Challenges, problems and obstacles are all part of life

Life is so unpredictable, one minute you are happy the next something tragic happens. Happiness doesn’t last forever neither does sorrow but only if you choose to let go of the things that make you sad. Change is the only constant thing in this world. Adapting to change and finding a way not to let a problem faze us will determine if one will stay happy or not.

The ability not to move through life but rather through obstacles is what shapes who we are. So many people discovered who they truly are only after something tragic happens to them. They become even stronger with an even bigger heart. Life is nothing to be sad about but rather embrace as it comes with its share of joy and sorrow. Moving forward, looking back and seeing for yourself that with each day, your life gets better and better is more than enough to keep you going in this journey called life.

Though there is no manual to life, I know that life is supposed to be fun and adventurous. It is supposed to be lived and enjoyed with friends and loved ones.

Life is supposed to be lived without judgment. Because sometimes when you get judged, it hardens you up and you start to do things that may not be right but think that it is the right thing to do, judging others.

While we are all trying our best to get through life, there are some lessons that we all should take into account...

It is okay to make mistakes, it is okay to take wrong turns. The only thing that matters is that you move forward from where you are currently at for better or for worse.

The good thing about mistakes is that we learn from them, no matter how big or small it is. The lesson will always remain and if ever the same situation arises again, we would have the ability to see the error of our ways and approach the situation differently. This in turn will bring about better results in life.

A person who makes mistakes but does not take responsibility for his actions and does not try to correct them is only making himself a loser in life.

The person who makes a mistake must make sure that he corrects it and tries to learn from it so that he doesn't repeat it. Life is short. Mistakes are bound to happen but one needs to take responsibility for their actions and own up to their mistakes. If one does this, their life will surely have a purpose. If you don't learn from your mistakes you will remain stagnant in life.

However, you don't need to make mistakes before you learn, you can learn from someone else's mistakes and be inspired by each other's success. Our glory comes from the achievements of others, we are all connected in some way so we should help each other grow. The limits of your success are only limited by your imagination.

You look for happiness everywhere, sometimes you enjoy it and sometimes you don't. Happiness is a state of mind, but do you know how to be happy.

Today, many people suffer from mental problems and it is not limited to just adults, even children are affected as well. The major reason for this is because people are always busy, either making a living or studying to get a job. They try to put pressure on themselves, thinking that they must be the best at what they do rather than accepting that they can only do the best they can.

Conclusion

It is misunderstood that being an adult means that you should be able to take on challenges with no effort but it is not true, people are not machines and so they cannot do everything with ease. It is not wrong to feel sad or confused once in a while but what is important is that the person does the best he/she can. One must understand that everyone has his/her strengths and weakness and sometimes life itself would put you through problems that would make your life harder. What you need is to just put your heart into it and learn from your mistakes and failures.

Because it is normal to feel sad once in a while, one must take action to overcome these feelings as soon as possible by trying different activities such as taking part in family hangouts, and outings with friends. In all, Create your own happiness.

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