Just Questions!!

I've read numerous relationship stories this morning. You all are making me feel like I should write something on love😊 but I don't wanna do that. I'm even lazy to write today because my hand hurts so bad. So I just decided to ask y'all questions and I'll also give my own opinion on those questions. Leggo😊

Can you continue your relationship with someone that slept with your best friend?

I can't!!! H*ll no!!! Why will I continue such a relationship? It's of what benefit? You see, we are different people with different emotions. We all act according to our emotions. I'm sure some of you here can take it but it's not something I can take. In an African society, it's not something that you can be proud of. It happens very well but it's a shameful act. I know of two love birds. The lady slept with the guy's best friend. How come? They're still together and they are happy in their relationship but I just have that feeling that the guy will bring it up someday. He's going to hunt the lady with her past anytime she does something wrong to him. I'm not saying he will do it. But I just have that feeling that he's capable of doing it. Drop your opinions please😁.

Can you get married to someone that your genotypes are not compatible?

No!! I'll cut the relationship off straight away. Some people believe that when they get to the bridge, they'll cross it. One thing we should know is that not every bridge is meant to be crossed. Let's assume that both partners are AS and they want to get married to each other. They may have it in mind that they will check the genotype of the baby before giving birth and if it's SS, they'll flush it. Yeah, it's possible. It happens very well. But, ask yourself. Be sincere with yourself. Can you go through that stress? Can you go through the stress of flushing almost every pregnancy that comes your way? Just let go of that person, please. But if you're blinded by love, you can go on. Also, if you feel like you can go through that stress, go on!!

Can you survive in an abusive relationship?

I know why I included the question. I know why. Just calm down😊. I know some ladies will say yes. I can't get married to that person. Some ladies prefer a man beating them. Some ladies are going through this in their relationships. Do you know what makes me laugh? You know your man is beating you blue and black almost every day and you're still in that relationship. Why? I've always believed that a man who truly loves you will never raise his hands to beat you. A man who truly loves you will never want to see you cry. I've seen a lot of abusive relationships out there. One funny thing about those relationships is that you can't advise the man or woman in the relationship because they'll still tell each other😅 and they'll turn you to their enemy😅. So, just leave them alone😅. As for me, I cannot survive in an abusive relationship.

Can you marry someone that has no job?

If you observe something in this question, you'll observe that I didn't ask if you can marry a man that doesn't have a job. And I didn't ask if you can marry a woman without a job not to talk of getting married to a man that doesn't have a job. Job shouldn't be gender-based. We both should have a job to sustain us. The only thing I know is that my man will do the most and I will support him. Also, I can't be the one to cater to all the responsibilities. And I can't survive in a broke relationship. I like money😅😅.

I'm still thinking of what to ask but I don't know😅. The questions left my head. And if you feel like you have other questions to add, please do.

Have a nice day😊.