Facing The Biggest Fear (Of Some Questions and Answers

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May 18, 2021

(Drafted this before I started the 30 Days of Gratitude Challenge, so I guess, I have to post this first.)

Life is full of questions and some have no certain answers. There are hypothetical what-ifs too that often make us contemplate the answers and regret the wrong decisions we made. Contemplate and regret the times we didn't choose to do things that are supposed to be done as we opted to choose the ones we thought are right but ended up failing.

I came across this post of @ARTicLEE again that made me mull over the given questions and thought about the corresponding answers. You can click here to check his article and the questions. I opted to only pick some that I wanted to answer. Questions that would make you think deeper and ask yourself, "what if they'll happen? What have I done? Am I good enough?"


Some questions are worth answering, and I have some here...

  • What would I truly regret not doing if I died tonight?

First of all, I don't want to die yet, not now, not tonight, especially since I am in a foreign land. But what if it happens? We know that unfortunate circumstances come unexpectedly whether we like it or not. And that tested our perseverance and steadiness of our minds under stress and unfavorable circumstances, as well as our readiness to accept and acknowledge things and situations.

But if I die tonight, as I have commented on ARTicLEE's article, I would regret not selling my assets and saving the money for my family. The current crypto market condition made me regret not taking my profits and investments back when crypto prices skyrocketed because of the hope of seeing them rise higher. But unexpected things are meant to happen, especially in this volatile market.

My goal for this year is to reset my crypto assets management and take my profit and investments back. But it seems not a perfect time to do so and I have no choice but to hold my assets and wait for the right time to take action. If I die, then the hardships and Cryptocurrencies will be all wasted.

  • What would I do if my biggest fear came true?

My biggest fear? That is once I become useless to myself and my family. I grew up being useful to others, independent, and used to work for a living. I have never been a burden to anyone else even in my younger years. From doing school homework to house tasks, I just let my initiative work without other people's supervision.

My biggest fear is when my body would crumble into the bed or wheelchair the whole day, or cross the bridge of life to death unprepared and unwillingly. But I would rather leave this world than see myself suffering from illness and become useless to others. I would rather carry the burden of others, than be a burden to my family, especially to my old parents.

But if there is one thing I want Him to grant me, that is to have a longer life so I could fulfill my duty and live a happier life. And when my life's ultimatum comes, I wouldn't have any regret and I would cross the bridge of life happily and peacefully.


  • Have I done something recently that I could be proud of?

Working abroad is something I could be proud of in my entire life. But if I will be asked about something I did recently, I guess, that is when I opted to let go of some stressors, live happier, travel more, and chose to see life from a bigger perspective since I'm not getting younger anymore and unexpected unfavorable circumstances are just right around the corner.

Before I tend to make small things complicated, think about things that are not valuable, and worry about everything, about self, family, events, and people around me, to the point, that it affected my mental health and made my mind restless even at night.

I learned not to worry much about unnecessary stuff and focus more on restoring my well-being. I learned how to divert preoccupied negative thoughts and think about how to solve problems instead. I learned not to mind toxic people and calm myself during the toxic situation. Most especially, I learned to appreciate more my life and I wanted to live it happily rather than thinking about tomorrow, problems, and unvaluable stuff.


  • What aspect of my personality still needs improvement?

When talking about personality aspects, that include mental, spiritual, emotional, physical, social, and moral aspects. Seriously? I guess all of them need to be improved, lol. But among all aspects that are tough to balance are mental, emotional, and physical aspects. I'm currently at the stage of restoring them, but I admit it's quite tough to get that stability, especially in this kind of work where I am into.

Moreover, I also want to work on achieving conscientiousness and mindfulness so I could stay focused on finishing tasks and achieving my goals without being distracted by things that are not worth minding. Thus, I want to improve my mental aspect as I believe, others will be easier to balance and improve if we are mentally stable, especially when facing tough challenges.


I wanna know, what's your biggest fear?

Share it below.

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Save ko 'to ate, and gusto ko ring sagutin. Ang gaganda ng tanong.

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2 years ago

Hmm, interesting prompt sis and quite deep, hehe.. And no, you won't be dying tonight, lol! And you won't become useless, never. Don't for a moment think about that haha

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2 years ago

Ang nag iisang fear ko lang is mawalan ng anak. Siguro mawala na lahat wag lang ung mga binuo ko. 🙈🙈

Anyways ganun tlga ate kapag nag go grow tayo at natanda, need ng improvement tapos ung settlement ng mga bagay bagay.

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2 years ago

Natawa ako doon sa lahat ng aspects haha. Nakapaka independent mo pala even as a young one. Same din ng fear mo pero for me mas fearful yong hindi ka mabuhay at magawa yong mga gusto mo dahil sa takot. Db? Kapag wala na tayo dito e wala ng hirap hehe. Now pa lang alisin na natin yang fear.

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2 years ago

Hndi rin maiwasan . d natin hawak ang oras

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2 years ago

I think there will be an unending improvement in all aspects of our life. Every day is a chance to be better than the other day. There is no time when we can say that we have reached the perfect state. We can still improve day by day.

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2 years ago

True... There is no limit in improving

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2 years ago

Losing my son or my love ones is one of my biggest fears

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2 years ago

I've always been afraid of being a failure and not being able to support my family. I've learned to approach things differently now because I know we attract our fears. Now I change that to "everything has been ok, will continue to be ok, and the future is bright". Sometimes it feels like I'm lying to myself on a bad day but I try 😬

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2 years ago

Haha.. We all are always trying to live, especially in bad days

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2 years ago

Biggest fear? When I die without doing nothing, without trying and without good deeds.

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2 years ago

My biggest fear right now is not being able to give my mom a comfortable life after all her sacrifices. I am working hard to make sure she gets back all she has invested in me, I don't want to even think about failing 😆

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2 years ago

Of course, don't think about it.. You can do it..you're smart and hardworking

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2 years ago

Thanks Ate Jane 🤗

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2 years ago

Woah your biggest fear is so deep po, I also fear to become useless not just for myself but for everyone like there is no purpose to live anymore. Talagang nakakaproud na nagagawa mo na yung mga gusto mong gawin like travel and bonus na dun yung pag abroad.

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2 years ago

Masakit namn tlga ituring na useless 😥

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2 years ago

My biggest fear is that if I died early then there will present some needy around me. Because I love to help people more than my need. But still someone present then it is bad luck. Good desires you have and really you can feel proud being a foreigners and helping hands for others.

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2 years ago

I'd say not reaping the fruit of my labour is my biggest fear 😄

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2 years ago

I'd say my biggest fear is putting in all effort into something and failing. Really scared of that 😬😬😬

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2 years ago

I did that many times. Failed many times, so far, Im still moving forward,😅

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2 years ago

My biggest fear would be not eventually achieving the goals I intend to achieve after all the effort I may have put into them and also losing the people I care about.

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2 years ago

So many questions and that's true, we have to be prepared for anything and at the same time, we don't want any evil to take us either unaware or aware.

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2 years ago

My regret is will be that i didn't drop my seed phrase for my family members. Though if they can crack the puzzle i have in my diary they will have access to it. Only someone very close to me can.

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2 years ago

Wow.. It must be so hard to decipher lol

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2 years ago

If there's anything i fear in life is failing the people that have invested so much on me, and all those people that are looking up to me, especially my parents and siblings. They’ve really done so much for me. I work really hard just to make sure that they are proud of me. And my other fear is not becoming successful in my career. Great hardwork with committment brings about good success, this is what i will strive to do.

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2 years ago

Whether successful in your career or not, it doesn't matter.. As long as you are happy with your life. That's what matters

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2 years ago

That's the overall thing no doubt, happiness.

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2 years ago

My fear is that I won’t be able to accomplish all the things I’ve set to do. But then again, it’s also my biggest motivation. Because of this fear, I’ve learnt to do things bit by bit, and celebrate every little accomplishments.

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2 years ago

We really need to celebrate every little accomplishment and be grateful

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2 years ago

My biggest fear is not making an impact in the lives of many.

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2 years ago

my biggest fear is that i have a lot accomplish and the chances is very tiny

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2 years ago

Same fear before.. But i opt to take the risk and accept whatever consequences will happen

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2 years ago

im trying my possible best and not compromising any. all is well

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2 years ago

Grabe feel ko wala pa ko achievement na nakakaproud so far :((

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2 years ago

Meron yan. D mo lng inaacknowledge na achievement

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2 years ago

If I died tonight and reminisce the things I regret? That will be too weak to say YES. I regret that if I just said YES, I might enjoy things now.

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2 years ago

Yes to what? 😅

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2 years ago

My biggest fear is not to be able to make it in life But I believe I will make it 😁

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2 years ago

Marry George? 😅😁

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2 years ago

Lol 🤣

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2 years ago

I have friends that have lost thousands just when the market condition went down, I had this money that I wanted to invest in because we all thought the market will keep getting high and I change my mind at the last minute I don't know if I should be thankful for backing out or I should regret it, but if am to die tonight then I have no regret for backing out as I did. Areas I need improvement are my social life, being a full born to the cord introvert my relationship with people is weak I will be sincere sometimes I just don't care but sometimes....

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2 years ago

"become useless to myself and my family" is really not an option

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2 years ago

You know what Jane, I already felt that. Yung feeling useless na and pabigat na lang sa pamilya. Ang hirap, it is an awful feeling to be honest...

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2 years ago

Wag namn te 😥

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2 years ago

My biggest fear is the same as yours: all of my hard work will be for nothing because none of my family members have access to it. It looks like I'll build a shared wallet so they can access it if anything occurs.

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2 years ago

Same thought 😥

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2 years ago

One of the biggest fear ko yung mamatay din ako na hindi ko natupad promise ko kay mama na magkakahouse and lot kami na hindi niya na need magwork ulit.

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2 years ago

Bakit, san papa mo?

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