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People Don’t Understand When You Are A Walking Testimony
Not everyone will understand your process and pattern, and a lot of times people don’t want you to talk about the money you earn or the success you’ve had, the accolades and the things you’ve accomplished and people don’t want to hear mention it because they call it bragging.. The reason why is because hearing about the things you’re happy about, hearing about your success makes those particular people feel less about their life and that’s a personal problem but when you share something good and it’s from the right place not to make anybody feel bad and it’s not also to put anybody down but it’s because you genuinely happy. You are truly happy with the results with whatever it is in your heart because you know outrightly speaking you could have been homeless, you could have been dead, you could have been lost without a course and you can’t feel bad about your growth and also when you are changing for the better, you can’t feel bad about celebrating your wins as long as your heart is in the right place when you do it. A lot of people wouldn’t understand that either, but you are I n control of what defines your life, your gifts and your purpose... you’re still figuring the will for your life and you’re gotta be okay understanding not everybody’s going to understand or get it or even like you what you will represent is who you are intended to be for and be okay with it... Some people you meet along the way are going to judge based on their insecurities and people will confuse your selfless act for arrogance, but it’s really a reflection of how they see themselves and not you. When you are always explaining you’d get tired because more questions begat more and more... And when they try to tell you what you ought to do irrespective of it being your struggle, you then have to look at your image directly at the mirror and define your happiness, joy and life.. Appreciate those who do understand that you’re only trying to help them get to their peak, and your testimony is only to maintain the mission and not to alter it, and those who will support will and respect your process always.. So please do not envy but rather find contentment and peace in whatever season you’re in and even when you earn little or close to nothing you have a conviction that it will work together for your good... For writers on here, you see them keeping us updated, the main reason is to let you understand the process and also coach you towards the right path... learn to understand the message within and you will equally win and stay winning... ***In Conclusion, celebrate with whomever that is thankful for holding on this long and always see their process as an open door to get to yours...*** God bless you my friends... Happy weekend. `you always know I appreciate you all for your support... Thanks for showing up...` ***November 2021***
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A great day to start my day is to read this, sir. Thank you for the inspirational article.
You’re welcome... you’re really amazing, thank you 💛
No, you're amazing sir. You inspire us a lot
I respect the grace of God in people's life, it's one reason I don't hate your progress, Cause God is the main and most powerful source of power, he too is doing mine.
The mindset needs to change, we are always eligible for the things we wished for but we must be cautious not to miss out on them... I do respect his grace as well
I realized that not all people will going to be happy about your success. Especially those relatives of mine that don’t want to see me succeed in life. Life is really tough for me but here I am now, making the best of my life in my 20 and I will be successful no matter what!
Not everybody will be cool to your success, it’s amazing how your relatives could say and do such... you’re a damsel dear and nobody can take that away or say otherwise.. I love your courage and all you imagine and wish to be will come through...
It's not your problem if people responded that way seeing you brag than be inspired. It's there attitude that's wrong not yours. But sometimes too you need to say it in the right time and the right place in order to not sound off. It's important to be humble too. Sometimes insecure people tend to feel bad of others success. That is why I don't tell mine unless they ask for it.
Very true.. Timing is very important in everything we say and do, people see the slightest glory as one being too proud... That’s the mentality that lies with one, so tame that side of you and be wise..
I would agree more.
I do not understand those people who never gets satisfied with what they have and still feel envy with the success of others. Though they know that it's the fruit of their hard-works, complementing their success seems a Crime for people who has a crab mentality. That's why sometimes, I feel that maybe it would be better if I just keep my Achievements in silence so nobody feel insecure.
Insecurities are a huge problem, take for example my first earning on read.cash was 5$ and when I sent that to my status everyone started hating... Said all sort of things, but I never listened to them because every big milestone comes more troubles from people around you...
This is accurate. We should clap for others as they achieve victory. Learn from them and be inspired by them. Meanwhile, let us be contented with our pace and work harder and pray for our own victory and not spend time thinking and envying about others.
Contentment... You have said it all Mura, instead of doing all manner of things out of jealousy and envy we can try to work more harder to get better.. God bless you, it came at the right timing
It is very normal to have people that won't be happy with your success. I could remember hearing the story of a woman who had surgery, she gave testimony to appreciate God for the healing. But after a few weeks, she was back in the surgery room because the illness returned. People that celebrated with her but we're not happy with her healing were happy she got I'll again. The way out is, celebrate your wins in as little way as you can. Do not be bothered by peoples thoughts of you.
Wow... This is seriously the reality of what and how people would react after a success story and it’s bad.. Very important to be cautious in every thing we do and try to know the right timing to do that... We can’t post earnings here when you know rustys visit isn’t much it will create hate amongst people..
It actually depends on you. You can post your earnings if you are comfortable with it. You don't have to bother about any one's thought over your success.
Very true dear... it’s anyone’s Choice to.. Have a nice weekend
Yes this true , a friend of my call them "enemies of progress" , it is normal to have enemies when you achieve success we just need to be prayerful and careful , great job boss 💯
Praying is key, we have them a lot never try to expose everything to the people you know aren’t always happy with you
Yes praying is the key, thanks so much for your reply
I haven't posted something for days because I've felt a bit unmotivated. I have associated the visit of our green friend as a seal of quality, which means doing things well. Not receiving it I felt bad, but in the midst of all that, I have read the great achievements of many here, I even exchanged words with @coquicoin and they were very useful, it encourages me to continue on my way, to enjoy the platform and how about a form or another, success will come, her wise words made me reflect a lot. Today I read your article and it is another message that fills me with hope, I am still in my days of not publishing, but I will surely return soon. Thank you for the message that you leave expressed.
Hey, you aren't giving up, eh You can take some days. You can go for a quick ride. But you are requested on tha house. So don't dare to surrender.
Thank you for helping him out... through this period... I would feel same way.
Please you’ve got to come back and be strong and optimistic that things will get better... I’m happy Coin was there to help you get through with it.. our good friend rusty will visit you again, please cheer up...
Jealous people don't know how to be happy for others. They will call it bragging when they can't achieve what you can and pull you down with them. Please beware of this kind of people.
There are scenarios when people go as far making sure you don’t get what you ought to get anymore out of jealousy... You’d see them carrying lies even to your spouse or to your bosses.. it’s very bad
Jealousy to me is one of the greatest vices as this is what made made mankind cast uppon the earth and made the devil become the devil, the first sin to have ever been committed. At the end of the day, being jealous of people's acheivment is just like drinking poison and expecting someone else to die.
Once you're different from the status quo, people are bound to just dislike and hate you. Doing things not minding how people will react or seeking their approval is always the best way to live life
Each of us has our own different life situations,that’s is why everyone also have different struggles each day,and sometimes they can let it out by their moods and actions ,and as a responsible citizen,we should not judge people around us ,for everything we did or happens for a reason.
It is the person that wears the shoe that knows where it itches. People most times don't understand what you are actually going through
Exactly... it hurts more to the ones actually being envied, because all that is seen is just the physical appearance and not the hard work and suffering...
Imagine being more concerned with the needs of others than with your own needs and they sense it as arrogance but we shouldn't allow that affect us, just continue doing what you doing which is helping others
The fact that people see that as offensive is really saddening, but timing is also very important in everything...
we should treasure and appreciate those people who were always there with us, understand and treat us as friends and not a competitor. Helping each other to achieve our desired goals without dragging someone down.
When there is a common goal it counters every jealousy and any form of hate... if someone is trying to help, we have to see it the way it and not other wise... Happy weekend Jinifer
Thought provoking, we should always be thankful and appreciatable towards the right people... awesome as always
Thank you... instead of carrying a lot within us, we can just rejoice over their success instead of hating.. Thanks again for the Halloween gift 💛
Means that quote was true. "Don't share your success with others because people don't want to listen" Only share your depression with them because people take it as motivation with thinking that he is also like me. Nowadays people easily get jealous of other successes just because now everyone wants luxurious life. Well, no one really understands what you are going through.
For me sharing your depression is not the solution, but you are right on the other half that a lot get jealous when you tell them your success story... We just need to be much more careful whom we share these things with...
This is the world we found ourselves, peak of jealousy on other people's progress. I think that's the way the world was created or maybe the devil filtered that into the planet. But Truth be told, just like you mentioned, other people's success should be a pathway to follow and not to unleash jealousy. I write-up said "if God visit your neighbor, don't be envious because God is still within the vicinity". Nice one boss🙌
People will never understand what I desire, what I want & what makes me happy.
What is it that you truly desire, my friend?
The world is full of people whose love for the rest others have cooled off. The jealousy is now a common thing all over the world where we find ourselves.
It’s completely all around us and people get consumed with envy at the site of progress... whilst the main idea wasn’t to cause problems but to help in the growth mindset... good write up
You are so right my friend!
Thank you
This is the reason why i wanted to stop the monthly report i do write. But my stubborn head won't allow me😂I want to show someone that posting monthly report doesn't make you immature. I love reading people's own so i don't mind.
It isn’t bad to, I do enjoy it as well and reflect on the areas I fall short on... it’s a good experience overall
Those people always exist 😅😅they don't want to see anyone be happy because their life isn't good or maybe they are just what they are. (Selfish) 😅
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