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"Get rid your Disappointments" Blog#139, February 04,2022 no 04 Basically, one of the reason why we felt disappointed is because we **expect too much.** Well, I'm not saying that we shouldn't expect, but I just wanted to remind everyone, including my self, that we should lower our expectations to anyone, so we can avoid disappointments and felt demotivated. Expectations is actually quite normal at all costs, specially if we did something. Sometimes we expect for a simple thank you or a response from our greetings or we expect that they will be honest to us the way we did to them and that's absolutely normal but still we should not expect. And if you're helping or supporting someone or you're in love to someone, I think we should also lower our expectations, as sometimes expectations may lead us to disappointment and heartbreaks. We cannot guarantee that the person we love will love us back the way we love him/her dearly, we cannot guarantee that the person we supported will also support us in the end. At some point we shouldn't expect that people will pay us back to our kindness, or do something favourable in return for our kindness. We are all different, our perspective are normally different, sometimes even how we show our gratitude are quite different too. So as what I have said, don't expect that once you showed your kindness to that person, he/she would also do the same, because sometimes people can do the opposite and we cannot do anything about it, but respect the person without any hatred. We don't have any authority to dictate anyone to be kind to everyone as all of us has difference's and we should value it. For example is here in readcash. Not because you always upvote or read someone's article, the author would do the same to you, lower your expectations as sometimes we cannot guarantee that our article's are interesting to everyone. As a matter of fact our interests are also different, very different but our goals are quite similar. Some users read our article's not because they have responsibility to us or they owe something from us, they read because they wanted to support us, they read because our article is interesting to them, they read because at some point they can relate with our situations, they read because they feel motivated with your words, but of course sometimes they cannot read our articles because they don't have much time, not actually because they are not interested, remember all of us has priorities. And so what if they stop reading you, would you cursed them? Noooooooooo! Don't be silly. Eventually we cannot guarantee that all people will stay. We cannot guarantee that all your supporters will remain at their spot, so be grateful at all times, but please don't hate. Respect and don't stop supporting each other. You can still read her/his article and you have your choice if you gonna upvote his/her articles or not, nobody would force you. Sometimes you're comment or like is already enough, but of course the biggest choice is respectfully yours😊. At my part, I can only read the article's of those who are in my comment box, not because I don't want to read other's articles, but because my time is so very limited, but I do read them if I have extra time. Anyway, I know that I don't need to explain why I can only read your articles if you commented in my articles, but I just want you to know that, I really don't have much time to check my notification to look for your articles, just like I used to do before. Now my bell is actually always red. I cannot open them one by one anymore 🥺. I don't have much time, I'm being preoccupied taking care of my little one, but I don't wanna stop writing as I also need money😅 , i have bills🤣. That is why sometimes I cannot reply your comment immediately, as I prefer to read your article's first than to reply your comment in my article. My apology, if sometimes I cannot leave a comment, or if sometimes I miss your article's, and if sometimes my upvote isn't that big. It's actually because I upvote base on how much I have in my wallet, as i also need to split my balance so I can upvote as many as I can and if I cannot land in your article, I'm really sorry. Anyway this is just one of all those reasons why we felt disappointed, actually there's still have lots, but expectation has the biggest impact in our emotions that really makes us feel disappointed. And so for us to avoid disappointments we should not expect too much, we better lower our expectations or maybe do not expect anything in return. Let's just all be grateful and be happy for everyone's success. **Less expectations, less disappointments and heartbreaks😉. Spread peace and love to have a happy life.** I think this is all for now and thank you for reading. If I mentioned something where you don't agree, your opinion will be respected, this is just my own opinions and thoughts 😉😊, just love. Lead image source edited using Canva
36 comments
Less expectations and less desires always help us to be happy. Those regrets kills our happiness.
Indeed my friend, it's killing our happiness.
Well said!!we need to lower our expectations,the people we show love might not do the same we just need to ride along and love them.
Exactly mate, thank you.
We shouldn't expect a lot because it will hurt us. Try it to be balance. Too much can give you so much pain. Expecting too much can ruin your lives, a big dissapointment will return to you. We must be in the middle. It's the lesson I learned sis that's why I learned that I will not expect too much because it's really painful when it fails.
Truth sis, we have differences.
True, the less the expectations is the better.
Truth sis, thank you
I agree sis! And not because you upvote with this amt sa writer would do the same on your article. Though I know there so many generous users here. And, most of all don't expect that Rusty will always drop by in your article just how he drops into others. You might get hurt😂 Same here, can't read a lot of article. Got busy at my work
That's right. I think lowering our standards will really help us to not disappointed. I like how you made us understand that not everything can be read and up voted because we have all different likes and interests.
this is a proper and good notice, you have represented for all friends. everything you have said I also feel, appreciation for you and always being the best.
The best way to live is to not expect too much from anyone. If you expect disappointment from the beginning, then you wouldn't be moved when it finally comes..
Dear Garreth, I agree with your every word, you said it well my friend. The lower our expectations of ourselves and those around us, the happier we are, and the better we feel. Mutual understanding of those around us is very effective in our peace and happiness... 👌
Thank you my friend.😉
Sometimes we need to lover ourexpectations in order to not be dissappinted.
The higher our expectations from people, the more upset we get.
we should have low expectations from people
We all have frustration. Depression is something that can make us unhappy. So we should all get rid of the frustrations.
Truth mate, let's all be positive
Less Expectation, less disappointment👍. You explained it all, especially as it relates to this platform. Do whatsoever you're doing from your mind and not on what people are saying or doing
Exactly mate, thank you
If only we could have all the time in the world, i would definitely read to my heart's content. But like what youve said ate, limited lang jud kayo ang time. T.T
Same here, i would keep on reading til i dropped 🤣🤣
Last month, I was dealing with my disappointments. But I realized I should not dwell on it. MJ's word of Spiderman movie that says "expect disappointment so you wont disappointed" always lingers on my mind right now. I also remember when my ex-boyfriend told me that "Too much expectation will lead you to a bigger disappointment.
Indeed, we can do that sis, expect disappointments
I can relate to what you mentioned above. Can't read or comment every single article and we got priorities for time is indeed limited. And yes, we should not really expect from others so we don't get disappointed.
Truth sis, thanks anyway
Agree sis hehez we have our own priorities so we haven't time to read some article haha I wish we could have a lot of time so that we can give time to read and support everyone.
Truth sis, but as a mom medyo occupied talaga time ko.
Yeah that's a worldclass truth that more exceptation bring more disappoinment and make us disappointed every time.We should lower our exceptations so that it won't hurt us
Exactly my friend.. let's just support without expecting in return.
One who expects too much might be let down at when he least expected. I read through your article till end. May God can continue to give you the strength to o keep up with your motherly duty and also other areas of interest. Cheers
Thank you my friend.
Your right sis. It can cause stress or frustrations of too much expectations. Ako nga kokonti lng viewers at commenters eh hapi pa din ako at least hindi zero.
Truth sis, ako talagang hirap na mag manage sa oras ko, sobrang malikot na baby ko, kaya nakafucos muna ako sa kanya, ayoko lang iwan tong c read kc sayang naman yung earnings.
Ako din bz ky kulot ksi umaakyat na hahaha. Syang sis c read at tyga ka na lng kesa wlang income.