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I just have to pour all my mind out today because it's getting too much and I can't take it any longer. I read an article by @King_Gozie this morning and I was angry at the incident that happened there, he talked about the true reality of a crazy world. And my reply in the comment section was that common sense is not common and that's why such things are happening.

A quick question, is the world actually crazy or the human in it are the ones crazy?

I am not into any relationship and that doesn't mean I can't give relationship advice to the best of my knowledge. I have been witnessing different relationships and am like, why are people like this? Why do people choose to suffer all because they want to be in a relationship?

First of all, as a guy, you know you are still depending on your parent on some things if not all things and most importantly you don't have a rented house to yourselves yet you went ahead to give someone daughter pregnant, where do you expect the lady to stay? Is it in her parent's house of one room with five siblings? Or your house with four siblings with you included and your parent in one room or let me say room and parlour? Where exactly will she stay cos I don't understand the way some guys reason and I find it very hard to understand. I only realize that "common sense is not common for them".

You as a lady, you know the guy so well that he doesn't have work and if at all he has a work is he capable enough to take care of himself? You know he is still staying in his parent house and depend solely on them but yet you allow love to cover your foolish face (sorry to say) and go ahead and open your legs wide open for that stupid boy. I still wonder why so many ladies don't get to think straight and just remain stupid in their ways. Well, I don't blame is just that "common sense is not common for them".

A quick example in my area

Example 1

I have a neighbour, she has five children and the firstborn happen to be a lady and the rest are guys. Their last born is still in jss3, their fourth born is learning fashion designing after his ss3 and the remaining first, second and third didn't learn any handwork and they keep jumping from one work to another. The firstborn who happens to be a lady has married three different men and still counting, she has given birth to three children with different fathers. And many times, she will bring the kids along with her to her parent's place and stay for weeks in a one-man room. The brother which is the third born went ahead to bring a lady to be living with them from the village and call her his wife in the same room. The second is just there flaunting the street up and down with no work at hand.

Now tell me, what's the plan of these people for their future? And a dumb lady will go ahead and open leg for them and get pregnant to them when they aren't even capable of feeding themselves not to talk of the baby they will give birth to. Is it not stupidity of the highest order?

Example 2

There is this woman in my street, she has a daughter and two sons. The woman is jobless and all she does is wash dirty clothes for people all about. Her daughter of just 17 years old has given birth to four kids of ate a range of 3 to 4 years for an irresponsible boy ( I won't call him man or guy cos he is just too irresponsible to be called that). The boy is jobless and he is a tout always collecting money in the garage, he drinks and smokes, the lady is also doing all sorts of menial works just to survive. She will dump the four kids for her mom to take care of them while she goes on her way without dropping any money for her. The woman will always complain and keep crying every blessed day for their kind of lifestyle.

It's whose fault? The mother or the daughter?

I will blame both of them because the mother has refused to train her daughter and the daughter has refused to retrain herself. There is a saying that " to won mba ko yan, eyan ma tun a rare ko ni" meaning when one is trained, such a person will also have to train himself or herself all alone again.

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Why all is this my heart panting?

I am always very sad whenever I see my age mate in a relationship or marriage and they are finding it very hard to find happiness in it. Imagine a girl of 20 years or even less that is married and have given birth looking like a 70 yrs old woman, why? The stress, hustle, pain and suffering she is undergoing is what has turned her into that.

Why have they decided to push themselves into what they are not up to? Why have ladies refused to leave that toxic relationship that they haven't derived any happiness from? You are been beaten today, tomorrow and will be beaten the next day, yet you refused not to leave nor run for your dear life all because of I still love him, which stupid love is that? If he loves you will he beat you? No, he doesn't and will never unless you run for your life.

I saw a video of recent where the guy beat the lady to death all because of a minor argument that transpired between them. Did you want to tell me, that guy just started portraying that trait? He must have been showing it but the dumb girl refuse to leave the relationship all because of one foolish love until she died.

My advice for the ladies, if you know your boyfriend is not responsible is better you run for your dear life and find someone else and top hoping for he will change. If he is an animal (sorry for this word) that do beat you every day, you better run for your life and stop believing you will change him or he will change.

Many are out there that are not using their sense in their daily lifestyle but I won't blame them cos " common sense is not common".

I will put a stop to it here even though there are still a lot boiling in my mind, many times I feel for ladies facing this and sometimes I don't even pity them because they have refused to use their sense.

NB: I got my first dose of the covid 19 vaccine today, I hope it doesn't react with my body. If I am not able to read your article, have it in mind that the vaccine must have affected me, thanks for your understanding in advance.

Thanks for reading and God bless you all, if you like what you read, don't forget to thumb it up 👍👍.

Bye for now🥰🥰.

9th Novemberr 2021.