The most effective method to understand other people.
I believe that we should practice listening and paying attention to what the other person is saying. At the same time connect with feelings. When someone tells you something, think about how they felt, take time to understand their point of view.
That is why understanding another person is the way we experience the emotions of others. In the same way we experience our own, comparing similar situations and at the same time recognizing the differences between one opinion and another. When a conversation is conceived in an atmosphere of trust, anecdotes and experiences begin to come out. This situation can be tilted in your favor because, if the other individual believes that you are interested in learning about his or her experiences, he or she will be more willing to express himself or herself to you and get your attention with his or her stories.
Many important elements can be established through conversation. Each conversation can have a different purpose. You will meet many people who do not know how to keep a conversation going and it will be difficult to listen to them for a long time. Avoid making it obvious. Just turn the situation around and try to bring the conversation back to your own territory. It will be easier to pay attention to what they are saying.
Conversing with others is a key component of connecting emotionally with other people. Giving a smile can be a good start, but if you're just smiling you won't get anywhere, you have to talk. You may have a hard time opening up or even how to start a conversation, well, in principle I recommend you not to start by asking a question. That is why it is very important that you practice active listening, it will help you to exercise assertiveness and you will know how to identify the emotions experienced by those who are next to you and the circumstances that generated them. There is nothing a person likes more than someone who is interested in him or her.
One of the mistakes we tend to make when connecting with the emotions of others is to force the relationship. You may have really liked someone, but being pushy will only sabotage the friendship that could have existed in the future. Don't be anxious, because connecting is not about needing the other person, it's about showing empathy for others and enjoying yourself. Only then will you get to have a special relationship with someone.
Conclusion:
Meeting many people, interacting and getting to connect emotionally is one of the most enriching experiences we can have in our life.
Empathy is something that helps us to establish constructive relationships with others and this implies social harmony. It allows us to gain the ability to identify with someone and share their emotions. In particular, I think empathy allows us to go further and understand a person from a holistic perspective.
¿How do you want to understand someone who doesn't think like you if you don't give yourself the opportunity to listen to their truth?
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Listen first after we react, listening is the best way to communicate with other people and understanding can drive also to a peaceful conversation