How to Deal with Toxic People?
We are living in this world full of toxicity, no matter where you go, people can easily judge you base on what they see. In just a single stare, there's already a conclusion in their mind without any proof that you are kind of person they imagine. For in an instance the way we wear clothes, some are wearing vulgar clothes that lots of people keep looking maybe some are admiring the sexiness and some are just simps but there are people who's envy that's why they formulate a idea that she's a person with no dignity and already forgot how to become a Maria Clara. Usually those people having this mindset are what we called Marites, they are group of people which gathering in one place and sharing the latest news they got around their coverage. They are spreading gossips like when they saw the daughte of Melinda get out from the car of a middle age man then the gossips spread that she's having a sugar daddy without knowing that it's her father that working in other place and decide to visit them.
Truly this world is full of toxicity, you can't trust no one cause in an instant the things you've shared to one person will become the trend in whole barangay. You can't trust even your friends cause they might backstabbing you without your knowledge. Later did you know that your secrets had been told to other people and alresdy ruin your image. It's not easy to deal with toxic people since it's nonsense to have fights with them cause I'm sure there's a resback from it's other friends. Actually you don't have to deal with them, you just need to keep quiet and avoid them but sometimes we can't resist resist fight back specially if they already stepped out the line, the feeling that they gonna ruin your everyday life and there's always a news about you. Sometimes we tend to just laugh at it cause we knew that it's all false rumors but they are irritating sometimes that you can't stop yourself but to confront them. We can't control our emotions and we throw bad words but it's not a proper way to fight them back.
Always control yourself and take deep breath, keep in mind that educated people choose the fight where they gonna in, the best way to deal with those kind of people is using reverse card. It's actually a method with you gonna rebate your opponent and reverse the things he or she just said. Like those marites which spreading fake rumors about you, using a reverse method will make them freeze in a moment but it's more better to throw those words in a cool and gangsta way and lastly walking out while the middle finger is saluting on them. I've actually encountered different kind of toxic people, one of those is when we are playing badminton. The field is vast that's why lots of people are looking at us, one time there are group of boys watching at us and keep laughing everytime we miss the shot.
I'm not a typical person that gonna straight into fights, I'm just assessing the situation first. I'm a little bit upset that time due to their laughs then I heard one of them says that I didn't know how to play. That made me into God mode and when my opponent throws a high shot I immediately jumps and made a beautiful smash after I land on my feet, I look that them then smirk, they just amaze on that and pushing each other that's how I deal with those toxic people around me they are just juniors that want some attention that's why I give the attention that they want. We don't need to use force if we encounter toxic people, just give them a thumbs up and it's gonna be a bars for them and in the end they are the one who will get embarrass. If you feel like your being bullied by those people around you then don't mind them, they are the one who will get exhausted in the end. Also, as long as you keep noticing them the more they have will to make your life worst.
For me, to deal with toxic people? Don't be toxic too haha. Just let them be, nowadays I could sense that because "marites" trend is so much popular it also normal. people here when they heard women spreading or talking to others' lives people here eventually drag them down haha. Well, rumors are now normally fake in our place, thanks to marites names they don't want to labeled as that name.