Time to Stop!
I love her. She's a friend of mine. We are five years in friendship already. Actually I missed her already, a lot. When I started working, we never met until now.
When I have my vacation in our province in Southern Leyte, I never had a time to meet her also because of the busy schedule I have. She was living far away from our place too that's one of the reason too that's why I didn't have a choice. I hope soon we meet again.
Last Thursday she chatted me, I was really happy. It's been a long time we didn't chat that's why. She asked me how was I and me also. We have a long conversation about her life. She had a problem regarding her love life.
I felt emotional while she was sharing about it. She said that she always cried because of her partner. That's the time, I was really curious because I witnessed their love story and they love each other a lot that's why, I asked in my mind "Why?".
She shared that her boyfriend cheated on her and what she did she always forgive her boyfriend because she loves him a lot. She didn't want her partner leave her. When I heard it, I was speechless honestly because I didn't know what I'm going to say.
The worst she added that her partner cheated her again and again everytime she accept the apology. She expect that it never happened again but she was totally wrong, her partner cheated again and again.
I felt broken when I heard it from my close friend. I said it to my mind that she doesn't deserve that kind of man. I felt angry and disappointed to her partner. I thought he really love my friend but what happened he cheated on her how many times. He was totally a bad guy. He is a shameful one!
As a friend, I gave an advice to my friend what's on my mind and what's the best for her. I advise what are things she must did. I felt pity to my friend why her love never been fade despite of everything. Despite of the cheating happened many times. Why she didn't felt anger to her partner. The only thing she had in her mind was she was really scared that her partner leave her.
For me, that's the reason why her partner cheated her again and again. He took it as an advantage. I felt my body was shaking to him. He is a cheater! A totally cheater!
I said to my friend and explained it to her in a slowly way so that she would understand. I want her to realize for all the things. I want her to wake up because she was wasting her time to that guy who doesn't deserve that kind of love. I prayed and I hope that she totally understand about what I've said. She was blinded of love because of what she felt to her partner.
It was totally wrong, the worst the guy was cheating many times already that's why it's the time she must stop. I'm sure that she will meet a guy that going to love her real. The guy who will never hurt her. Now I'm always at her side and help her. I will help her to the right path. The best thing for her. I understand what she's going through now. It's not easy. It's really hard.
I couldn't imagine myself if I am in that situation. It was really painful, heartbreaking. Cheater is a sinful. Stand for the right. Cheating many times is a worst. It shouldn't be tolerate!
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Thank you so much. I hope I give you some learnings with this article of mine.
God bless everyone. Stay safe always. 🙏
-JRamona20 💜
Sana marealize nya na :( bago pa sya maubos ate. Hay!