Too much attention on physical look

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My discussion today will centre on how we attach meanings to being beautiful or handsome. Most of us see being handsome or beautiful as the overall best attribute to attain on planet earth.

To make this more interesting;

I came across a thread on nairaland about a guy complaining on how he feels when he sees a more finer person than him. It's weird, right? I was shocked to read it too because I think it's only ladies that feel that way when they see a more beautiful lady than them.

He said he's not ugly but when he sees someone more finer than him with the way he looks or dresses and the way people wish to be him, he gets jealous and want to be like the person. He went further to accuse God of being partial in creating some people more finer.

"I won't say I'm ugly let's just am an average looking guy, every time I get to see boys who are handsome or finer than me I get moody, angry and jealous about their looks...the way people stare at them and wish they are their friends.

I had an issue with one the other time just a minor misunderstanding I took it to another level... which was very wrong of me.

God is to be blamed, why did he create some people normal and the other better looking..and yet they say he is not a partial God"

You see how far People are taking this beauty of a thing to? I can't believe it that a guy would be thinking like this on himself, that's 100% low self esteem at work.

But what's the essence of being handsome or beautiful?

No doubt being fine makes you attractive to the opposite sex for relationship or marriage and to a little extent gives advantage to some job criteria such as front desk officers, customer care in some organisations that considers that. But to a large scale, being beautiful or handsome is as good as useless. Why do I say so?

First of all, what's being beautiful or handsome? For all I know, no one is ugly in the presence of good maintenance. What makes a lot of people look "ugly" is typically lack of maintenance and that's as a result of lack of finance. I know of a popular comedian in my country that ladies baffle at his transformation till today. He was in the league of the most ugly during his struggling stage but now, he looks takeaway😍.

Let's look at these:

We know a lot of people that are termed "ugly" but still marry the most beautiful ladies on earth. I should mention name? You know Oshomole? God and check his wife. What of Obansanjo? Go and check his wife as well...(These people mentioned are Nigerians politicinas that are physically ugly looking but married beautiful wives).

When you have money, you're good & fine and your physical appearance doesn't count anymore. With this you can attract anyone and any JOB/project as well.

When you have fame, you're fine. People find you attractive no matter the odd appearance. A typical example is one of our current most controversial artist, Portable the Zazu crooner. You needed to see how beautiful girls fall and trip for him with his "ugly" looks.

When you're are generous, you get attractive to anyone. You becomes fine in the eyes of the People. They no longer see your physical appearance but your kind heart.

When you're intelligent and have manners you're seen as finest. You've head the common saying with "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder".

I'm among the people that considers this category has being beautiful or handsome. Like I usually say while commenting on some of your articles how I can't find myself dating an "olodo"(dullard). If you like, look like a mermaid but lacks some basics of intelligence, count me out. I see every lady here writting to earn as intelligent and beautiful.

I've seen where in the misdt four Ladies as friends, three among them, beautiful but the ugly one got married before the three, just think deep into that🤔.

Conclusion

Being beautiful or handsome physically doesn't add anything major to you aside being attracted to some people that fancy you,,, which is good too , but the real fineness lies in your real self, your life as a whole.

Also, if you're having low self esteem because your physical appearance is not appealing to you, then you're very wrong. Let me shock you, even with that your look, someone is secretly admiring you...yes, if you're a lady reading the this, I'm admiring you❤️.

This was originally published on blurt

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12th August 2022

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