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Howdy? It's the last day of the month, happy new month in advance 🤗🤗. I decided to answer these questions following @Bisolammy 's article a while ago. You can check it out here.

Can you date someone who has slept with or dated your friend?

Predictably, the answer is NO. It'll be totally weird, there are plenty of fishes in the ocean, I should be able to do better than that. Funny thing is that I'm contradicting myself compared to what I told my sister a few minutes ago. So, my sister was talking about Grownish, about how the main character Zoey and her lover Aaron deserve the happy ending they had. Zoey has dated another person in their immediate friend group called Luca and Aaron also did a friend with benefit thingy with Anna after Zoey picked Luca over him, who is also in their friend group. It was so very messed up, but I'm happy they ended up together and i rooted for them BUT that's fiction.

In the real world, if I have a crush on a guy, my friend should not be thinking of dating him🤷‍♀️, same as if I had a history with someone, my friend shouldn't think of dating him. So, out of the millions of people in this world, it's my ex that's your one true love, lol. I definitely won't accept it and if she forfeits the friendship to be in the relationship, they'll eventually break up and I'll laugh in their faces and probably insert some 'breakfast na national cake' soundtrack and post about karma regularly on my status😁.

Call me unreasonable or whatnot but that's just facts, isn't she supposed to feel weird kissing the lips that previously kissed me? I'll just assume that she probably liked him while I was dating him.

Can you get married to someone whose genotype isn't compatible with yours?

This isn't even supposed to be a question. It should be NO, except you're thinking of Preimplantation genetic testing (PGT) through in vitro fertilization process to have children that aren't sickle cell carriers. If you have the AS genotype and your fiancee also has the same genotype and you get married in hopes that your children won't have the SS genotype then that's wickedness. Sickle cell carriers go through a lot and you shouldn't willingly subject them to such pain.

You should make this a second or third date question, so you'll decide then if you can continue the relationship or move on.

Can you continue in an abusive relationship?

No, I can't. This is one reason marriage scares me. The abuse may not even be physical, there's emotional abuse too. Everyone talks about watching out for the red flags which I am and we should but you can never truly know someone. What if there are no signs and he just changes overnight and exerts violence at every opportunity, talks down at me every time?

I'm definitely a forever kinda person but I can't continue in an abusive marriage. It's better to be separated or divorced than dead.

People who abuse their partners, male or female, or in any type of way should be called monsters. How do you do that to someone you claim you love?

Can you marry someone that has no Job?

Nope. Will I survive on just love? Whether you're a man or a woman, you shouldn't marry a liability except you like it🤷‍♀️ but you shouldn't. Also, you have no Job and you want to get married? Great priorities, chief.

Marriage shouldn't always be suffer-head, a popular musician once said 'love is sweet o, when money enter love is sweeter'.

This is different from losing one's job when married, the couple can always work around that but marrying someone that doesn't have a source of income isn't a wise decision in my opinion.

Thank you❤❤

Thank you for reading🤗

May 31st, 2022.

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