This is a question for you, do you only get attention when you let someone know you exist... when people aren’t giving you some gratitude it goes beyond being ungrateful, people who ignore or treat you worse even after putting in your effort are really not deserving of you and likewise you to them. That person is truly toxic to you, you’ve got to stay at a distance rather than having your life on the line then he or she calls it just anything..
Anyone can do that to you, then another picture of this... as a person do not force anything into anyone’s life that does not benefit them because everyone needs to elevate to the level you’re working on but if they choose not to then please that’s not a place for you.. you deserve respect, you deserve the love, and being who you are is your choice to make and no one should tell you not to be that.
what I notice in this world is most people are greedy, most people are selfish and self centered and that’s what I realized, be honest with yourself look at this way.. as the blessings and glory doesn’t always come from man but from God.. so when you are honest in your service God sees your heart and he will reward you and give you blessings you did not even ask for.
Because of how you are and because of the position where your heart is, you’d get even more than a usual payment or a recognition... and people who don’t see that are always wondering when you’ll confront them to get it. You don’t need to fight your way to be noticed, your hard work will always single you out by the right people...
Telling people will only make you look desperate and seeking attention, but if you do that based on the fact that you both are in a relationship it may not really be the right kind of solution..
If he or she doesn’t see how brilliant and hard working you are, telling them wouldn’t change or solve anything... the first question you need to ask yourself, “Is the love still there? Sometimes you don’t even get back the love you give out, it’s already fading but still you give it your full 100 percent.. You can’t get far in life by an attitude of lack, everyone who sees what you do daily needs to have an attitude of gratitude at least..
I heard a story of a man who served his boss for a very long time faithfully, like ran errands gave concrete account and did supervision all through the many years he stayed with his boss and the promising year where he would be released to stand on his own he wasn’t appreciated well enough with the finances he needed to do that... so people don’t get to be better at you cause you served them better, that’s just the mentality of so many... but even regardless you are surviving without their impact on your life...
Just saying two words ‘Thank you’ will go really far, you may not show love or receive love for doing what you do, but a little bit of appreciation is really deserving... If God can remember you when you serve him, and blesses you abundantly for that, anyone whom you force your affection on will only make you more unhappy because he is not the right person to be with.
You worth more than the level they place you at, do not stop being amazing.. you will be recognized by even the people you’ve never had a communication with before... So cheer up and never stop..
After putting in much efforts, someone will still end up telling you to be more hard working at work.. What more energy do you want to add into it again, if you keep adding more and more it will still back fire as no one will notice that you’re trying.. so far it is only the deceptive and dishonest behaviors that are likely to get supported and rewarded it’s so hard... But to you, you hardly ever forget those that have contributed to help you... do not be weary as the right timing for your recognition will approach soon..
Thank you for reading through... this was meant to be published yesterday but I wasn’t feeling too fine to compete it.. I hope the little message will be passed across.. God bless you.
I won’t forget my awesome and amazing sponsors, without you all I wouldn’t have gone this far thank you..
November 2021
People underestimate the power of a simple thank you. To be recognized and thanked just by those two words can be amazing to someone.