My "First Love"

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I was scrolling at my Facebook account yesterday. I saw some post about "First Love" then everything was reminiscing back. All the memories the happiness and the painfulness. Love is not about being happy all the time, you may experience heartaches too. It's normal it's part of a relationship.

I want to express my side about my first love...

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"It's rarely happened to me to admire some guy. I am quiet person. My friends teased me always during when we were highschool that they wanted me to have a boyfriend but I don't want to because I wasn't ready yet. They said I was a loner. They said I will be going to be happy if I have that one but it was sounded like a jokes. My friends always teasing at me. All they want they wanted me to smile and happy."

"Then, I met you in unexpected time. You know that I don't have any feelings for you but you were always following at me. You always walk closer at me. You always talk to me. At first, I don't know because I thought you were a friendly person. I wasn't aware. I didn't experience to have a boyfriend since then. I was in my second year highschool that time. I didn't have an interest about a relationship thingy."

"I saw you as a friend of mine. We became close each other but that time still I didn't aware even the others didn't notice it. You were always wanted me to accompany you at the canteen. At first I was really shy because I was a transferee student. I use only "Tagalog" so that we were understand each other. Months passed, I noticed that you were always sit near beside at me but I didn't mind it."

"You always bring me foods and share your lunch at me. The others noticed it. It was the time they were started teasing us. Still I didn't mind it. I wasn't interested about relationship."

"You know that I'm a very shy person but I don't know why I'm comfortable at you. It's rarely to me that I will talk a person except those who are very close to me. I thought it was because we were close already. I just wanted to tell you that I was really happy. You make me laugh."

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"Until one day, the other friend called me then when I followed him I saw you. It was you. It was the time you confessed at me. I was really shocked. You said that you like me a lot and I was speechless. I don't know what I'm going to say but I explained to you that I wasn't ready yet for a relationship. You felt sad that time but you understand my side. You said you will wait and the one thing I couldn't forget when you said "True Love's Wait". I know it hurts you a lot because it was like I rejected you."

"When there was a school program, you joined the contest. I was really speechless because you were really fluent in English. You were a genius that's why you were famous at school. It was the time I felt somethin' different."

"After 1 year, you wanted to talk at me. It was lunch time. I was really nervous. It was the time, you asked me again. It was one year already that you wait for my "Yes". I was sure at myself that I was already ready that time. I said "Yes" to you. You were so happy and you jump there because of the happiness you felt. You asked me again and again. I couldn't explain you reaction."

"After 1 month of a relationship, we decided to tell our friends about it. They were so happy. They were truly support us. Our relationship going smoothly. I didn't regrets my decision to gave you a chance to be part of my life."

"Until one day, you confronted me because our friend said something about me but I didn't understand it that's why you decided to tell me the truth. I didn't expect what I've heard. I think it was a minor problem but it was the biggest, the worst that I'd never expect coming from you. I wanted to cry. I was really mad. I was really angry at you."

"Why you did that such kind of thing? You courted some girl while we were in a relationship. I was deeply hurt. You know that you were my first love. I trusted you even it was my first time to be committed to someone, I still said yes. I gave you a chance and the worst you make me fall in love with you. You did this thing. You did that. You gave your best and efforts. You make me believe you are true. You are the one. You hurt me a lot."

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Thank you so much. I hope I give you some worthy time with this article of mine.

God bless everyone. Stay safe always.🙏

-JRamona20 💜

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Mao ni imo ex maam? Taga T.O. ni? Hmmm

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2 years ago

Dili sa T.O mamsh. Oo mamsh mao na siya mamsh. Nag cheat nako.

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2 years ago

I also had my first love some years ago and now I am broken ....and I recommend everyone not to fall into that love so early in your life cause most of the time it brings miseries to yourself

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2 years ago

Yes friend that's true. If you are inlove with your early years mostly you can experience the pain.

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2 years ago

Ang sakit nmn sis huhuhu. Soon e rereveal ko din love life ko non hehehe.

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2 years ago

Oo sis sobrang sakit. Cge sis wait ko.

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2 years ago

May first love ba ako? Hahaha parang wala ata. To be honest, ang sarap magmahal pero dapat sa tamang tao na dretso hindi sa mga tao na tenporary lang na darating sa buhay mo na wawasak sating puso. :(

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2 years ago

Oo friend. Sana ganun nga nuh. Yung sa tamang tao kana agad para di man lang makaranas ng sakit.

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2 years ago

Masarap na masakit balikan ang mga first love natin.

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2 years ago

Masarap na masakit balikan ang mga first love natin.

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2 years ago

Masarap na masakit balikan ang mga first love natin.

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2 years ago

Oo si totoo basta first love talaga hindi basta² makakalimutan.

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2 years ago

Oo nga eh. Pero wala eh hanggang flashback nalang yun

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2 years ago

Oo sis. Flashback nalang talaga lahat. Lesson learn.

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2 years ago

For me my first love is a puppy love. Immature pa kasi nun. I was 16 yrs old at that time. We broke up after 4 yrs because we have differences pala at hindi ako showy nun. Now I am happy that I am single.

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2 years ago

Ang tagal nun sis. Yes sis everything happens for a purpose talaga. Now, you are happy that you are now a single sis.

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2 years ago

It's actually the man who puts effort was easily be loved by the girls ate Jeee, when you can see he's a gentleman I think that's the weakness of the girl. But who in the world would cheat on ate JRAMONA? like are they crazy? It's you, you're the beauty and complete package yet he manage to do that. That's not your loss ate Jeee it's his loss. Atleast you're way more happier I'm your relationship right now ate Je

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2 years ago

Yes snail I totally agree. It's the weakness of a girl that believing he's the right one but it's not.🥺

Hehe, it's really painful snail because he's my first boyfriend.🥺

Thank you snail. I'm really happy now with my partner. ❤️ Happy Valentines day snail!🥰

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2 years ago

Naku.x ganyan talaga halos mga lalaki wag na kayu umasa ate ganda kokonte nalang kaming matino

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2 years ago

Oo nga Vincent nuh kaya ikaw pag meron ka ng the one wag mo yan gagawin kundi magagalit ako sayo.😁

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2 years ago

Hmmm some painful first love for you sis, sorry to hear... but of course we move on after such painful episodes hehe

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2 years ago

Oo sis sobrang painful. Yes sis, move on then start a new day. Thank you sis.❤️

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2 years ago

Tama sis :) Enjoy your day :)

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2 years ago

Thank you sis. You too. 🥰

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2 years ago

Unforgettable talaga ang first times, sad naman ate, bakit kaya ganun kung kelan nasa ere kana at masaya bigla kang bibitawan, lolokohin o may malalaman. Dapat kung magloloko sila, sa umpisa pa lang dapat para wala na silang nasasaktan na feelings. Nacacarried away ako sa story mo ate, kakainis talaga ganyang lalaki.

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2 years ago

Oo Langga. Sobrang sakit nun langga. Nung una ayaw ko talaga kasi parang ayaw ko muna pumasok sa relasyon pero ginawa niya lahat. Naghintay talaga siya tas bigla nalang ganun. Sobrang sakit talaga.🥺

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2 years ago

Yung mas nakadagdag pa po sa sakit is yung kala mo di niya kaya gawin pero magagawa pala.

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2 years ago

Oo Langga. Yun talaga. Di mo akalain na magawa niya sayo.🥺

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2 years ago

I've never had a first love. I have heard many people voice their feelings but I don't just wanna do that stuff right now.

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2 years ago

I know you will meet your the one friend.❤️

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2 years ago

Sa love jud dili mahitabo na naay sad. Ana jud sel nh/ Kung di para atu, bisan unsaon para manindot ang isa ka relasyon muabot jud sa ending

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2 years ago

Tinuod gayud Flor kung dili gayud kamu. Muabot gayud ang time na magbuwag mo.

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2 years ago

Ay grabe yung first love mo sis, mapanakit! Nakaka gigil ! I know masakit yun, sobrang sakit pero alam kong kakayanin mo yan. You're strong and look at you now, nasa tamang tao kana.

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2 years ago

Oo grabe. Huhu naghintay siya ng matagal tas ganun lang sis. Sobrang sakit nun sis. First time ko umiyak sa lalaki.🥺

Oo sis thankful talaga sis.❤️ Thank you sis.❤️

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2 years ago

Akala ko pa naman matino sya kaso di pala , sakit ng first love story mo huhu

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2 years ago

Hindi sis. Nag expect din ako sis. Sobrang sakit sis sobra.🥺

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2 years ago

Forgetting our first love is the toughest thing ever.. I feel you.

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2 years ago

Yes friend. I'm sorry to hear that friend.🥺

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2 years ago

Love is pain, that's how I described it before sis, and i felt sad reading your story.

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2 years ago

Oo sis. Love is pain talaga sis tama. Andyan talaga yan tas sobrang sakit pag andyan kana sa sitwasyon.🥺

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2 years ago

Ouch! Nakahinumdom pud noun kos ako maamsh. Indeed love isn't about happiness but the they say when it fail it wasn't love. Is it?

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2 years ago

Oo mamsh. Sorry mamsh. Na reminisce na hinuon.🥺 For me it's love parin mamsh, sabi nga nila mamsh love is not about happiness.

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2 years ago

Oks ra ma'am uyy .. dugay Naman Kay to. Hehe puppy love 😅

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2 years ago

Puppy love sad tong ako mamsh pero sakit man gihapon. 😅

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2 years ago

Ay ang bad naman :(. Apaka sad naman nito ate Ganda huhu. Pero sabi nga nila, pain will always be part of loving.

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2 years ago

Oo Langga di talaga mawala yan pain once na ma inlove kana especially when committed kana to someone.

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2 years ago

Parang pareho sa akin Sis hahah alam mo Sis anong masakit, tahimik ka lang inaalagaan mo sarili mo tapos mapupunta ka sa lalaking di rin naman para sayo. May pa first boyfriend will be the last pa ako, wala parin naman hahha

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2 years ago

Oo sis Huhu. Sobrang sakit. Yung first boyfriend mo tas pinakita niya sayo na siya na talaga tas bigla nalang ganun. Sobrang sakit.🥺

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2 years ago

I remember in second year high school, someone confessed his feelings. I started to feel for him but when it's bout time for me to say yes, i found out he marked a kiss on someone's chest (upper part near the b**bies) and I saw that mark and so I immediately rejected him when he asked me again. Then I never talked to him even if he tried his best to win me back. I just thought he might do it again and I stood for my decision. No more second chances for these types of irresponsible person

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2 years ago

Yes kat that's true. The people like that never deserve second chances. I'm sorry to hear that Kat.

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2 years ago

Although some deserve second chances pero pag ganito lang naman ang klase ng tao.. Yung hindi pa nga kayo may ginagawa nang kalokohan what more kung naging kayo na diba.. Ehehe. . good thing I knew it beforehand

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2 years ago

Oo sis. Hindi talaga deserve yung second chances sa mga taong mapanakit ng sobra.

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2 years ago

Ouchness! First love and at the same time first heartbreak😭

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2 years ago

Yes sis. It's really painful. I didn't expect it would happen.🥺

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2 years ago

ganun yata talaga ang love.. may saya at may lungkot din :)

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2 years ago

Oo sis sobra. Part na talaga sa relationship sis kaya dapat handa palagi.

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2 years ago

First love is never forgotten. My friend, you had a beautiful love, but it is a pity that in the last was just as heartbreaking. Unsuccessful loves are very bitter...

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2 years ago

Yes my friend. It's the worst because it was my first time but end up like that.🥺

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2 years ago

Love is in the air haha. Dami love stories nababasa ko. Kaht ako napasulat 🤣

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2 years ago

Oo miss Jane. Ako ang dami din nabasa kaya napasulat din tuloy ako. 😁

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2 years ago

Bakit kaya.. Gusto ko din tuloy magsulat ulit ng ibang article about love parin.. Ahahah

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2 years ago

Oh first love is the most amazing love no matter how good or bad it is, because it is our first, it is from where we learn and from where we decide for our second to a lot more

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2 years ago

Yes sis that's true. First Love is really unforgettable because it's the first time we realized and learn when it comes to relationship thingy.

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2 years ago

It's true when they say we can't forget about our first love, it's the same for me. Sorry about the heartbreak though, but I believe there's a reason why things like that happen

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2 years ago

Yes Kushyzee because it's the first time we committed to someone that's why it's really painful. Yes Kushyzee everything happens for a reason.

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2 years ago

People think that love is a beautiful thing, but most of this feeling is sadness.

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2 years ago

Yes friend. It's part of a relationship. The sadness is always there.🥺

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2 years ago

I guess that first love really brings the deepest heart break. Because I believe in that first cut is the deepest. But everything happens for a reason. Maybe that person is not meant for you. 🤗

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2 years ago

Yes teacher jen that's true. First Love is the most painful one. Yes teacher jen. We are not meant for us that's why it happened.

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2 years ago

Imo story sis?Aguy lagi ning gugma no hehhe

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2 years ago

Oo sis story ko yan. Sobrang sakit sis. 🥺😅

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2 years ago

Is it really true friend? storya mo ba to?Baka na eescam na Naman ako nito. Hahaha

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2 years ago

Hehe totoo yan friend. Story ko yan. ☺️

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