With a pleasing personality! Winning a job wasn't that easy like a child's dream. It goes to different processes and paths of either self and others mandatory process. For people with a connection is an advantage, while those seekers merely first timer its a challenge. But what is personality without pleasing itself?
**Thursdays, July 29, 2021**. One word will trigger you to formulate a topic and write a story. That's was always my motto in writing certain features here, reading other works with a simple mission. That's is to bring back a strip of bacon from the mind feeder of their articles. Yesterday July 28, 2021, in the Philippines standard time, the gorgeous @ExpertWritter wrote a topic that catches my eye of interest, it's about the pleasing personality. As the protocols for Anti-Plagiarism and respect to her copyright with her work, I ask permission and she granted me and agreed to tag her in today's blog. No, not to review or talked about her topic, but she gives me the idea of bringing you to another reality, the stepping stone for adulthood, the beginning gate of the future. The competition and even your very close friends would be ended up choosing either your friendship or your career. It's all about the work, and people need to work to live and live long to work again, like a chemurgy movement in the cycle of life.
For the person who is born from a family who owns a business or had the positioned rank in a certain building, it's easy for them to had the work that is under the comfortable and easy side, while if the person is under the fresh gate of school graduation, or under no connection, its becomes a challenge to pursuits in the rank or in the official admission. Imagine you walk in the street see a sign of a job vacancy, or surfing on Facebook pop an image that they need someone with this certain job description. Then the light bulb in your head had glowed and got the idea that you will try to apply. Down scrolling, you saw the criteria and qualifications of what they needed. Had the relevant schools coarse or graduate of either Secondary or Tertiary education, the age, preferably male or female and many more. But one criterion catches your attention, and that is the word "**With pleasing personality**". Are they need a handsome or beautiful face? Then you looked at the mirror and judge your description. Am I qualified?
Pleasing personality doesn't define your height or color of the skin, how flawless or weight you had. The government branches merely DOLE (Department of Labor and Employment) protecting this kind of racism and bullying. A pleasing personality meant you are kind to customers, your approachable and willing smile, and control yourself under hectic conditions. On the other hand, it also implies the persona or the appearance of people. The way you dress, your haircut, nails, odor etcetera. Had you not been curious why some colleges required girls to wear high hill, makeup, and some personal concealers? and for boys, some university is strict at the hair cuts? Because they preparing you to look pleasing, and with the education and values that bringing us to become and acted professionally comes to the idea of readily had the pleasing personality.
In my personal experience, at the age of 20, I already passed a Resume and reads others Biodata. Resumes are the written study background, training, and seminars, and some of your qualifications you wanted to convey and attract your employer of the Human resource of the company, while Biodata is a simplified version where you had to state your personal information under standard way. As I read others Biodata, it makes me understand more of them. The reason, age, and experience they had. Even I wanted to approve all of them, we had the protocols and standards. I was worked as a supervisor on the mushroom farm, so I must choose workers whos really suits the jobs, for it's risky to just consider a single individual. Well, Pleasing personality is the number one criteria I had to look at, followed the appearance and habit, smoking, and more. It's hard to choose but I had to be careful within that time period.
Now again imagining yourself, you looked at the criteria and suit you, then comes the interview, followed by shaking hands as the formal approval of your request to join their company, hence you got hired and promoted. This is life, finding a job wasn't that easy even were graduated in Tertiary, Competitors have arrived yearly for there is a lot of fresh graduates every year, and people don't want just to retired because of some matters. A pleasing personality doesn't define your look or how tall you got, it's all about the action of professionality and the right conduct and approach toward your customers. Might be this is the sign that we just started to think as rational beings for we prepared our self in the employment of our dreams.
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A pleasing personality doesn't define your look or how tall you got, it's all about the action of professionality and the right conduct and approach > this! gusto ko tong words na to. Tama naman hindi naman talaga nababase sa mukha ng isang tao or sa ayos. Ang hirap lang kasi dito sa pinas, kapag nakita nilang parang yung suot ng isang tao eh pang mahirap ijujudge ka na kaagad na parang magnanakaw, ganon. Ang taas din ng standards dito sa pinas kapag mag aapply ka kailangan college graduate ka kahit nga sa may mga simpleng work lang na di naman connect sa trabaho required pa na dapat graduate ka ng college. Naaawa din ako sa mga inosente yung wala namang ginagawa kapag dito sa pinas kapag mahirap ka pagbibintangan ka na agad nila.
Kaya nga eh, this also the reason why I'm trying to tells you to try college..
Yes.. pleasing personality is really important and we should have to. We must to practice with this. It brings you a lot of advantages, hopes and chances in life like applying a job. You need to be an example to everybody and that is the pleasing personality we have. God bless you pars...🙏❤️
Obusely you got this pleasing personality 100% mars hahaha.. its your advantage thou hehe
This is exactly what I want to hear and I want all people to know. Most of the time we mistakenly believe that pleasing personality means you are attractive physically that's why even you know you are qualified for the job, you seem to not take risk. Everyone should know about this.
Indeed, they have mistakenly seen as you must be a real model like. NO its not, its about the professionalism and the action. How to be presentable and approachable to anyone.. Hehe
On point sir. Ganyan naman sguro talaga mostly sa mga Pinoy. Pinapakomplekado ang sitwasyon. Pero may mga trabaho talaga na need ang physical appearance.
I do the same work for I am also in the Human Resource team, and it's not easy to choose between the applicants so you have to do a thorough background check and one main aspect would be the personality, if you have a pleasing personality it means you could be a versatile at work and at the people.
Indeed, malaking stress kung maling tao nakuha mo.. Josko 😂
kaya nga eh...lalo na pag yung sa main office ma a assign tapos pag mali nakuha mo edi marami kayo mag sa suffer
And this explains the question in my mind about that pleasing personality thing .. Most of us in the society know that it's all about the physical appearance but it's a huge misunderstanding ..made by most of the people who are in the society with positions..I do hope that everyone can read this one....this pleasing personality must be present in one individual for him/her to do her/his job well.
Yeah, people are blinded in the idea and overheard such things.. Some make back out because of this criterion actually
A lot of people think when they saw in the job qualification the phrase with pleasing personality, they think its pertaining to the physical appearance. But you're right that this is not all about the physical appearance itself but the character also of the person. Mahirap makipagsabayan sa mga applicant na nakatapos sa magandang University and may mga backer pero as long as you do your best and have pleasing personality, you have this advantage.
Yup yung may backers tlga.. It's like they don't value those must deserving..
This is why it is important to work on our personalities when we want to go out to look for Job. We would surely meet different people outside the world and having a pleasing personality would be great to possess so as to enjoy the work and even a good communication with others.
Indeed, also this is the real world.. We should find job..
Pleasing personality. We had discussed it on one of our lecture discussions in Crop Science, wherein our lecture professor asked us, "do other students in other courses judge us?" Kasi may mga times talaga na pumapasok kami na naka-tsinelas lang kasi umagang-umaga ay kailangang mag-field. Tapos may makakasalubong ka na naka-corporate attire or ano pa man na mas formal tignan. Pero we still make ourselves more pleasing naman kapag walang field works. Marunong din namang maging fashionista nag mga agriculture students. Haha Relate ka ba, Kuys? Hihi
Oo naman.. Hahaha pero mas maganda at gwapo ang taga Agri sa amin 😬 kahit walang make up.. Yung ibang bully na corse wala eh 😂
Hello sa akin na polbo at lipbalm lang ang ginagamit. Haha hirap mag-make up sa course natin eh. Baka mahulas bigla dahil sa mga unexpected na works 😂
A pleasing personality doesn't define your appearance. However, in most cases, it is misused and they are looking for those who have a pleasing appearance than a pleasing personality... Madami yan sa pinas, kya mga applicants kpg mkakita ng qualification na P.P. nagbaback out sla agad. Lol
Sapol Ms. Jane, hahaha kulang sa real interpretation ang mga tao dito minsan.. Kung ano narinig sa iba, niwala agad
"A pleasing personality doesn't define your look or how tall you got, it's all about the action of professionality and the right conduct and approach toward your customers." true, kasokaramihan sa suot mismo nakatingin o kung ano pamang iba na mapapansin nila sayo
Kaya nge eh.. Sometimes dahil na din kasi sa mga nakakatanda.. Iba pagka interpret nila 😂
ito ang naging dahilan kung bakit ako umaatras sa tuwing mag aapply. nakasanayan na kasi na kapag may pleasing personality dapat may itsura kang ka aya aya pero wala eh so uwi. hahaha
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naku pagkakamali lang po yan na di ko na mababago. hahaha
haha tingin ko nga pinag-isipan mo the whole week kung ano ilalagay mung username eh hehe
hahaha hindi nga eh. wala akong maisip non dahil pag john nilagay ko, already taken na daw pag johnny meron na din. eh sa gusto ko na pumunta sa next step ayun ginamit ko username ko ngayon dahil akala ko mababago ko pa after 🤣
Trademark mo yan bro, ayus lang yan.. hehe
baka nga 🤣
True... For me, pleasing personality means confidence 👌❤️
Indeed, confident to face the people in a professional manner 🤩
A person who have own their own business will not face any difficulty but the one who are fresh and want to do business will face a lot of trouble. Someone say pleasing personality mean how the person wear how he look but in my view it's a confidence. If you talk more confidently them you have pleasing personality otherwise not
Kaya ayoko magaapply sa mga department store eh.muka palang talo nako hahaha 🤣🤣
Noon, tuwing nag-aaply ako ang mga store o di kaya mall, lagi akong nagdadalawang isip na tumuloy sa pag-aaply dahil sa requirement na yan. Lagi kasi may nakalagay na with pleasing personality. Eh, ang hina kaya ng confidence level ko.😁
Sad truth. In other countries, mas priority pa nila yung mga senior citizens o kaya disabled. Dito lang