Ever wondered why...

Early this morning, my mind wandered back to my last semester's exams, there was a time I wrote about the issue I had with a friend of mine, and how we kept arguing; with me constantly repeating that the age of a youth starts from 18 and with her continuously repeating that it's a lie, it starts from the age of 20.

Now, during the cause of that argument, there was something she said that I'll never forget, Esther said and I quote:

You're always acting like you're the most intelligent one amongst us, you always feel like you know it all.

Honestly speaking, I was so shocked and taken aback by what she said that day, infact, I kept wondering when or the period of time I ever acted intelligent.

The reason why my mind wandered...

Funny enough, I've always seen Esther as the most intelligent one amongst us, I've always respected her brilliancy, hearing her say that really baffled me.

It triggered the inspiration of this article.

Ever wondered...

I literarily don't know what to call this blog topic, that's why I just left it as "ever wondered why."

• Someone you admire and feel is too pretty to talk to, might also feel the same way about you.

There's someone who I admired so much, she is actually a girl, I always envisaged talking to her someday, but never knew how to go about it.

One day, this girl actually walked up to me and spoke to me, I was beyond shocked, especially after realizing that she also felt the same way about me all along.

Funny enough, I'm pretty sure most or rather I say: "some of us would have experienced this particular one."

Sometimes, we might feel that someone is actually doing so well and so better than us, we'll secretly be admiring that person and for some, such admiration leads them into the web of jealousy.

I've heard of many cases whereby Mr A would feel Mr B is actually doing so well financially and would secretly want to be like him...

But guess what?...

Mr B might also feel Mr A is doing well financially and also want to be like him.

I actually don't know what to call this, but then, it happens alot.

For example, Esther's perception about me; acting like I know it all. I honestly couldn't picture it that day, especially because I've always admired Esther's intelligence.

But... If she could make that statement, does it also mean that she had also been admiring my intelligence?

Now, that's what I strictly don't know.

I've been in situations whereby:

Me:

Oh! The first day I saw you, I wanted so much to talk to you, I loved everything about you, I admired the way you spoke, I loved the way you walked, I loved your dressing, I just so wanted to be a friend of yours.

And she'll say:

Really?! Honestly, everything you just said is what I felt about you the first day I met you. Anyways, thank goodness we're now close friends.

Ever wondered why....

• Sometimes, the friend you're admiring for her unhidden beauty might also be admiring you for yours.

• Sometimes, the friend you're admiring for his job, might also be wishing he had your kind of job.

• Sometimes, the friend you're admiring for her unhidden intelligence, might also be seeing you as a very intelligent person.

• Sometimes the friend you feel is just so beautiful, might also feel you're extremely gorgeous.

• Sometimes the people you feel like you're not up to their standard, might also feel like they're not up to yours...

And lastly...

• Sometimes, the friend you're wishing you were like, might also be wishing (s)he was like you.

Just be good to yourself and appreciate your values, you aren't so bad looking neither are you doing so bad.

Please can someone tell me what this means, I literally don't understand, I tried sponsoring few people yesterday, they approved it, I received the notification, sent the money to their wallets, but the issue here is that, after sending the money since, it has still been placed on "pending" since yesterday. I don't know if it's just me; facing this.

I don't understand what's going on.

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