You are easy to look on person's appearance because of how they look and wear. You labeled them easily with such names that they don't deserved.
When I am still a innocent small kid, I am not aware to my sorroundings. I am easy to get curious around. I don't know but when the first moment that I saw a girl with a Hair colored before, I never think of her as different as with a person with a normal hair in fact, I was amazed to the color of her hair and adore it. I once also label them as a living Barbie in this world and I told my Mom about it and she just simply said, "Huwag mong tularan iyan paglaki mo." Don't get my Mom wrong, she doesn't judge the person because, she also said this, "Masisira buhok mo sige, gusto mo yung buhok ng barbie na hirap suklayin?".
My Mom doesn't mean to hate or judge them as so, the other parents too. They are just saying things like that so we can't change ourselves and or we will be contented to what we are because who would not? Our Parents knows what is the best for us and they don't like us to learn other things that makes us regret in the future.
Fast forward to our Main topic, As thinking my topic for today, These was pop up to my mind, I just remembered the past about the hair colored girl and so me as well as how do I look now but before I will tell you a story about why I changed my Hair color, I think I have a another thing to discussed with you first.
What other people think when you dye your Hair color?
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Here in the country of Philippines, elders are so the only person who are easy to judge youth. If in the other country, this thing is just normal but When you as a woman dyed your hair, you will get criticized by them as a 'Whore' here.
What other people think when you wear a sexy Outfits?
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Again, here in our country when we as a woman wear a sexy or revelling clothes, they will labeled us as a 'Whore' and 'Prostitutes'
When you have a Tattoos and piercings in any part of your bodies
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When you have that to your body parts, they will easy to criticized you as a Addict and many people will distance theirselves to you.
Sure it was hurt being labeled like that by some elders even if you are not. Now my question is, Why they are look to youth right now like that?
It is because simple and you also know the reason. They are far from our era now before, this things are not existing. Phones and SOC-MED. Girls wear some simple outfits and they never wear a short shorts and even a sexy outfits before. They never experienced this kind of things and they easy to judge youth because they never expected that the youth will change like this.
How do you look on someone or how you will call people that are wearing that stuffs or they look like that?
As for me, I never labeled them or look at them as a Different person. They are the same as the same person as before, they are just changed in how they dress and there are a lot of reasons why they choose to changed in how they look. For example, one of the most common reason is
They are just Following the Trend, we all experienced in the Jejemon era where you are posting your selfies with your bangs and so the hair color as well where it was because of the k-pop in the korea wearing it. Of course, Today, we also have a lot of things that we followed by the influenced of social media.
Their Puberty changed, when we will reached to High School, we all know that when you are already a Maiden you will not do the things that you get used to it when you are still a kid. You will not play outside, you will learn to fix yourself so that you will look decent to other's eyes.
But that are just a simple reasons why we changed and there are a lot of things that you didn't know why other girls changed themselves from their hair color to how they look now, There are a lot of Stories behind the changed of a person.
As for me the reason why I Changed my Hair color of course! I born to have a natural black hair color and if what you see to me now is a new look of mine and I don't look like this before.
What are the reasons Why I changed myself?
Bullying is one of the main reason why I changed, I am a weak person and i can't able to stands on my own before. They call or labeled me such names that I don't, like a Ugly duckling, Charcoal because of the color of my skin, Bakekang because I am ugly and they sse me look a like like her.
You can easy to say that, it is just not a serious reason but you wouldn't feel the same feeling when I am at that kind of situation before. I changed my hair color, if how I dress, and How I look but no matter that I changed appearance, I am still the same me. The kind hearted and a soft person that easy to cry even if it is just a simple reason.
Now, I still recieved some critizing by many people because of how I wear and look. Even if anything that I used, or how I walk they still judge me, they still call me different names that I don't deserved but no matter they judge me, I learned to stand straight and raised up my left eyebrow and chin and asked, "WHO ARE YOU TO JUDGE?"
Anyways, As for the People who are always victims of Labeling their appearances,
Learn to ignore those people , you know yourself very well and you don't need to please others just so they can like you.
No matter what their opinions in what you do to your self, learn to accept those and never think it as bad and make your feel bad in fact, you can be more strong.
The Purpose of this topic:
Well the Purpose of this topic is as what you read the Title, Not all People are have the same similarities of reasons of Appearance.
You may see the people how they look and dressed as looking bad person but remember that never judge a person by their appearance. They are still the a human like you.
Tattoos are art, dressing a revelling clothes doesn't mean that they don't respect themselves, Wearing Hair color doesn't defined woman as a whore.
In short, Never judge a person if you don't know them. Know how to Respect so that they can also respect you as well.
Thank you for reading my Article today 💚
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mostly naman kasi kahit anong gawin or kahit wala kang gawin meron at meron talaga silang makikita sayo para ma judge ka never done those but still I know na may mga say pa rin sila sakin pero keber they are not the owner of my body so ang tanging magagawa lang nila ay gawin akong topic and I don't give a stinkest care