We won’t always win and never be infinitely lost, we always want to be the greatest but destiny is a vast player that he will bring us down or unto the top. The best thing we could do is to convince ourselves that we are the best in everything we do.
July 1, 2021. What a great start for the new day of the month but ended up a bad augury for me. I woke up like something wasn’t right in my body, my head and back are throbbing, my forehead and feet are like burning on the cauldron. And I started to have the cough with an unending howling vibration.
I hate this synopsis in my life, Pills and medicine kill me more with discomfort, it’s like my body don’t want to absorb the chemical inside the pharmaceutical product, that’s why I better choose to have herbal medication than any commercial Pills and Tablet if just mild symptom and signs.
The body and mind have the power to heal and destroy themselves. Like the mind control the body, if we think we're ill we will end up sick, if we think we're strong we were unbeatable. That’s on my mindset. I don’t want to convince myself personally that I am unwell so my body could adjust it immediately.
That’s the birth of the “I am the best” Attitude. The more we convince our persona to be the best and do the best we can do, every move we take and decision we made becomes the best attributes we can. The mind had unlimited strength if we knew how to cheat it.
Why Loser Always Win?
There is a huge difference between the winner and the real winner. Some people think they don’t deserve the recognition of the top 1 and others think they faked the resulting winner. In every competition that’s happened were people quarrel at the end of the contest because the judge wasn’t fair or they closely know the winner. Well, I witnessed some scenarios that are closely related.
The real winner is the individual who catches the heart of the audience, the sincere winner is the person who still happy even they don’t get medals or trophy, the true winner is the person who thinks they did their best and confidently sees their self as the most beneficial even loss or win. They ended up happy and deserve for celebration.
That’s the best thing to convince our children or our mentees to perform their best during the competition or any activities. The more we say she/he needs to performed and need to win, the more pressure they will get and eventually pressured arose in their mind, and can’t even enjoy the competition because the thing in their mind is to win.
The More We Enjoy the More We Win
The thing I missed the most during my college is the Intramurals, where we will formulate a group in every department and compete with each other. Where we obliged to formulate cheering sounds and jingles for players and even banners to support our contestants for the win.
If you never yet tried to join any team-building activities maybe you lose 10% happiness in your life. Team building in our times is the best experience I got. Well, all the interesting things were combines in the activity. Puzzle and critical thinking with a little bit of mathematical and scientific reasoning to unlock the next level. In Team building in our school, make sure you will afford to be dirty and crawl to the mud which makes the activity more interesting and enjoyable.
I become the leader of our team under the Agriculture department, well they need a man who will front thinker and puzzle realizer. We don’t need to win, that’s what I told them. Instead, we need to enjoy. That makes our team the best and win the game, we don't think of competition instead of the enjoyments.
“I Am the Best” Attitude
Being the best as an attitude wasn’t just for an athlete of any competitive sports. Even in neither writing nor blogger, we must have this attitude. Were we must convince ourselves that was the best and what we created is the product of our most excellent writing skills.
Being the best wasn’t says we are the champion or the top-one of all. Being the best makes us more confident to act and perform well, the more we enjoy and loved what we were doing we will do the best of us in every writing entry.
I could observe some users always mentioned they were not likable writers but I can read they do the best writing they can. Well, maybe this is another wake-up call for them to always keep and pinned in their mind that they already had the mindset of “Being the best” but never yet discovered they had. Tell me at the comment if you have this attitude.
I still appearing unwell while writing this article and the mindset I got lead me to write, it’s been two months I been composing here and I could tell that it’s become part of my life. My mind and hand are looking for something to write even my body is being the contra.
Writing becomes my addicted heroin, and fever or ill didn’t become my enemy to write. What the secret? It’s because I always think and faked that I am the best Eunoia (Wise Mind)
Never pako nagka "I am the best" attitude na yan. Basta always enjoy lang. Haha.