To the ladies out there

I don't know if this writing is based on my area in particular or is it the same everywhere? It's no longer a new thing that girls of 12, 13, 14 and above now get pregnant and give birth without any plan for them cos they got a sudden pregnancy. It is no longer a shame or slap to their name or dignity again cos it has been the norm of the day and norm of every society.

They see s*x has something they can have at any freaking time they want with anybody. Must you open your legs to every man? That's a question to the ladies out there. What baffles me about the case is that the lady knew deep down that the guy doesn't have an apartment of his own nor a particular work that he is doing that is fetching him money so that they can survive, yet, she will open her leg for him to penetrate. Hmmm, what a shame, maybe the guy lied for her as I said in my last three articles about what ladies want, if you remember you will know that I said ladies like lies and they fall for it easily.

It's fine if you have to get pregnant at an early age but the question is, is your husband or so-called boyfriend ready for all the responsibilities? Or does he has a good job taking care of you and your baby? Or did he have a capable family? All the ones I have seen are NO for me and that's the reason for my question earlier that is it just my area or is it everywhere. Only a few are YES, they are fully responsible which is good. All those with No that I have seen, are always in the house of the boy's mother, a single room for 7 adults 😅😅😅😅, not to now talk of the mother and the newborn baby, what a life full of suffering.

A room of 7 adults in this present Nigeria situation where there is no stable light with the hot sun having its way frying some hot pancake on your body during the day, and the whole place is full of heat during the night, I wonder the kind of heat that will battle with them all through the night. Ladies should know now that it's not everyone you open your leg for, add value to your life and don't be seen as an s*x toy.

All that I have written above is just peripheral of what is paining me most about all these ladies' stuff. The most annoying thing is that they now look like that of grandma after giving birth. They don't take care of themselves at all, maybe because they don't have the money to, the money they have is just for food for the baby cos they are still struggling with their end meet.

They look tattered and unkempt, they just leave their body anyhow, they look like someone that gave birth to 12 children. The way I see them makes me get irritated, their hair will look scattered just because you are taking care of just one baby. Does that mean they shouldn't be clean and dress well because you are taking care of a baby? They no longer package themselves the way they do when they are yet to give birth and it's so irritating to me.

My advice to the ladies out there is that please, make sure you open your leg for thr right person if at all you want to do that before marriage. And if it's that you want to do marriage before the opening of the leg, ensure you find the right person and plan your future with the person. You shouldn't do that with anyhow person or someone without any goals or plan for you and himself. And please once again, always make yourself presentable even after giving birth, childbirth shouldn't make you look old than your mom, it shouldn't make you older than your grandma, you should look younger and beautiful as you were before you got that pregnancy.

I am glad I can talk about this cos it's irritating seeing all these, I wish they could read this and make a quick correction about it. I know many will say why I didn't talk about the guys too, let's be calm, that's the title of my next article, I don't want to be biased about it.

Stay tuned for the guy's own, bye for now.

Thanks for reading, love you guys 🥰🥰🥰.