Hot Seat about Dating: Am I ready?

Yesterday, I read a lot of articles about why they are single? And I also laughed of the joke that there are a lot of Single here and nagsi labasan na sila. HAHA and of course I am belong to the 'Samahan ng mga Single' because I don't also have a boyfriend since last year? I don't remember when is the last time i entered to relationship.

While my sister is away right now to get the $139 usd or Php 7,000 for our Groceries, I decided to write an article today About this topic and I will share you about what happened to my $139 usd tomorrow. So yeah let's start and I will share you my answers too.

Btw. I Will Use Tagalog and English language here. So that I can explain it better to you lahat ng sasabihin ko.

#1 QUESTION: Who are you dating these days?

I have a lot of Boyfriends right now. Let me call Lee Jung suk, Lee Min Ho, Song Kang, +100 others.

but they don't know that I am their girlfriend...yet.

#2 QUESTION: Are you Opening yourself up to love?

Of course, I always ready when I have someone to love with because we cannot stop our self when we fall inlove. But for now let me enjoy for being single first and i also want to learn things like some elders do like how to cook, because I thought It is embarrassing if I will find and fall inlove yet i don't know how to cook for him lol Because at these stage of starting being adult, we are not finding a Boyfriend but a Husband and we can be with forever already.

#3rd QUESTION: Are you afraid of Love?

Yes And No. Yes, because I don't like to get hurt. I don't like to be broken hearted again. No, because sometimes I am willing to take a risk. Kasi diba pag mahal natin ang isang tao mararanasan din talaga nating masaktan. Nasa part yan ng pagmamahal eh, Not always magiging masaya tayo sa relasyon parte din naman ng relasyon ang Masaktan, Malungkot, Away bati ganon.

#4th QUESTION: Are you Considered Online Dating?

What do you mean by this? You mean Online dating like Long Distance relationship or Downloading Dating Applications? But in the first one About Online dating, I already experience being in a relationship in LDR but it did not work well because when you are at that kind of relationship you always both have a arguments lalo na kapag malayo talaga, Ang hirap mag tiwala.

• You don't know if sino kasama niya

• Where he will go

• If He is really telling you the truth or not, etc.

About the Dating app, I don't need that because I don't have time to spend my interest to other people. I am more focus in earning that find a Man. Lol

#5th QUESTION: When was the last time you went out on a date?

I don't remember when but the last time I go out in a date was in the year 2016 I think? HAHAHAHA my Mom is very supportive to our relationship. She likes my Ex more than me As her own daughter. Ma anak mo paba ako? Btw. I broke up with him because I got tired of him. I always paid for our date, he did not know how to put some effort.

#6th QUESTION: Are you giving guys enough Chances?

No. If he did a mistake, I will not forgive him. Once we broke up we will broke up and that is the end of our relationship. Ex is ex, Hindi ako nakiki-pagbalikan sa ex ko na.

#7th QUESTION: Are you and your Ex still Friends?

Yes because I'm not bitter lol. All of my ex are still my friends now. Nag-chachat padin naman sometimes not everyday or every time.

#8th QUESTION: What do your parents thinks about your situation?

Sometimes I don't understand them. My Mom and My Sister, they are always weird. When I don't have a suitor they always tell me this line:

"Bakit wala ka pang jowa? Anong balak mo , maging madre?"

And if I have a suitor/boyfriend,

"Sino nanaman yang boyfriend mo? Diba sabi ko sayo wag ka muna mag-papaligaw?"

so I decided to become single because they are so very mess and weird.

So Yeah, I decided to become single because of these 3 reasons.

1. I want to help my Mom first in building our own house because I know that when I have a boyfriend my time will be divided in to two so I want to focus in earning first.

2. Enjoy my time while I was young because it is hard for us to be married in an early age. I want to enjoy my life as a bird, free and can fly high first.

3. Learned some Lessons as being an adult because of course! We should learn some lessons first before building our own family. I believe that I still have a lot of things to learn first.

So by now Like what I said, Let's enjoy and be happy. Rushing to have a boyfriend is not my thing, I believed that sometimes I feel lonely and sad, I feel broken when my crush did not like me, and I always saying 'Sana all' or 'Hope all' but it's really just an expressions and I don't take that all seriously.

To all singles out There! Cheers for being single! We should be happy because even if we don't have Boyfriend, we still have a BCH 🤑 that is the most important.

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