In this lifetime, our family is the greatest companion we will ever have. We cannot live without their support and care since we were young. They are the caretaker of our earthly body, the Lord is the caretaker of our soul and spirit. Families have different kinds and types, but whatever part you are the most important thing is you received total support, love, respect and generosity from them.

Nothing's good will happen if we are enemy to our family. I saw some families who are enemy to each other when it come to money, land ownership and legacy left by their parents. It was not common, but to experience the kind of thing like this is not good. What comes good if you hate your family? If you wish they don't exist or you don't born with that kind of family.

Some of us here are born poor, and it's okay. We are struggling everyday. We are keeping ourselves busy because we have to work and earn some income even if I am still a student too. I read some blogs here that they are student and using read cash for a very long time now. For sure, these students have earned big now. For that, I would like to answer some questions about relationship and family.

Who is the person you respect the most, and why?

The one I respect the most is the one who gave birth to me which is my mother. She went through many hardships carrying me because she was afraid of loosing her child in the second time. I mentioned before that our supposedly first born died and I became the first born in the family. She was paranoid and it was testified by my aunts and uncles.

That is the reason why I am respecting her with all my heart and life. She undergone extreme fear in her second pregnancy and they thought my mother cannot live before I was born because she was so scared. Thankfully, I was born safe and after my birth. She felt safe and recovered mentally. They know how exhausted my mother since her mind was full of thoughts.

 Who would you turn to if you were in desperate need of help?

Of course, my parents when they are available. We have to assess whether our parents, friends, and relatives can help us in that particular problem. I think most of the time, I just asked my cousins to help me in doing my project and answering my modules. My parents cannot help me with that better than my cousins. They don't know how to design a portfolio.

But when it is a desperate problem like I have to asked money, guidance and protection. The number one on my head are my parents. I do not know if I can fully trust other when it comes to safety and money problems. We may be poor, but I know my parents would do something for it be solved.

 If you died or went missing, who would miss you?

This is unexpected question and if I went missing. I would miss my family and my friends in my neighborhood because they are the people who have been with me since I was born. Why would I am missing? For sure no one will kidnap me because we cannot pay any ransom. They cannot get anything for us because the only possession we have is our boat, house and some basic tools and equipment at home.

If I died, then I miss my whole family. I do not know if I can still feel any emotion if I died. But if I do, I will miss hangout with my friends every afternoon in the boat and sail to some deep part of the sea. We will swim or catch fish if we are lucky to caught some.

Do you care what others think of you?

Yes, I am. I am very conscious of what others think of me because it is something I want to protect, my honor and dignity. If others think badly about me then it will be hard to communicate and interact with them. They will ignore and not talk to me. Caring for what other says is caring about your mental health too. It is very important that we are aware of what's happening around us.

You are so welcome to become my sponsor. I would love to see you there in that block. Thank you po! 

I am grateful you read this!