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I'm Single and I Love It ***Being single does not imply that you are unattractive or unpopular. It indicates that you have the patience to wait for what you deserve. While enjoying yourself as a single woman, take some time considering what you want your life to be and who you want to spend it with.***

I have read @dziefem's Emotionally Taken article, which was all about being single. Since we're both single, I can relate to some of her remarks and views. Thanks to ate @Eylz2021 's Questions and Singles article for kicking off this fun and exciting challenge for singles out there. https://read.cash/@dziefem/emotionally-taken-028d5004 https://read.cash/@Eylz2021/questions-and-singles-b3dcc289 So, I'd want to share my entry with you as well. **Here are the following questions that I chose.** How come you’re not dating anyone?

https://images.app.goo.gl/KiudQ45kqX5pxubi6 How come I'm not dating anyone? It's because I don't want to. I haven't dated anyone, not a single one. But I do sometimes entertain someone but am not open to a relationship. I don't want them to waste their time on me and I don't want to waste my time on someone that I know I don't want to be with. It may sound rude, but so be it. I'm not fond of flowery and sugar-coated words. It's better to tell someone directly and frankly that you're not into them than to give someone hope when you yourself know that you can't reciprocate their love towards you.   Does it bother you that your friends are engaged/married?

https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=https%3A%2F%2Finspirationfeed.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2020%2F07%2FSingle-Meme26.jpg&imgrefurl=https%3A%2F%2Finspirationfeed.com%2Fsingle-memes%2F&tbnid=463KsjLtEREL4M&vet=1&docid=4FXfrDvaq76unM&w=720&h=604&hl=en&source=sh%2Fx%2Fim No. Not at all. Well, in fact, most of my friends already have their own families and babies. And it doesn't affect our friendship though. We're all **Ninangs** and **Ninongs** to their babies (*Godfather* and *Godmother*). The whole squad will always get together when there are occasions like my friend's baby's baptismal or birthdays. And once we're all gathered together, we're back to being teenagers again, like high school students. Remembering our stupid and crazy stuff we did when we were in high school.   Do you think you’re being too picky?

https://images.app.goo.gl/WCPXBkHCkBNjtbAfA Lmao, I guess? Speaking of being picky. Some say that I'm too picky when it comes to the guy I like, lol. Just because I didn't pick you doesn't mean I'm already picky about everyone else. (*Ulol, hindi ka lang sinagot kung ano ano na pinagsasabi mo*). Well, in fact, there's nothing wrong with being picky. It's just that some people misunderstand the word picky. Who would've picked someone they didn't like at all? Why force yourself to be with someone you don't even like in the first place? Pick someone whom you can trust and be with forever. Not that someone who's only good at the beginning. So how long have you been single?

Oh. I'm a loud and proud **NBSB**, *No Boyfriend Since Birth* here. Yas, you read it right. I didn't get jealous of other girls out there, especially those young ones hanging out with their boyfriends. lol not at all. Why would I, I have myself tho. I haven't been in a relationship since I was born on this planet earth. I almost had one, but luckily the inner me had said "No" to that person. I'm wise though. I won't fall into his shallow single trap. Lol   Do you like the single life?

https://images.app.goo.gl/uyZwJtB4VXSB3y828 Of course! I'm happy and contented with being single. I'm a strong and independent woman. I do things that make me happy. You don't have to look for a partner or a guy to make you happy. Happiness can not only be found in one person. Happiness is everywhere. Just because I'm single doesn't mean I'm alone. I have someone. I have my family and friends. And other people that are close to me. *I'm not bitter, it's just that I'm still enjoying my single life and spending time with myself lol* Hahah that's all. By the way, I'm challenging all singles out there, whether you're a guy or a girl to do this challenge too. lol You can randomly pick questions in here. 40 Questions all single women are tired of hearing https://thoughtcatalog.com/rania-naim/2016/04/40-questions-all-single-women-are-tired-of-hearing/ By; *Rania Naim* **08-06-21** Image sources: Image 1 https://images.app.goo.gl/KiudQ45kqX5pxubi6 Image 2 https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=https%3A%2F%2Finspirationfeed.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2020%2F07%2FSingle-Meme26.jpg&imgrefurl=https%3A%2F%2Finspirationfeed.com%2Fsingle-memes%2F&tbnid=463KsjLtEREL4M&vet=1&docid=4FXfrDvaq76unM&w=720&h=604&hl=en&source=sh%2Fx%2Fim Image 3 https://images.app.goo.gl/WCPXBkHCkBNjtbAfA Image 4 https://images.app.goo.gl/C8cPGPbgMoWouBhL6 Image 5 https://images.app.goo.gl/uyZwJtB4VXSB3y828 My previous Articles: **He's an Aspin** https://read.cash/@Jinifer/hes-an-aspin-aaf30bc5 **Girls Day Out** https://read.cash/@Jinifer/girls-day-out-bfd7bfd5 **If Walls Could Talk** https://read.cash/@Jinifer/if-walls-could-talk-917aa061 **Bonjour! Augustus** https://read.cash/@Jinifer/bonjour-augustus-bf81512e **Author's Note** Hello, there lovely readers! Thank you for stopping by and spending some time reading my article today. I hope you you enjoyed it too. You can always hit the **Like** and **Subscribe** button if you want to. Have a great day ahead. **Arigathankyougozaimuch** ❣️

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