Parents weren't a living bank vault full of coins, they don't ingest such bills, they don't grow and plant a tree that fruits gold to harvest, they don't have the fat pocket, they have nothing but receipt inside their wallet, in short, they don't have money.
Monday, August 2, 2021. I watched and I wanted to recommend Enola Holmes movie, a little sister of Sherlock Holmes the Detective. Enola spelled backward is Alone, I won't spoil the movie for you to watch. But yesterday I enjoyed chatting on the Telegram and one of my friends Kli4d realized something I wasn't observed and thinks while viewing the movies. Enola is closed enough to Eunoia LOL can I add the Holmes in my username? Haha.
Again let's go back to the era of our innocence, the time where playing and eating is the only normal routine every day, the problem began from waking up to ask what's for breakfast and run to play and come back in lunch to eat and sleep in the afternoon again woke up and play until the down, where some instance you had been forced to take home using the wood stick or belt.
Then another thing is that, asking for money to buy something sweet or just a toy. You tell to our parents and the first answer is that "I don't have money!". Then being a child is like a detective Conan the cartoon we watched during childhood, we investigate if they telling the truth, sneak and open our father's wallet and prove he's lying, look at mother's pocket again she's lying. For that, we don't believe anymore when they say they don't have instead let's cry for no reason.
They had the money yet they always insisted they don't have it, they had lots of noisy coins that we could hear the sound of aluminum, there is a paper bill in the folded wallet of our Dad yet accounted as none. I am the only son who does that? haha. Disregard the gender for daughter wasn't brave enough LOL.
Traveling in the early adult and realized that money wasn't that easy to accumulate, that you just need to stress out nor burn out, you need to exert full effort to have the money, you must be careful to plan the budgeting to have the elasticity of the bill you holds, then maybe they are right, they had the money yet they don't know if it's money anymore or how long is the time to hold on.
When we were young, we think that rejecting our proposal for them to buy the food we wanted, toys, and supply feels like were unloved, some children do the mocking and disrespecting mode, where they don't think if what they hold or anything in their room could be fragile or not, they still rock and roll in the bed.
Not realizing some children is unfortunate that they don't get the things they had also because of money issues between their parents over priorities.
Now let's are lighted. I am a secretive man as always and money also becomes a secret to me, no one knew that I could write an article and accumulated some reward through BitcoinCash, and maybe no one will know from my family member LOL.
Secret Asset, Not only parents having hidden the money. That's the huge problem that's resulted in another suffering. Officials hide the money, those businesses and other higher forms of educated people lied.
Well, Rich people won't say they are rich, Businesses won't tell honestly the revenue they had for the sake of tax (LOL don't get this seriously). Maybe also one of the reasons why I chose not to tell to people what assets I got, I wanted to remain in the low key and enjoy my life according to my simple ways.
Bitcoin.Cash is a secret bank for me, readily available but refers not to. Who knows what the future is, and how much the pump of our dollar is in our wallet. The best thing is that they don't know that I had crypto, let them be and shock in the future.
I am not yet a parent, but maybe there is a reason why we always denying we had the money, maybe we just wanted to convince others or ourselves.
For the ideology, we don't say we had the money for others. Maybe this is the point where we just think of ourselves or the future, not others not being selfish but an investor of our fortune. Some of us prefer to buy the things needed or the cheap material not because perhaps they don't have money, but they knew how money works and hows it's easily lost like thin air in the skies.
Telling and believing that we don't had the money sometimes give a great impact and contribution in our lives, it reminds us that not all the things we see and think we need must buy, we hardly work and do the possible things to have extra money and hiding them in the safe vault is the main game.
Could we consider hiding our money as white lies? or not?.
Well, for me telling that we don't have the money wasn't a lie (Sometimes it's true and its hurts), and for I know we don't have to be honest all the time, that's will be the reason for our downfall. The dishonesty when the matter is about personal life and future of self or family.
I am not writing this blog to convince you to be secret but maybe to be discreet.
When I was young I hate the idea that they laying about the money, now I understand for I do the same as an early adult, parent or anyone wasn't a bank vault, we don't have the swan that lays the golden egg, we had no power to touch anything that will turn to gold, for us to save money we need to lie that we don't have, even we had for we don't know what future brings.
The button line is that we now understand what is the meaning of life, how hard life brings and how money works, and how to work for money, in a world where nothing becomes free and more and more prices inclination, saving money is the way for our future bring.
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I couldn't agree more. I may not also share to my family thay I earn here. Sure, I will help them but I dont want them to expect a lot from me. I would just end up pressured. For now, I'll take it easy.