In life, there are people who will became attach to us. They became close to us. Sometimes they are real. What if they are not? What will you do?
There are a lot of scenarios happened like this. You are very lucky if you prove it that they are not fake but it's painful if you'll know that they are not real.
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My Sisters' Friend
I was a college student that time, we have a neighbor. She was my sisters' classmate. Actually that time, she was a new since when she was in highschool she decided to transferred in Manila City to continue her study. We were the same too with her since we transfered that time in Iloilo City. If you'll think about it everything was just a timing since it was the time we seeing each other again after how many years passed.
Back on, when we were in college after 5 years my parents decided to back in our province in Leyte. It was the time that the classmate of my sister travelled back also. Something we reunited after the five years we were far away to each other.
Honestly she is the best friend of my sister. They are really close to each other especially when they are in elementary years. She and my sister always playing Barbie dolls in our house, watching cartoons, playing at weekends and sometimes it was a vice-versa, my sister was the one who went into their house too.
I remember how close they are, I remember everytime like there was a program in our barrio, both of them always joining an intermission dance. They were always together so when the time they met each other again both of them were so happy. They hugged each other and I felt their emotions that time.
I accompanied them also to be enrolled in the school they want. It was the day that we were all busy since there were a lot of papers will do and there were a lot of departments to go for the signatures before they will enroll. It took two days so we decided to travelled in my boarding house to spent a night there, that's how close they were even in the enrollment they were making it together. I observed the two of them, I was really envied since my sister have a bestfriend like her since I saw them in my own eyes.
The Chats
Until one time, there was a classmate also of my sister chatted her. My sister got shocked about what she read. Her classmate chatted her a bad words and you can felt that she was really angry to my sister. My sister was confused why all of a sudden her classmate got angry to her. She didn't have an idea. She didn't know what could be the reason. She didn't make a mistake and in the first place they were not close. The reason why she really shocked a lot. She asked her classmate what was the problem but her classmate didn't response to her.
It was the time that my sister was really worried about what happened. She wanted to know what could be the reason. Until she knows that her bestfriend saying to the other classmate that my sister saying a negative things to that classmate which my sister never did that. She never expect that her bestfriend would do that until she asked her why she did that but she never replied and she ignored my sister. Everything was changes, she always went and accompanied to the other classmate and helping them throwing a bad words to my sister through chats.
Fake
Even me, I couldn't expect that she will do that. I thought she was real friend to my sister but a biggest mistake. After the long years of their friendship. All of it was just a fake. Everything was just a fake.
My sister learned a lesson that even how many years you are friends for there are tendencies that it doesn't real. All of it pretending to be good and having a good heart but deep inside it's not real. I learned a lesson from it too.
LIFE THOUGHTS:
We should always be careful with the people we want to be with. Even they are already close to us they still make you a bad things. Throwing bad words to you at back. It's a fake, they are not real.
Finding real friends is rare. Mostly they are good if we are facing to them but stabbing with you when you're back. It's really hurt but it's the truth. So we must be observer first and don't easily to trust because at the end you will be in pain.
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Thank you so much. I hope I give some thoughts with this article of mine.
God bless everyone.😇 Stay safe always.🙏
-JRamona20 💜
Dito talaga nagsisimula yung mga trust issues. Hirap humanap ng mga tunay yung hindi mananaksak patalikod. Marami din akong naginh toxic friend and I will not regret cutting them in my life.