Habit is one of the traits that make up a human or will I say complete us. There is no man or woman on this planet who doesn't have a trait(habit). We have good and bad habits and of course, everyone wants a person with a good habit. Some people don't know the habit they possess is a bad one. There is a popular saying.
If two or more people complain about you. Then it is not just them but check yourself.
Who said it? I'm yet to figure that out.
Today we would be discussing six(6) habits to avoid and if you have any of them, please make some changes.
1. Spending more than you earn.
Recently, I read an article published by @Princessbusayo titled; what do you spend on most? You can visit her page to read it. In that article, she spoke about an app that she used to monitor her daily expenses and income. With this one would know what they earn and how they spend.
People who have spending people really need to see a therapist to help them cob the problem, yes I call it a problem because it is. Some would go the extra mile to borrow money based on the fact that they are expecting some money. It's not wrong when the money is put to good use, yet people with spending issues won't return it but rather spend it and hope for another one. Spending more than you earn is a bad habit, STOP IT!!
2. Hanging out with people who say No to every idea.
Do you know people's mindsets can be affected by those around them? If you put a wolf and a fox puppy among that of many dog puppies, there is a higher chance for the wild animal to behalf domesticated because of the environment and group they move with. That's just how humans are, if you make it a habit to move with people who say NO all the time to your ideas, then I'm happy and yet sad to tell you that you would never get anything done.
3. Playing the victim.
Do you know some people have never admitted their wrongdoing or believe they are right when they are wrong? Even when they know they are wrong, they would find an excuse to suit their wrongdoing.
If a person never admits to their wrongdoing, then they are not ready to grow as a human being. In one of @Olasquare articles titled; T... Tune Thursday (TTT).
Forget what the first T stood for😥😥
The musician which he focused on was Akon. Many of you might know him. The song titled "Sorry; Blames on me" showed how the musician had grown and was ready to admit his wrongdoing. He didn't play the victim here even when he didn't know the girl was underage, he went out to make a public apology. If you have this habit, learn from Akon and say "I'm sorry" next time. It would make people love you more.
4. Making Excuse.
Making excuses is not a bad thing that's for sure but we have some extreme excuse-makers. They are ready to put out 100s of excuses not to get things done or not to go out to a place.
I have a female friend who I always visit every time but has never visited me. We leave very close to each other so I can say, the distance wasn't an excuse. But she always find excuses not to come until one day she told me if she breathed the air outside, it would make her sick, that's why she doesn't like going out.😨😨
Since then, I stopped visiting and if I would go, it would just be to check up on the family.
5. Trying to impress others
Being another person who is loved by everyone to your own mental detriment is totally off the chart. Like why would you want to impress others?
You see, there are ways to impress people but when you're doing it or forcing it for people to notice you or like you are bad. Be yourself and let people see you for who you are. Also being yourself when it is at the expense of others too can be bad. Read Just Being Me by @Mikeoye and you will understand more.
6. Focusing on the negative.
In life, bad things happen. We all have good days and bad ones, we can't have all the good days. You know why, people we are not perfect, no one is perfect.
When you understand this you would like the past to go, instead of focusing on the negative that would only bring more negativity why don't you focus on the good things that have happened and work towards a better future? If you have the habit of focusing only on the negative, this can lead to depression and high blood pressure.
In conclusion...
The world is evolving and we should evolve with it positively, be an agent of change in your vicinity and let people from afar learn from you. I wish you all a safe and beautiful day or night.
Furthermore, today should have been the day for the release of a new episode of Welcome to Readcash Academy but there was a little change so it will be published tomorrow (Sunday). Thanks for sticking with me on this journey. I love you all.
These are timely and relevant. I hope everyone should learn from these reminders.