How to Deal with Toxic People?

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We are living in this world full of toxicity, no matter where you go, people can easily judge you base on what they see. In just a single stare, there's already a conclusion in their mind without any proof that you are kind of person they imagine. For in an instance the way we wear clothes, some are wearing vulgar clothes that lots of people keep looking maybe some are admiring the sexiness and some are just simps but there are people who's envy that's why they formulate a idea that she's a person with no dignity and already forgot how to become a Maria Clara. Usually those people having this mindset are what we called Marites, they are group of people which gathering in one place and sharing the latest news they got around their coverage. They are spreading gossips like when they saw the daughte of Melinda get out from the car of a middle age man then the gossips spread that she's having a sugar daddy without knowing that it's her father that working in other place and decide to visit them.

Truly this world is full of toxicity, you can't trust no one cause in an instant the things you've shared to one person will become the trend in whole barangay. You can't trust even your friends cause they might backstabbing you without your knowledge. Later did you know that your secrets had been told to other people and alresdy ruin your image. It's not easy to deal with toxic people since it's nonsense to have fights with them cause I'm sure there's a resback from it's other friends. Actually you don't have to deal with them, you just need to keep quiet and avoid them but sometimes we can't resist resist fight back specially if they already stepped out the line, the feeling that they gonna ruin your everyday life and there's always a news about you. Sometimes we tend to just laugh at it cause we knew that it's all false rumors but they are irritating sometimes that you can't stop yourself but to confront them. We can't control our emotions and we throw bad words but it's not a proper way to fight them back.

Always control yourself and take deep breath, keep in mind that educated people choose the fight where they gonna in, the best way to deal with those kind of people is using reverse card. It's actually a method with you gonna rebate your opponent and reverse the things he or she just said. Like those marites which spreading fake rumors about you, using a reverse method will make them freeze in a moment but it's more better to throw those words in a cool and gangsta way and lastly walking out while the middle finger is saluting on them. I've actually encountered different kind of toxic people, one of those is when we are playing badminton. The field is vast that's why lots of people are looking at us, one time there are group of boys watching at us and keep laughing everytime we miss the shot.

I'm not a typical person that gonna straight into fights, I'm just assessing the situation first. I'm a little bit upset that time due to their laughs then I heard one of them says that I didn't know how to play. That made me into God mode and when my opponent throws a high shot I immediately jumps and made a beautiful smash after I land on my feet, I look that them then smirk, they just amaze on that and pushing each other that's how I deal with those toxic people around me they are just juniors that want some attention that's why I give the attention that they want. We don't need to use force if we encounter toxic people, just give them a thumbs up and it's gonna be a bars for them and in the end they are the one who will get embarrass. If you feel like your being bullied by those people around you then don't mind them, they are the one who will get exhausted in the end. Also, as long as you keep noticing them the more they have will to make your life worst.

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For me, to deal with toxic people? Don't be toxic too haha. Just let them be, nowadays I could sense that because "marites" trend is so much popular it also normal. people here when they heard women spreading or talking to others' lives people here eventually drag them down haha. Well, rumors are now normally fake in our place, thanks to marites names they don't want to labeled as that name.

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2 years ago

hahaha dapat kung may nakikita kang mga marites Kuya, makisali ka tapos barahin mo para manahimik na sila HAHAHA

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2 years ago

It is better to have a healthy conversation rather than a physical fight in my opinion. We are not in 1200 anymore. We should respect each other's opinions and do not resort to fighting.

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2 years ago

It's good to just lay low and let people do or say their own thing. You are so smart to just let them be and observe then shock them in the end, lol! It's quite amusing to see people's reaction when their initial impression of one is proven wrong :)

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2 years ago

hahaha yeah it's better to kill them with silence and show them a awesome moment rather than confronting them.

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2 years ago

Yes, magugulantang na lang sila, lol!

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2 years ago

Marites are everywhere haha talagang ako bigla na lang mababalitaan ko na may or minsan may anak na out of nowhere hahaha grabe ambilis lang talaga di mo alam kung matatawa ka na lang or mababadtrip because of these false rumors about you.

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2 years ago

hahaha baka nga natulog ka lang tas nalaman mong namatay kana daw HAHAHA

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2 years ago
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2 years ago

Sana na sali man lang si brando lods, pero taman talaga yan, hayaan lang ang mga yan, wala naman mawawala satin kung mali din infos nila na naikakalat.

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2 years ago

these days most of people think being toxic is cool and nice and by that they start hurting people in many ways it can be online as well. i have seen many people that act toxic and think they are smart for being toxic which is totally wrong and i think we should deal them with ignorance and stay away from them is better idea.

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2 years ago

I admit toxic ako minsan hahahaha pero everyday i keep on fixing myself

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2 years ago

Hahaha kahit saan Meron minds. Gustu Kona lang Sila lagyan Ng gripo sa tagiliran. Nila Kasi astig ako HAHAHA

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2 years ago

hindi ka naman nakaspam, di ka lang ata lab ni random rewarder.

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2 years ago

Nakaka hurt Naman yorn huhuhu

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2 years ago

Yung mga marites talaga eh! Hahahaha kahit diko patulan naiinis at naiinis talaga ako sa mga gawain nila. Hay naku, bahala sila sa bunganga nila 😂

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2 years ago

You are right. Toxic people is everywhere and there's not much we can do about it, just controll how we respond to them. I have one acquaintance that fed of my anger, but since I started to not giving a damm about her, she became more explosive, it's crazy. Me on the other hand, I keep my cool, and get on with my way.

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2 years ago

My dear friend, the solutions you said were really great. There are a lot of toxic people around us these days, I agree we should try to ignore them, and instead try to be stronger and more successful, they will eventually get exhausted in the end.

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2 years ago

Hindi talaga sila maiiwasan siguro naging hobby na nila yan. Ang mabuting gawin ayy dedma sila.

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2 years ago

pag nabuwisit kana lang po tsaka mo sila sabunutan ate hahahw

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2 years ago

Pwede ba yon? HAHAHA magawa nga hahaha

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2 years ago

Co-existense na natin ang mga Marites,and dito sa amin madami sila,pero natutunan ko ng wag patulan kasi ,sa huli wala din namang mapapala,mapapaaway lang.Nong one time na pinatulan ko through posting on fb sa huli ako pa rin ang nagiging masama.

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2 years ago

Grupo kase sila ate hahaha kumbaga magisa ka lang tas isang ulupong ng chismosa kalaban mo

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2 years ago

Sometimes I fire back at toxic people and give them a dose of their own medicine, I can also be toxic when I want to but most of the time I just ignore them

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2 years ago

Ganyan talaga dito sa Ph maraming mga marites at marisol ang nakakalat kung saan-saan 🤣 Kung ano ang makita ng mata ayun agad paniniwalaan without knowing kung ano talagang mayroon basta may machismis lang.

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2 years ago

Toxic people will do all just to make you down. They act like they are willing to help but deep inside is a deceitful heart. Yes that's a good decision when you make a reverse action towards toxicity of the people. I wonder why they called gossipers as Marites hehe I'm just curious what's the root word of that?

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2 years ago

Chikakiku I laughed when you've mentioned about sugar daddy. 😅 Indeed marites is everywhere in this world. I hate people who always spreading some fake news about the others. They are like CCTV's in everywhere.

Yes, we should neglect them. Don't mind them at the end they are the one who tired gossiping a fake news. We know our own self than them. Throw them the truth.

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2 years ago

ako nga po balak ko maghanap ng sugar mommy para atleast kahit pag chismisan ako, may allowance naman ako kada buwan HAHAHA

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2 years ago

Hahaha wag naman sana chikakiku. 😅

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2 years ago

People must say something at times what they say can mar you and at times it can as well make you, that is Humans for sure, they would always look a way and say something about you, but to me is normal because at times what people says can make you change your life for good

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2 years ago

yeah we can't avoid to judge people and I admit I'm judging but not too far that I already stepping out the line.

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2 years ago

Ay gagi nalaban ako HAHAHAAHAH. May times na sobrang nainis ako kase binubully ako, ginawa ko binanatan ko kaklase ko HAHAHAAH dinako umulit. Unang-huli't sapak eon.

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2 years ago

HAHAHA mapanaket, hindi din ako nabubully eh tahimik lang ako pero kaya kong makipag bugbugan.

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2 years ago

I make them feel understand. Maybe couple of times. But if they try to over shadow me, I show my rage to them.

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2 years ago