Value Yourself
VALUE YOURSELF
Hello everyone, hope you're all good, it been a while here, I haven't been online for a while now due to the exam I'm having in school currently, done with most of my paper, just few to go with a lot of days in between them, so you would see me tipping and sponsoring soon to the best of my power. I would like to talk on a topic based on the value you have towards yourself and special thanks shall be going to DEMILADE BABATUNDE for the inspiration
A wise man once said "If you're not inspired, you will expire"
If you don't value yourself people won't value you.
*A worthless person is a valueless person.*
Value is said to be the worth of an action or a thing.
*Your value is your worth.*
The amount of respect you give yourself will determine how well people respect you, you should always know how to have high self-esteem, someone who looks down on themselves has failed but can raise up again
If you see yourself as a princess, let your actions speaks the same, common no one can ever degrade you.
*Value what you have*
"If the worth of a thing is unknown, abuse is inevitable"
A man who valued his woman will never raise his hand to beat her. He knows the worth of a woman. No person will want to destroy what they value or what is very worthy to them.
Do you add value to yourself?
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If a man use and dump you, you will feel you meant nothing to him rather then a fun tool, the fault isn't yours, but the way you handle the situation there after matters a lot because the way you presented yourself in the after match matters, you need to then add value to yourself, don't look down on yourself, cause if you do, then you lose both side.
If your wife is not respecting you, have you checked what you look like to her and correct it. She may not see the value in you, present yourself again to prove you're worthy to be her kind of man or the kind of man she would want to be with and vise versa.
I had a friend a long time ago, Her boyfriend proposed to her secretly, gave her a beautiful ring, bought gifts for her and do a lot of things for her, but the girl was not interested in marrying him. She just wanted his gifts and money, she was willing to stay in the relationship so long the cash keeps flowing in. Now, anytime the man comes to pay a visit she put the ring on and after his exit, she remove it and throw it anywhere until she could not find the ring again.
When this man discovered that she had lost it the relationship ended.
No matter how small a gift is, always appreciate the giver, that's how to shows how much you value them. You wouldn't wanna lost a necklace your mom gave to you which she got from her own mother.
A lady that wants men to respect her will never join others ladies to have sexual intercourse with animal because once her secret is expose she has lost her dignity.
*Value dignifies you.*
Respect is what makes you valuable. And remember, respect is reciprocal.
Note this:
Sincerity will make you to be trusted , obedience will give you better titles, loyalty communicates peace to the world, diligence makes you less worried about people who chose not to respect you, honesty give you grace among great people and your dedication to all good behaviours keeps you moving without fears.
Low self esteem is what usually make many people behave like a fool where they should be wise. Such person will know what to do but fear of being condemned most times keep those solutions in their brain until it becomes useless.
*If you value yourself well, people will also value you as well, because value attract value*
*VALUE YOURSELF*
I hope you have been able to learn something from this, if yes, I'm glad you did, if you're a new person to my article, you know what to do to see more from me.
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Article type: Lifestyle
Date: 10/02/2022
Author: FashTioluwa
Respect begets respect. Giving value to ourselves boosts confidence.