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NEW NORMAL: Telling Curse Words To Be Socially Fit

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We existed now in a world where even a tiny kid could talk and express words that insulting others. It’s like a small kid now had turned up just in last year of expecting. Are this cursing of words is bad? Or also becomes what we called now new normal?

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I went to buy a random thing in a convenience store (sari-sari store) in this canteen they had two units of Peso-net. It’s like a small renting computer shop where they only need some cents to make the computer operated. Eavesdropping cursing words just like a normal thing for me, but hearing those words from a very young maybe 4 to 5 years old makes my forehead disintegrated.

I will not say I'm a perfect being who doesn’t say those words, but I am a professional now and a degree holder so I must act and perform professionally especially with others who need my service. During graduation, there is an oath we had promised to conduct, that is act polite and professionally to others. That’s in my head when I went to my first job. Seeing my subordinates as my siblings, that makes them uncomfortable for I am always greeting them, ma’am and sir.

Calling other whatever the profession or education degree they had has some huge effect in them. Talking to farmers and receiving them with said words will promote you to get their trust and more respectable into you.

But the thing is seen and hate is that people now mostly young generation could do the negatively just to be fit in the new society.

Are This Cursing Bad Word Is Bad?

Who will answer it no? if we will ask elders they will pinch your legs for asking that nonsense question. But what if we ask those people who always use those expressions? Are they recognized or not?  

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  • People Uses This As Natural Mannerism. Some elders honestly must be the culprit why their children taking this kind of unpleasant speaking manner. They introduced the word frequently as a normal habit, and the child absorbs all the words introduced to them.

  • People Use This a Trend. Can you judge me to call social media toxic-media? Where people who acted violently and unpleasantly becomes instant idols. I guess it's too attacking but the live streamers of online games use bad words to becomes popular and the word they created becomes their trademark. Online games could access by the 5-year old kid nowadays and no wonder where they could get the words that become their frequent characteristic.

  • People Uses This As To Think they are Cool. Western people have a great impact on the lives of Filipino, where some copied the fashion and the way of life they had. One is the speaking manner. Yeah, the young generation thinks they are cool if they do what culture they saw during the Hollywood movies. But for me, they don’t.

Peer Pressure Makes Younger Generation Talks Cursing Words.

Forgive me to says it’s cursing not bad. For I am preferring the manner of talking where they introduced the “mother” word In their sentence. Some they threatening.

The mindset of acceptance. When we want to enter a group of friends, we deem the only way of getting their trust and acceptance of you in the group is to copy the way of the manner they do. Like the dress set-up, an activity they do like drinking or evens smoking and meanest the words they frequent uses.

I came from a teenager too who wanted to be fit in society. Where you will agree to the principles they had and even disagreed with your opinion so they won't stop you to participate in them. Being alone is hurt while you saw some boys you're aged are enjoying their life, so you wanted to be part of them.

Peer pressure's main objective is to change yourself. Some are in the bad others for good. Teenagers intend to talk harshly to others to become superior when they see their mates disrespect others they do the same for the idea of being socially fit in the normal.

NEW NORMAL: Telling Curse Words To Be Socially Fit

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With one click on the internet, you will know what is the trend for today, one search button you will happen to see what is appearing and some predicting. Social media has a really bad introduction to youth. That is the use of cursing words.

I found this topic of interest for I seen how younger children exposed and practice this kind of manner. If you will encounter this likely incident what would you do? Despite your child or just ignored?. For I snubbed those I don’t know and discipline those parts of my family.

I'm not an old school, for this kind of action of the young will lead to some problem. They began to disrespect these elders, worst part their parents. They easily found trouble for some child irritates and hears mischief of the cursing words, may become a reason so they getting into throwing rocks in the street.

If I were to be a parent, why should I allow this kind of happening in my young life, why I let them encounter hardship if I could tell them the possible outcome of their action.

Telling curse words or any bad habit to be fit in with others might be a bad encounter that will end up regret. For we are old and capacity to know the possible happening we must be the one to explain to the child. Besides what we want is good for our children.


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True. Nakakalungkot lang na mostly maririnig mo sa mag bata ngayon (age rages 4 and up) ay mga mura. Yung iba nagmumura kasi feeking nila cool and nakikisabay sa uso. Hays 🤦. However, minsan kasi naririnig din ng mga bata mismo sa parents nila kaya akala siguro nila okay lang mag mura. Ewan, di ko alam. Basta ako, pag marinig ko lang yung future anak or kahit mga pamangkin ko na mag mura. Tatamaan talaag sila sakin HAHAH. Joke. I didisiplina talaga.

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1 year ago

I'm a proponent that curse words are highly energy inefficient. They serve no purpose and use up energy that can be used else where. Frankly speaking they are so uncool.

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1 year ago

Indeed, they are annoying actually.

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1 year ago

Hirap kyang magmura tapos maririnig na lng sa bata naku! Sad though kung walang mgko correct sa kanila, iisipin nila na okay lang pla mgbad words.

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1 year ago

Kaya nga eh, lalong mamimihasa yan.

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1 year ago

Oo, mahirap pg sila namihasa dadalhin hanggang paglaki.

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1 year ago

Madami na talagang Bad influence kaya yung mga batang Mababait nahahawa na sakanila , minsan dahil na din sa mga napapanood nila at sa mga sinasamahan nilang kaibigan. Minsan kasalanan na din ng magulang hindi nila masyadong nagagabayan ang mga anak nila . Kaya minsa ako kapag may nakakausap akong bata mumurahin pa ako minsa bobo pa . Naiinis ako na gusto kong turuan ng leksyon pero hindi ko magawa dahil di ko naman anak hahaha

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1 year ago

Sa Facebook daming sikat na taong ganon influencer yet bad content

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1 year ago

Nagiging expression na kasi yan ng kabataan at nadadala hanggang sa pagtanda.. Iba naman influence ng western culture sa mga pinapanood nila.. Ako, hirap tlga magmura in persln, madali lng virtually but not personally.. Para akong kakainin ng konsensya kapag gawin ko yan. Lol..

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1 year ago

Hahaha. Tama ka diyan. Lalo na yung di mo kilala 🤣 tapos kung ano-ano ginagawa o chinachat sayu..

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1 year ago

Nakakalungkot isipin na maraming kabataan ngayon na ginawang mannerism ang mga bad words. Madalas nagagaya nila yan sa social media. Halimbawa na lang yung mga kapatid ng partner ko. Tuwing naglalaro sila ng ML, grabe lahat na lang yatang lumalabas sa bibig nila ay puro curse. Noong kabataan ko, kapag nagsalita ako ng kahit isang curse word lang, pinapagalitan na ako o di kaya dumudugo na yung bibig ko dahil sa pitik ng mga magulang ko.😁

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1 year ago

Hahaha oo ML player tlga matindi 😂

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1 year ago

nakakapanghinayang rin kapag sa mga mas bata mo pa satin un maririnig kuya e, pero wala rin kasi minsan di na sila naitatama kaya nakaksanayan nila, dito kasi sa bahay kapag naririnig na nagmumura ka mapapagalitan ka talaga kaya todo iwas kami sa ganyang gawain, nagmumura rn ako pero kadalasan sa isipan nalang kasi ng mga kaibigan ko tinatampal bibig ko kapag nakakapagsalita ako ng ganyan jusko

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1 year ago

Hahaha tama takpan nalang bibig o sa isip nalang natin sila i-curse 🤣

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1 year ago

tama tama HAHHAHHA

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1 year ago

This kinda become a trend now which mostly child like to use any Where.. They learning this kind of manner or words from every where.. If you go or walk near street then this kind of stupidity available too

Lol can we protect our child

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1 year ago

Yup it's all over the internet and memes.

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1 year ago

Take it easy then

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1 year ago

Per wag sisihin ang magulang kung bakit sila nagkakaganyan diba? Nasa decision ng bata yan kung gagayahin din ba niya yung mga ibang tao mga nababasa nya, napapanuod nya, natututunan niyang hindi naman talaga tama kasi choice nila yan eh diba? Hindi yan yung tinuro ng mga magulang niya. Yung iba kasi, sasabihin 'Bastos kang bata ka ah, yan ba ang itinuturo ng mga magulang mo sayo?'

Pag yung mga pinsan kong bata nahuhuli ko silang nagsasalita ng bad words talaga tatampalin ko sila sa may bibig or kukurutin. Understandable naman ng parents nila if ever manunumbong kasi nileleksyonan ko lang naman. Kung puro salita lang ginagawa mo, di yan matututo sila din lang naman mapapagalitan lol. 🤦🏻‍♀️

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1 year ago

I say curse words when triggered, like for example sobrang galit q na. Which I am guilty of ksi my toddler would repeat it so I refrain saying it.. Ang nkakasad is ung may naririnig k sa mga bata sa labas na prang normal lng sa knila. So when my 4 yr old and 8 yr old kids say bad words, pipitikin q tlga mouth nila. It should not be tolerated for them to know na its bad and that they need not to say such to fit in with their peers

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1 year ago

Tama it may ended fights pa for worst. Mamaya iba pagka-gets ng kalaro ended up rambolan..

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1 year ago

sa peers naman natututunan yan cursing bad words meron din sa loob ng bahay narinig gawa ng mga parents or siblings. doble ingat nalang talaga sa pag sasabi para di magaya ng mga chikiting

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1 year ago

Tama. What you feed they absorb.

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1 year ago

Guilty ako dyan sa mannerism. May isang curse word talaga na lagi ko nababanggit whenever I feel nervous, excited or shocked. It wasn't my intention to say it but my mouth just naturally spit it. Nakasanayan na. Pero now, I am slowly getting rid of it. That's true even to kids like what you said, 4-5 years old. Nakakairita talaga. May kapatid kas bf ko tapos medyo naiirita ako minsan kasi yun nga marunong na magmura. Hahaha!

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1 year ago

Whahaha naku habaan pasensiya mo Teacher Marinov kasi magiging student mo ang age bracket na yan 🤣

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1 year ago

Ay safe. High school teacher po ako. 🤣

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1 year ago

Sarap pitikin ang labi ng mga batang naglalaro na nagmumura. I agree with peer influence, yon kasi naririning nila from their playmates so ayon, gaya gaya puto maya. Akala nila yon ang tama, yon ang cool yon ang in. I have students who are doing like this as well, yong dinadala nila ang mga terms nila sa laro sa classroom and I am really reminding them not to do it.

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1 year ago

Oww your a teacher po?

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1 year ago

Yes I am in college Sir.

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1 year ago

Nakakaloka mga bata ngayon, ako nahihiya pag naririnig ko magmura e. Well nagmumura din ako, sabi ko sa latest article pag galit lang naman, pag hindu ko nacontrol, pero duuuh ang bata pa nga nila 4-10 years old dito samin grabe na ang lutong ng mura. Ang nakakalungkot pa parang hinahayaan lang sila ng magulang. Nung minsan pa may binawal akong bata, aba walangya minura ako. Ayy hinayaan ko nalang. Hahaha.

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1 year ago

Whahahaha totoo to.. Ikaw pa ang mali kapag sinabihan mo sila. Ang tatapang ng mga bata ngayun. Kasi may matatapang ding magulang.. 🤣

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1 year ago

Sa akin, may lugar para magmura. Though ako ay hindi talaga (or sobrang bihira) magmura, pero for sure ayokong maging ganon mga magiging anak ko. Masakit sa tenga. Nakakawala ng manners. Hahaha. Wag naman sana ako sugurin dito.

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1 year ago

Whahaha ako muna susugurin dito bago ikaw 🤣. Oo naman pangit kaya pakinggan kapag kabata-bata abay kagaling nang magsalita ng masama

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1 year ago

Oo. Parang nagiging reflectiom kasi ng magulang..

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1 year ago

Ako, nakakapag curse lng talaga sa hubby ko. Haha lalo na pag galit. Pero sa ibang tao kahit sa mga kapatid ko, hindi naman. Iwan ko ba bakit sa partner ko subrang harsh ng bibig ko.

Pero totoo, mga bata ngayon marunong na mag curse dahil na rin sa impluwensya sa paligid at internet. Naalala ko, nag work ako sa isang comp shoo. Edi naglalaro mga bata nun, bigla ba naman nag f*** y" sabi ko sa bata, "toy, alam mo ba ibig sabihin nyan?" Sagot nya hindi po. Tingnan mo, d pala alam pero kung makapag mura subra talaga. Kaya pag ako nagbabantay dun, ayun pinipigilan nila pero minsan talaga d nila mapigilan bibig nila. Tapos nambubully pa sa kalaro. Tsk tsk

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1 year ago

Yeah nakakabahala talaga. Nawawala namanner nga mga bata ngayun. Sa issue mo naman kay sir, hinay-hinay na uyy bukas nakakapagsalita na din si baby mo.. Magulat ka nagmana sayu sa pagsasalita uyyy 🤪

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1 year ago

Hahahaha oo na. Thank you sa advice. Sabi konnga hinay hinay na ako baka marinig nya at magaya 🤦

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