12th of August 2021
"Nothing ever goes away until it teaches us what we need to know." - Pema Chodron
The other day I published an article about We had the right Love at the wrong Time and I've got a lot of positive feedbacks and thank you for all who commented on that article I highly appreciated it. You always kept me inspired and also helped me learned something in life and made me realized on something as well. Most of the comments says it's not a wrong time since I and my partner were able to coped up the situations. Some says, even if we had the wrong time at least we had the right love and we choose to stay together. But one comment really made me realized one thing and that is when she says that, "there's no such wrong time, everything has a purpose."
Translation to her comment:
Madam, I've seen a video a while ago and it says, there's no such thing as wrong time, everything has a purpose.
The comment were actually from my friend @Yzza0625 . With her comment I able to realized that everything happens to us isn't at the wrong time but God has plans for us that is why he allowed that to happen. He wanted to convey a message for us and he has purpose for allowing that to happen in us. Maybe He wanted us to realized things or maybe He wanted us to be more mature and courageous enough in facing all the trials that we may encounter in the future. Just like in the quote of Pema Chodron that I've shared above, that whatever happens to us it will not just goes away without letting us know what's it's reason.
Now, for what happen to us as what I've said also in my previous article. That we somehow felt before that we are in a wrong time of having our own family knowing that I and my partner were not yet having a stable job. Were being in a rush not minding the future effects of our decisions. But what I also said in my previous article that we cannot control the situations and that is what happen to us. But despites everything, were just amazed from the fact that we could able to build a family where we can able to provide daily our needs especially our son's need. That's how amazing life is. Through actions with the help of prayers, everything goes accordingly.
Everything has it's Purpose.
For what happen, I now believed and realized that what happens has it's reasons and God wants us to know what is it.
Now I knew what is it.
He wanted us to be more responsible. Were actually both responsible before we knew each other. Especially my partner, that he stands us a parent to his siblings. But having our own child, made us more responsible. We able to provide the needs of our son even though we don't have a stable job yet. We both make things possible without depending on someone. We able to find ways on how we can surpass our daily needs especially foods. That make us more responsible.
He made our relationships stronger. With our kid, every misunderstandings we've had were always mindful of what will be it's impact to our kid. We actually both have different belief since he shifted to another belief for some rational reasons. At first, it's really a struggle between us since we've always fought because of that. But when we realized that we should respect each belief then we've never fought for it again up until now. That also made our relationship stronger. Understanding each others decisions. Another thing that really made us more stronger is our kid. Our kid, tightens more our relationship to each other. Our decisions always rooted for the best of our kid.
I knew there were still lots of reasons why God allow thing to happen to us. Some were already known and some were still not vivid for us. But we also knew that we will just realized all of that as time goes by.
So, how about you? Do you also believed that everything happens to us either good or bad has a purpose?
That's all for today everyone. Happy reading!
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Hello, of course, everything that happens to us has its purpose. Every believer should have a communication with God, ask Him for direction, what is the purpose of all the things we undertake. Very good post, thanks for sharing. Greetings.