I can't further my ideas or goals. So I'm willing to push myself further to establish something not withstanding every penny I have made so far and the further drive in development in some years from now. I think once you start investing and understanding what your risk tolerance is, you start focusing more on a long term basis because you'd feel this level of uncertainty and question your idea if that will be the best path to take and that feeling never really goes away.

Condition our mindset to always create for more, but due to the fact that its hard to work that way in the next 5 to 10 years analyses the obstacles and the barriers then re-establish a concrete support and when everything seems to be hard and doesn't go our way that will be available to get us going. It may not take that number of years, maybe more or less so if you fail while trying do not give up.

Always a side of advantage and disadvantages to anything so in several ways this is up to us. So in simple steps,

Tactics

Have you been in a place before and you hear the sound of gun shot, then you start running immediately then suddenly you are faced with two road connection and you can't tell where is safe.. that's how life troubles are, you keep going everything is smooth and immediately you hit a road block that requires your zeal and your profound ability to cross over... what do you do?

Think of other ways of bringing those things together, have I really done my research enough towards this. Go back to the drawing board, your real life goals could be different from mine but whatsoever you feel you can achieve within that year either through investing or business do the maths again and this time try to tell yourself that time isn't there to waste anymore..

Break up or Fracture

This is very easy to do, break it up and fix it back.. analyses the future usefulness, the quality, the content, and the long run statistics... well I know some crypto geniuses that would study the hell out of anything. This will simplify the process and give you a better understanding to what you have planned to do.

Don't stop

If it gets harder, do not stop. You didn't hear this first from me, neither will it be the last time you'll hear this but the more you choose to give up someone else will pick up that same plan and make it better than you do... if you really want to be better then be optimistic.

Maintain

Maintain your level of mentality, don't say because someone is doing great than you are that you are just not it or I can't do this all by myself. That is a negative mindset, do not compare and do not stop the process till its completed.. feed it, cause its normal to feed a plant to make it grow very well.. so give it full force and make provision when neccessary..

In conclusion

It may sound weird when someone ask you this question amd even suggest to you, but that person is really showing you love that no one on earth will.. don't take any question asked too personal but learn from them..

Thank you for reading.. I haven't been to well today but I really wanted to drop this..

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Thank you for the reminder, it is easy to forget , it is easy to give up . Like you advised, we maintain our strength, set short achievable goals, I don't give up 🙌. I trust you are better now, health wise?

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We all know that life is hard. You only remind us all to "don't stop" and remain positive in all situation. No matter how hard it gets. The "mentality", I like it! "Do not compare", its a wonderful word of the day. I'm glad I dropped by on your piece. Get better soon!

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So educating! I have to say that breaking to fix it back up does make a lot of sense to me and it seems like you were talking to me. Thanks for the article!

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That's nice I'm glad you gained something from it..

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Honesty is the best policy no matter what, especially honesty towards oneself.

This is a good article and full of good advice. I hope you feel better soon.

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Honesty is very important, we must tell ourselves the simple truth.. I'm much better now thanks Rebeysa

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Success is not a day work, infact it will get to a certain stage in that you'll feel so frustrated along the way.

Sometimes when we ask people that question, they find it difficult to answer because they have no plans for the future. In the next 5 to 10 years , I believe I will be moving closer to dreams in the crypto world, in the next ten years I want to see myself becoming that great woman of my dream , A Philanthropist that will be able to touch the life of people around me.

Like in the next ten years I want to become that singer , so that my voice will be heard all over the world. I believe it's possible and I can't wait for it to happen.

Errrrrrrrrr, it's has easier said than done, the most important thing is to make action , definitely I will encounter challenges in my way , so many failure to encounter but my passion gives me the motive to keep pushing. Push- Until-Something-Happen.

I've got to live with that and that why I hardly give up on any project i embark on, stopping along the like will make no meaning for, because some people around me will definitely pick it up from where I stop, in this case, laying the foundation is not the main issue but the ability to complete the project.

Even when you decide to quit, did you know the challenges attached to the one you're craving to get , there's no way to success that is broad, you have to pass through the tiny road till you'll gain the comfort you deserve.

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This particular question was asked in an interview once "where do you see yourself in the next 10 years" . It took me by surprise because i can't say i have something planned for the future already. I can't even remember my answers but i know it took me off guard .

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I would feel the same way too.. like melt down completely, because I'm still clueless on what and how it would be...

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This question is really a tricky one most especially on interviews (because I don't know if it's a personal or job related question) but whenever I got that question from my interviewer, I always answered it personally. I will always be honest with them to that and it really depends on how they will accept it 😅

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I think its better to be open regardless of the condition.. it will go a long way. Thank you 💛

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Knowing what you want and what you need is a big balance for you to achieve your goals, you won't be deceived by anyone that want to be little your hustle

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We really have to work on ourselves.. if we set our hearts toward our goals it will be very hard for anyone or anything to come in between...

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No matter what happens, I will tell the truth. The recipient may get hurt but in the end it will only help us both.

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That's very true, the truth still remains the truth and nothing can change that..

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Everything depends on Balance at the end... good thoughts or bad, there should be a balance which you mentioned as "Mentality" here..I also call it as approach.. because we humans cannot control emotions whatsoever.. but we can control how can we react to them and that is more important...

and about your Title, yes.. even though it sounds like "lie" is a bad thing but certain lies are necessary to avoid wars.. like one time my brother ate my chocolate but my Mom lied to me about it and said there was not chocolate in fridge in first place.. that avoided a nuclear war between me and my brother...

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Very true Bhargi, so many things could be avoided if not told, but at the same time could be very painful if known later... a balance is very important and I really appreciate your write up.. your mum actually wanted to maintain peace..

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Haha yeah, but I found out later that it was my brother who ate that because he confessed later that night, but by that time, I lost my anger and didn't even care about it.. so maybe, to control anger, one might lie for "that moment" however, it is always better to confess one time or the other

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Ooh yeah, I think he knew you won't be angry anymore... observe before spilling, very important... I would have loved to see your face when he told you the truth 😄😄

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Hahahaha I rolled my eyes into other dimension 😄😄

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😂😂😂..

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Good day/night to you King :)

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Thank you dear, I was about going to bed... Good night 💛...

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Sometimes, I wonder if the connection between hard work success can ever be broken by another factor. Despite the relevance hard work and little success to account for, we should still keep up the pace and work towards achieving our goals.

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There's actually nothing that can separate that bond, its tighter than anything .... we must work better to see good results.

Thanks a lot.

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We also have to make sure that the ideas and goals can be put into realization. It's hard to realize something that isn't realizable in the first place. On one hand, we should not allow negativity to foster in our mind. I know it's inevitable but atleast learn how to fight that negative thoughts. Good thing I came across with your article @King_Gozie! Get well soon!

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Thank you for coming through... its inevitable but immediately we let it into our minds and thoughts we can't move any further than where we already are...

Nice comment.

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We shouldn't give up even if we fail a million times,we should have the mindset that the beginning is always the hardest so we should fasten ourselves and plan to make it one day.

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The beginning is now, whatsoever we can do now determines what will be years from now... failure is inevitable but we must strive to be better..

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You're right...we should strive harder and look up to the future,we should just make plans for the future even if we fail now it doesn't mean we aren't going to win one day.

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I agree that maintaining mentality is a must because we can't keep motivation at all times but if we have the right mentality we can pull ourselves back on track to keep going despite of countless failures.

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I live what you wrote on pulling ourselves back... if only we could be our own motivation at the point of giving up and understand the importance of winning, then I think we would go far..

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You were correct, we ought to keep up with our mindset, great morning to you my companion. It is truly difficult to confront impediments particularly when you have been bombing ordinarily. Yet, there could be no reverse way around except for to continue to continue on, those are extraordinary advances.

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Sorry I just read this now, hope your day was blissful... when we meet a stumbling block, its so hard to push through.. like far back in my life it was all because of one certain draw back that caused me so much. In all of this we have to continue just the way you wrote it..

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You were right, we should maintain our mentality..even though we works so slow the important is we are moving.

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Very true Garreth, it's not about how far but how well do we want to get better..

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The truth should always be told that even if it hurts him for a short time, it can help him later.

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There are two impacts to this and I'll side with one for now, it would hurt but it's better to tell..

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The truth, it always has to be direct and blunt, even if it hurts. It cannot be hidden. The lie has short legs.

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It is really hard to face obstacles especially when you have been failing many times. But there is no other way around but to keep on moving on. Those are great steps.

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3 years ago

You brought this topic to life, its seriously hard when faced with a problem but I do hope that we know the due dates towards everything and work harder

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3 years ago

I've read many of your articles, it's always full of words of wisdom. Thanks for this.

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3 years ago

Thank you success for always coming through..

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3 years ago

People can do things they said they would never do when circumstances change. Each experience brings a different perspective.

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Very true, we are more understanding at every stage we get to.. problems can make one go the extra mile. I navigated to your point a lot..

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