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The Right Age To Get Married Many people always get this topic wrong, what you're about to read will enlighten you to a new world of marriage, I hope you're able to learn from this, I would talk about how long a relationship should last before it leads to marriage, the right age to get marriage, Goals, and dream of couples before marriage. So let's go!! How long should a relationship last before it leads to marriage?
What you're about to read is from my point of view and based on my research. Society and the older generation has put a time limit on how long a relationship should last before the couples get married, to me there is no time limit on how a relationship should last before marriage, if the guy and the lady love each other and are fully prepared for what is to come after marriage, then they are good to go. I'm not saying when a guy and a lady meet themselves today, and they feel like they love themselves they should go on with the marriage, that's not my point, at least they have to know themselves first and get to know a person with their characteristic shouldn't take more than two to three month, if its a serious relationship, discussion about the future or where the relationship will lead to should be discussed already.
There are some facts to consider before deciding to get married. Financial stage of both partners Goals and dreams of each How mature and prepared they are Family Communication Tolerance And many more. The right AGE to get married
Society has put an age to the time to get married especially for female children when a lady is getting to age 29th or 30th, you will year people around asking, "when will you get married" "where is your partner" this happens to both the guys and the ladies. When it comes to the guy, the parent is the one that asks this question the most, and the truth is, there is no right AGE to get married. The place we grow up, the tradition, the norms and morals, the environment sometimes put an age limit for marriage, when a person hasn't met up with the right requirements of marriage, the person should rush into the marriage and when they do, it always turns out bad, that is why we have more divorce case these days. In conclusion Many people have rushed into marriage because they believe they have passed the age limit of getting married and this is a threat to our society as we have many divorces now, single parents, and many broken homes. The parent shouldn't force their kids into marriage when they aren't ready and prepare for it, marriage isn't something you rush into, it's a lifetime decision and it should be taken with all seriousness. I hope you have been able to learn from this, if you have additional words, you can add them in the comment section, I will read, reply and tip. Thanks for reading, I hope you follow up for more. All images used are from unsplash.com Article type: Marriage Date:25/02/2022 Author: FashTioluwa
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Yeah, you're right; honestly there shouldn't be a right age to get married, but for some ladies, most ladies perse, I feel they should get married early for health and to avoid complications during pregnancy... My opinion though. Thanks for sharing this sir, really one of the causes of failed marriages is desperation to get married in the first place.
Thanks for sharing this... I'm sure people will learn from this
Marriage requires a lot of responsibilities and has nothing to do with age but maturity. Thanks for mentioning this. Unfortunately, the mentality is that ladies must marry latest by 28 or 26 depending on cultural values which is very wrong. So many have been pressured into marriage and are now living a life of regret.
Exactly my point
I do agree that there isn't any age to get married. Many have being pressurized into this and while some found a way out , some just stayed in it enduring it and dying in painful silence. I wish the mentality to see a 34 year old woman as someone who can never get married again since she missed it in her twenties should be stopped . People need to mind their businesses and stop adding more depression to a depressed soul.
The truth is I have seen ladies get married in their 30s and doing so well
So have I.. people just need to mind their business
Marriage doesn´t have any age limit as long as you are ready in all aspects and be convinced of entering into it with the right mindset, then you are free to get married at any age.
Me, if I see 5billion now, I will marry, all other aspect Is set.. But finance isn't yet😑😥
This is what many people say until they grow old. Once you are capable and have a stable income, there is nothing stopping you from getting married to the right woman and in the process, you keep getting rich when you both support each other.
Hmm... Word of wisdom early morning.. Thanks for this
The right age of marriage for me is when I got married. At the age 36, I was married to a woman whose age is 24. But we're blessed with 2 kids. Age doesn't matter really.
Exactly, age doest matter when it comes to marriage, people always get things about marriage wrong. An age limit has been fixed and when one feels they aren't meeting up, depression sets in
Pressure from parents are usually the cause. They don't want to know whether you love eachother wholeheartedly or not. All they want is just get married not minding the consequences.
And the fact is that , their generation differs from ours, things aren't the same as they use to be
My husband has no plan on us getting married because of their myth thoughts, but were 18 years together and I want to enjoy the rest of my life with him
Whaoo.. That's nice, believe and religion is also a limit when it comes to marriage
But he told me he wants to, and maybe when we get old and before we die..and thanks by the way
Aww, wishing you the best ❤💯❤💯❤💯
I learned from this. There really shouldn't be a time limit or anything like that. I feel that who ever wants to get married should be mature enough to handle all that comes with marriage and most of the time, both partners may not be 100% financially buoyant but in all, they need to make sure that they are capable to an extent.
Exactly, when they agree and they are ready to work together, then I believe they are good to go, a long relationship doesn't connote a lasting marriage
Hmm.. there's no right she to get married oh. We should only get married when we are emotional matured to take on this lifelong journey
And the truth is that, some partner will just show their true nature in the marriage and when a person is not prepare to accept this.. Divorce set in
It's sad how people are pressured into marriage by the society. Those that fall to that pressure may end up rushing and marrying the next available person without properly checking their compatibility
Its what we have in the society now
Yeah, that's true. It's really happening a lot. Some people are even getting married so they'll say they got married before their friends (my gender especially)
From my own view like you've rightly said, how long a relationship is doesn't matter for it to lead to marriage. What matters the most is putting God in the picture, and praying to him to help you in the journey. The Will of God matters the most. How long a relationship is doesn't make you know your partner, you could date a guy for ten years, get married and he turn out to be another person entirely. Cause you can't know human completely. Only God knows everyone perfectly, he is the only one who can choose the right person for you without you having regrets. I pray God helps everyone here and none of us will make mistake in marriage.
Amen, I love the way you put it, and you're right, any relationship that is planned to lead to marriage and doesn't have God first..it may lead to the wrong path
Exactly my point ma'am 😌
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