Unexpected Visa Extension
***September 11, 2021*** Unexpected things happen when you least expect them. I thought I'll be going back home very soon but ended up extending my stay abroad. Living abroad is not that easy. You'll face many challenges, especially at the beginning. The homesickness, communication gap, maltreatment, and other risks. For my entire stay abroad, it's the homesickness that I've been battling for a long time. I am used to being away from home even in the Philippines, but four years is too long. Just like many other OFWs (Overseas Filipino Workers), I conquered the foreign land for my dreams and to help my family as well. I faced many challenges and experienced happiness as well. I thought it will end soon and I'll be seeing my beloved country and family already. I have plans in mind about things that I will do once I get home. A getaway for my family, I want to build my workplace, I want a long rest to recuperate my exhausted body. https://read.cash/@Jane/the-challenges-and-happiness-of-working-abroad-21438fe1 Three months ago, I interviewed the Filipino who will replace my position. I thought three months is enough to process her papers and visa. And I was confident that I'll be going back home this September 21, which is supposed to be the end of my contract. I packed my stuff and sent it to the Philippines last August 1 and it arrived at home last Wednesday. But last Tuesday I asked my boss about my contract and she told me that my replacement can't come this month and she might come at the end of the month. A few week's extension was fine for me, so I agreed to extend my visa. So last Wednesday we went to my agency to sign another contract and papers for my visa extension. Since they were talking in Cantonese, I didn't understand their conversation. But I have signed the contract and other papers. At the end of the process, the staff mentioned that, if the new one can not come after three months due to more strict protocols, I might extend my visa again. I was shocked and even raised my voice when I asked her about the three months extension. She then explained the situation in the Philippines as well as the more complicated processing. I felt down in the mouth after hearing the news, which means that my stay will last until the winter season. And what made me more sad and annoyed was the fact that I already sent my winter stuff to the Philippines. The visa extension might be another opportunity, but it carries along with the cons. CONS The main reason why I want to end my contract is that I want a long rest. This pain and discomforts are calling my attention and wanting to be prioritized more. And three months seems to be so long again to wait for that to happen. Another cons is about my winter clothes and other stuff. Since I already sent them all to the Philippines, that means I need to buy new ones again. That requires another sum of money and HK$ 500 is not enough to buy them all. Instead of saving money, I'll be spending more on winter clothes and other stuff. Things that I need to buy include winter jackets, indoor and outdoor clothes, pajamas, and winter shoes. As I said above, HK$500 is not enough to buy them all. And I am certain that I'll be spending a few thousand on that, tsk! PROS I believe there is a reason for this. Although it's negative, I'll look at it positively. Maybe this is another chance to complete my goals, and an opportunity to look for another job or pursue my plan to apply for work in Canada or Japan while I am here in HK. Three months might be short for that, but that's enough to look for job opportunities. I also remembered the Caregiving agency that offered me a job before but I rejected their offer since I extended my contract here last 2019. Why not apply again? To be honest, I wanted to rest but I don't want to be jobless for long. And news says that OFWs in the Philippines are having difficulty finding new employers again due to the Covid regulations and new virus strains in the country. And based on my experience in looking for a job here, I found out that most employers do not allow their new employees to go back to the Philippines because they are afraid of the Covid situation in my country and they are worried as well about the expenses in quarantine protocols since hotels are expensive. So they prefer to find Filipinos that are about to finish their contract here in HK but won't allow them to go back to the Philippines. And if I will look for a job in the Philippines, I might end up working in a hospital that is riskier. Don't be worry, just keep going My boss noticed that I looked sad after hearing the three months extension, so she brought me to Genki Sushi restaurant together with her daughter to make my mood better. Indeed, foods can make your mood brighter, lol.
I'm not a fan of sushi and eating raw foods, but I am a fan of Japanese udon. And this set only costs HK$50 which is affordable for me, but it was all for free since my boss paid for it.
So instead of worrying about the three months extension, I'll just focus more on achieving my plans for Augustus since I have not fulfilled them all yet and I guess it is much better to resume my travel goals in the winter season. https://read.cash/@Jane/my-plans-for-augustus-ill-spend-bitcoin-cash-to-fulfill-my-dreams-86d6854f Meanwhile, my family at home is excited to open the '*balikbayan box*' but I told them not to because I thought I'll be going back home this September 21.
I did not inform them yet about my contract extension, maybe I'll do it this Sunday and I'll tell them to open the box and get the presents for them. Moreover, these SEP20 tokens are making me crazy and active on both Telegram and Twitter which I never did before. That is because of different drops, lol. This is actually diverting my negative thoughts and it's fun joining different airdrops. I was happy to see 50M $ARG in my wallet yesterday morning which I got from the Twitter airdrop. More drops were posted on TG by different groups. Maybe I'll just enjoy this three months extension through fulfilling my travel goals and joining different smartBCH tokens airdrops 😅. BenSwap is giving me passive income so I should not be sad instead be blessed with what I gain every day. And by December, I am expecting Bitcoin Cash to reach 4 digits on its price. And while waiting for that to happen, I'll just have fun and accumulate more crypto. Because for sure, I'll be needing them once I get home, lol. Thanks again for reading this nonsense article 😅.
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If we suddenly get something unexpected, we feel very happy. I think you are very happy. Isn't that so?i like your article.
Anong pain or discomfort yan madam? Maybe it's something serious na so you need to have it checked? 🤔
Magiging okay lng ako kpg magpahinga ng maayos..hndi naman ako mkapagpahinga 1day day off lng.. Same parn sa arm issue ko dati..balik2 lng sya.. Remember last year pa to..
Looks like fate wants you to keep staying abroad, there might be something good for you there. I'm also hoping for BCH to reach 4 digits by December (I'm seriously praying for that to happen).
I want to rest though
Yeah you should do so, you have worked really hard and you deserve to rest
Congrats on getting the 50M ARG. I got nothing. Anyway, sorry to know about the 3 months extension. No choice but to try to make the best out of it. Contact is signed.
It was unfare because they did not informed me about the three months extension. I thought it was just a few weeks
Agreed. Very sneaky that they didn't inform you and ask if you would be OK with it.
Laban lang ate, pero ung may pain and discomfort kanang nafefeelpatang dina tama. Ang haba pa ng 3months, sana makarating kabdito sandec ate para sa pasko kasama mo fam mo. Wag no lang pabayaan sarili mo lalo na at ang hirap ngayon
At hirap pa kamo mkapag pacheckup dto..need ng appointment..kpg sa public hospital, aabutin pa yan ng months bago ka mabigyan ng sched.. Ang mahal naman sa private clinics
Jusmeyo buwan talaga? Jusko wait lang paano ung mga magpapacheck up na need agad ng agarang checkup? Edi bago pa bigay schedule baka dina kinaya ng pasyente kapag ganyan ;-;
Sa private clinics and hospitals.. Kpg sa public, it takes time.. Anak ni boss sa government hospital nka base doctor nys sa heart... Inaabot ng buwan or year bago mkapag pacheckup.. Unless urgent tlga
Laban lang ate. Bilib ako sa positive mindset mo ate. 💗 Everything happens for a reason ika nga. 🤗 Pero sana nga, makuha mo na po yung rest na needed mo.
Wag lng yung rest in peace ha? 🤣
Hahahaha oo ate. Except na rest na yon. 🤣
I could imagine how you felt when you found out that your contract was extended. The thought and love of family will always knock on our hearts at some point in life whether we want it or not but the good thing is that, what that happens, we must be positive at all times. I am happy you see the disappointment with a positive mind set.
But still sad here coz what I badly need is rest
Just try and hang on a little longer... You won't when the three months will expire...
Oh dear, that didn’t work well. But I hope something positive will come from this. Dear Almighty must have special plans for you.
Thank you for posting a nonsense that actually make sense out of sense we make sense it was help for me though 😂
Maybe there's something good about it, although you will have to endure whatever pain and discomfort you are feeling. Anyway, 3 months is a short period and it will pass quickly :) Congrats on your airdrops :D I keep missing them, lol!
Matagal dn yan sis 😭
Yon lng aabutan ka pa talaga ng winter
That’s the spirit sis. We have a choice to sulk on some unexpected events or turn them as an opportunity to focus and look forward for more blessings. Praying before Christmas makauwi ka at makasama mo pamilya mo. Kapit lang ulit muna. 💕
Hopefully .. Pro mukhang impossible. My quarantine pa dto
Sorry to hear you may have to stay longer! Hope in the end a solution will come that is a bit better for you. Good luck!
Praying for that
Congrats on your visa extension, I guess. I'm sure there's an opportunity in there somewhere. Three months is a quarter which is a decent time span to get quite a bit done. All the best to you!
It's not actually something to congratulate 😅 coz I wann go back home
Oh. If that's the case, do you have a say in the matter?
This is great. Every disappointment is a blessing.
Kaya yan ate. Isipin niyo na lang po na lahat may rason kung nagstay po kayo diyan pero nasa iyo pa rin po yan hehe. Anyway, ano po un niyo sa TG?
@Jane1289
So sorry to hear that. All things work together for good for those that love God. Says the bible. Just find ways to slow down a bit in the next 3 months ate. Take out time to rest-health is wealth. May the 3 months extension birth wonderful things for you.
I hope so. Thank you
I think it has some reason behind why you are extended, just endure a little bit then rest for sure after the 3 months ended. The reason you'll know it later on for sure.
I hope it's a good reason.. I don't want to suffer another mess
Sorry to hear about. I know it's not easy for living in abroad. When such condition happen suddenly , it's not easy to accept it but at that time we need to show patience.
Ehhh another 3 months aguy. Pero for sure may reason pa na iba why it happened baka may mas maganda reason na madidiscover mo soon 🤩
Sana nga madam.. Pro more spendings yun
You just have to be calm and not to worry. It might be something good at the end. Human beings might not know the reason it came out like this, but be positive that something good is coming out from it. Soon, you will have that longgggggg rest you need 😉
I hope so mama. Thanks
I too believe everything happens for a reason, hopefully everything would turn out fine, and you'll get your rest.
Awww. Maybe God has a better plan for you. Pero wag din abusuhin and katawan lalo wala kang family jan. I wish you all the best, sis.
Thanks sis.. Yun nga gusto ko ipriority ngayon.. Minsan ang hirap tlga
Ito yung ayaw korin, mag paplano tas ang ending hindi matutuloy 🤧. Pero lucky ka parin ate jane kasi may trabaho kana may mabait ka pang boss at dadami pa lalo pera mo 🤑. HAHAHAHA
It's not money that i need this time. It's rest
Woww. Everything happens for a reason! A reason that u need to work for a better future. Mapapa sana all nlng ako sa mga Smartbch hehe d ko pa kc msyado naintindihan ang gnyan.
Read my articles bout that
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