We existed now in a world where even a tiny kid could talk and express words that insulting others. It’s like a small kid now had turned up just in last year of expecting. Are this cursing of words is bad? Or also becomes what we called now new normal?
I went to buy a random thing in a convenience store (sari-sari store) in this canteen they had two units of Peso-net. It’s like a small renting computer shop where they only need some cents to make the computer operated. Eavesdropping cursing words just like a normal thing for me, but hearing those words from a very young maybe 4 to 5 years old makes my forehead disintegrated.
I will not say I'm a perfect being who doesn’t say those words, but I am a professional now and a degree holder so I must act and perform professionally especially with others who need my service. During graduation, there is an oath we had promised to conduct, that is act polite and professionally to others. That’s in my head when I went to my first job. Seeing my subordinates as my siblings, that makes them uncomfortable for I am always greeting them, ma’am and sir.
Calling other whatever the profession or education degree they had has some huge effect in them. Talking to farmers and receiving them with said words will promote you to get their trust and more respectable into you.
But the thing is seen and hate is that people now mostly young generation could do the negatively just to be fit in the new society.
Are This Cursing Bad Word Is Bad?
Who will answer it no? if we will ask elders they will pinch your legs for asking that nonsense question. But what if we ask those people who always use those expressions? Are they recognized or not?
People Uses This As Natural Mannerism. Some elders honestly must be the culprit why their children taking this kind of unpleasant speaking manner. They introduced the word frequently as a normal habit, and the child absorbs all the words introduced to them.
People Use This a Trend. Can you judge me to call social media toxic-media? Where people who acted violently and unpleasantly becomes instant idols. I guess it's too attacking but the live streamers of online games use bad words to becomes popular and the word they created becomes their trademark. Online games could access by the 5-year old kid nowadays and no wonder where they could get the words that become their frequent characteristic.
People Uses This As To Think they are Cool. Western people have a great impact on the lives of Filipino, where some copied the fashion and the way of life they had. One is the speaking manner. Yeah, the young generation thinks they are cool if they do what culture they saw during the Hollywood movies. But for me, they don’t.
Peer Pressure Makes Younger Generation Talks Cursing Words.
Forgive me to says it’s cursing not bad. For I am preferring the manner of talking where they introduced the “mother” word In their sentence. Some they threatening.
The mindset of acceptance. When we want to enter a group of friends, we deem the only way of getting their trust and acceptance of you in the group is to copy the way of the manner they do. Like the dress set-up, an activity they do like drinking or evens smoking and meanest the words they frequent uses.
I came from a teenager too who wanted to be fit in society. Where you will agree to the principles they had and even disagreed with your opinion so they won't stop you to participate in them. Being alone is hurt while you saw some boys you're aged are enjoying their life, so you wanted to be part of them.
Peer pressure's main objective is to change yourself. Some are in the bad others for good. Teenagers intend to talk harshly to others to become superior when they see their mates disrespect others they do the same for the idea of being socially fit in the normal.
NEW NORMAL: Telling Curse Words To Be Socially Fit
With one click on the internet, you will know what is the trend for today, one search button you will happen to see what is appearing and some predicting. Social media has a really bad introduction to youth. That is the use of cursing words.
I found this topic of interest for I seen how younger children exposed and practice this kind of manner. If you will encounter this likely incident what would you do? Despite your child or just ignored?. For I snubbed those I don’t know and discipline those parts of my family.
I'm not an old school, for this kind of action of the young will lead to some problem. They began to disrespect these elders, worst part their parents. They easily found trouble for some child irritates and hears mischief of the cursing words, may become a reason so they getting into throwing rocks in the street.
If I were to be a parent, why should I allow this kind of happening in my young life, why I let them encounter hardship if I could tell them the possible outcome of their action.
Telling curse words or any bad habit to be fit in with others might be a bad encounter that will end up regret. For we are old and capacity to know the possible happening we must be the one to explain to the child. Besides what we want is good for our children.
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True. Nakakalungkot lang na mostly maririnig mo sa mag bata ngayon (age rages 4 and up) ay mga mura. Yung iba nagmumura kasi feeking nila cool and nakikisabay sa uso. Hays 🤦. However, minsan kasi naririnig din ng mga bata mismo sa parents nila kaya akala siguro nila okay lang mag mura. Ewan, di ko alam. Basta ako, pag marinig ko lang yung future anak or kahit mga pamangkin ko na mag mura. Tatamaan talaag sila sakin HAHAH. Joke. I didisiplina talaga.