A good person is one who most of the time wishes the best for others and acts accordingly. When someone recognizes this other person as good and respects him or her, he or she can act in a compassionate, caring and humble manner. A good person is noted for his or her capacity for empathy, which consists of perceiving and understanding the thoughts and emotions of others. A person is considered to have this virtue by his or her actions and words. In fact, every person is born good. As he or she grows up and incorporates a particular culture.
In that sense, goodness is something natural in human beings, it is a quality that must be worked on and cultivated throughout life. Throughout history there were several personalities who stood out for dedicating their lives to work against civil and social injustice, and to help those who needed it most, for example, Mother Teresa of Calcutta. A good person is characterized by developing: kindness, empathy, conscience, sincerity, humility.
In that sense, good people bring light and brightness in relationships. Never regret being kind just because sometimes you don't feel that your kindness is perceived by others. Don't regret being a good person because something may happen against you. Remember that good gestures are not always accompanied by recognition and not only that, but on several occasions you may have realized that your gestures have not even been noticed by others. Many times we expect to receive what we give to others. As if it were an exact mathematical operation.
Moreover, we feed the thought that we will always get what we deserve when we do not. If only this planet called earth were a fair ecosystem, with clear laws in advance that would specify what we should abide by, but it is not like that. The world surprises us with its balance of power and the scale of priorities of its inhabitants. Inhabitants who punish (consciously or unconsciously).
That is why life is not fair in this respect. There are good people suffering and bad people victorious in a sometimes confusing world. This does not mean that goodness is something meaningless, unvalued or unrecognized. It is something necessary that gives a different quality to relationships. There are always people who value your gestures. So the most important thing, as you can imagine, is not that others recognize what we are, but that you feel comfortable with your own way of loving life and others. In the average in which what we do is pure and without interest of recognition by third parties, we will feel good with our kindness and we will not regret it. Think of it as having the power to comfort ourselves.
To conclude, perhaps it is better for our mental health to accept that the other person, in all probability, will not show his gratitude exactly in the way or in the time that we would like. Being a good person from that purity that implies that we do not mind receiving something "equally" valuable in return is an act of authenticity that we should not lose. If you are doing it to get something in return, be honest with yourself and really consider how to act in a more genuine way, without resorting to those little manipulations that end up generating so much damage in oneself and in the other. Also, never regret being a good person. Kindness always comes back in the form of peace with oneself.
Do you know how to appreciate the kindness of others?
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