Be Independent, Stand with your own Feet
Sometimes we should be independent. We shouldn't be dependent all the time from other people like our families. Being independent it will help us to grow, to improve ourselves.
It will give us a lot of learnings and realizations in life, self like we know how to stand with our own feet, we become braver and stronger. There are a lot of advantages of being an independent person.
I realized when I decided to travel in the city alone for the first time in my whole life. It was really hard because it wasn't me, I always stayed in our house with my family. I was dependent person before. When I graduated already, I decided to go there because I realized it's time for me to find a job even I was really scared because I am really an introvert person. It was really hard but I chose to pursue and continue about my plan.
Even deep inside I was really nervous still I chose it to be brave because I was thinking it was for my family. I need to work for them. I had a lot of dreams for them and I want to help my parents for the studies of my youngest sister.
When I was already there, I didn't know what will going to happen but only I trust God. I believe in Him. I trust him with all my heart. I always positive that I can make it, I can do it. I always prepared myself for interviews even I was really nervous I chose to calm and concentrate. I didn't let my fears goin' into me. I fought it. It was one week already I always wait the schedule of interview and I wait also the phone interview.
After two weeks I already find a job. I have a friend of mine chatted me when she knows I was in the city then she sent me an address of a company. I didn't hesitate. I go for it. She accompanied me also because she wanted to see me. I was really nervous during my interview then after I passed it. I was officially hired. I couldn't explain my happiness that time. It was a huge blessing from almighty God. I am really grateful to him and also to my friend. She was an angel that God sent me.
When I was in my place where I stayed, I realized that being an independent is giving us a lot of advantages. When I started of being an independent person I became braver, I passed all the struggles I've experience. All the challenges I've faced. It was the time that I realized also that I became a strong person from being an introvert one. Being an independent it will teach you to be fearless. It will teach you that no matter what happen don't give up. Stay continue and positive!
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Thank you so much. I hope I give you some learnings with this article of mine.
God bless everyone. Stay safe always.🙏
-JRamona20 💜
I had to be independent since I was a child, so it’s the only way I know. Sometimes it scares men away 😅