Self Development Starts With You

You might need to slow down a bit in your development coz that’s when it becomes constant, when you try to work out so many thing it could be in trying to stop a habit or an addiction or trying to work on your skill or approach to anything.. when you try to implement multiple things at the same time you will revert back because you may need to take it up one by one. Start with the first thing you need to critically come out of or you need to see progress faster, then when that is done you can move on to the next… It takes time but you will need patience..

The biggest issue generally is trying to copy someone who has gone through the same thing and you feel yours ain’t coming forth like it should… Do not rush self development, you don’t know how long it was for that person or what is going on behind the scenes so if it’s something you need to talk to people about please do even though they will always help you to the extent where you’re willing to help yourself, you are going to have to go down into your shadows and learn to love those part of yourself that you may have repressed…

What do you need to eliminate and what are you also trying to illuminate, When you don't know who you are, what if I told you that this is the best time to unleash who you want to become.. it's the feeling you would have when all others around you are doing something and you don't have anything pleasing.. your work can be purpose, a dream can be a purpose, your hubby can be your purpose, your service can be your purpose, your mind gesture can be your purpose... When you get transformed, the next thing is a follow up and every other thing will fall in place.. my way of finding fulfilment is to be myself.. it takes one step back to deviate from the sketched plan. These last few days, my life felt like I was living in help.. I was questioning my choices and what will be my end point with the decisions made so far..

So in the struggle to develop try to work on yourself like the form of a race where you have to complete a lap before the next and when it’s all completed you feel happy that you have crossed the finish line…. It takes the brave to conquer every obstacle and still pick up from that moment onward.. I’m still in the stage on fully understanding the area that I want to focus on developing and when that’s done I move on to either eliminate or illuminate…

I'm not the best in what I do, but the struggle within will always make me distinct and so is you.. Make sure you don't see everything you've been true as a failure, its the right moment to work harder and love everything you make or the results hence forth.. Take good care of yourself and thanks for reading, There have been quite a lot going on recently and I needed some space to get through with it I feel a lot better mentally…

I’m so sorry if I haven’t been consistent but I try so hard to do hope I’ll be forgiven by my dear friends… take on self development, any area you wish to be better it’s time to get on with it.. Don’t listen to words that says “you can’t get higher or you can’t pass through this stage of life” and lastly I wish you the best..

February 17th, 2022