People could tell you stories of being 100 percent faithful and being accused of cheating by their significant other to no end and you’d be like what in world is this, when I have given you any inclination that I would cheat on you.... ‘what in world’. And then you probably need to remind yourself that you were completely faithful, treated that person like a Queen or a King but still getting beat on, cheated on and they are still faithful to their partner..
The adversary don’t care who you are, don’t care how you’ve been together, how long you love your job, he gonna plant those thoughts to make you uneasy. You will notice that’s you just get upset for every little thing happening in your life and right they when those crazy things roam through, you do not want have it unleashed to anyone coz you could really do the worst with every advantage you can get..
You have to admit that you still need to work on your ability to process a lot of things and never you riding with something different than what you can’t control. Have you this feeling if wanting to just strangle someone at work, like when you work really hard all day and you boss or senior colleague says “what have you been doing all day?” And you have been attending to the same persons request, you would only not hesitate because a sack letter awaits you if you do..
Where I’m navigating today is to learn to control the other side of you, a side that doesn’t hear calm down or let it slide... we’ve all had them, anyone who dares come close to you will have himself or herself to blame for that... instead of thinking towards how you could make someone’s like a living hell why not talk to God about it, and allow him do his work and make it right.
If you can’t tolerate your partner, your superiors, your parents, your siblings then why don’t you leave that place at that minute to avoid saying or doing what you ought not to. Even when they say a lot, yes it’s supposed to be this way and you should flare up because anything that happens beyond that will be your loss..
So ask God to give a higher level of peace, that’s kind of peace that ensures and take the side of a different approach... it’s like when you know who that person is, you understand the condition he or she goes through daily you really don’t need to add much more problem in to it. Separate yourself from being just a grown boy to being a matured man, and you don’t process like a kid would it like any crazy person would.
So please shift your mindset, and say guess what I can’t living a prisoner of my own self because it doesn’t always take 10minute that was just my exaggeration so you need not be a prisoner to stress, to insecurities, to worry and all what not so you tell yourself that... So if your wife or anyone is out there late, why will your mind allow the devil play games on you that they are out there doing something crazy.. So for those with the negative mindset, stop it you are really thinking a lot... Commit the situation and stop a false condition..
Thank you for reading through... Happy new week, I ought to have published this yesterday but I was really weak through all of the stress..
These are my favorite people in the world, thanks for being amazing
November 2021
Whenever you are angry, you should take a walk because you might end up saying things you will later regret after.
Though being silent does not mean you should act like a fool and be a dunce. Neither am I saying that one should keep quiet when things are not going well, but there are better ways one can do things and it will not lead to any problem.