What is freedom // Freedom is Life
I know man need money for survival and to carterd for other's self needs, but apart from Money, man needs freedom, when I say freedom,"I mean being free" to an extent whereby you do not need to take permission to do anything in life.
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I know this may at some point, seems different but it is what it is because, freedom is what we are to consider here, life is free then why shouldn't freedom be free?
I remember last few weeks, when I told my Boss that, I would be taking some leave from work, because I wanted to go and see my Aunt, but he said "No", that I am not allowed to go, that it is not what the conducts of the work says, yet I find it so strange, because no matter what, the conducts of the work here says, in every organization, there is what they called consideration.
Even in law, *consideration* arouse when things are not in accordance with the Norms but it is being undergo just to better enhance motivation and self belongings, I was not happy with what my Boss said.
I know nothing would cost me rather than for him to give me a sack leter, which at this point I was ready for , I remember it was long, I have not seen my Aunt, so I would not allow anything to stop me from seeing her.
After we have talked for the day, my Boss was able to see reasons with me, he did understand with me and see the need why he should grant me the permission I needed.
It was awesome, for seeing my Aunt an her family and now I do not ust feel like going to work anymore because I feel like I am being taken as a slave instead of a worker.
No matter the amount of money paying to a worker, he /her should feel like they belong in the organization, if not, as an employer you would not get the best of them.
That is why, it is a way on hundred percent good for an organization to support the relationship marketing and seeing it in this vein, it would pays a lot more if taking this concept into the relationship between the employer and the employee.
Thank you for your reading and the support!
Annoyance can kill a man
I remember when i allowed annoyance to take the best part of me, i didn't know being annoyed all the times would not do me any good but would make me to stay on the line which i was and not to see any good things coming in.
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It was my friend who mistakenly damage my Computer, when he told about it, i was so so angry with me and told him, " why didn't he be so fragile when he was handling my computer" not like the computer was what got me so so annoyed, but it was the files, stored in it and the times it would take me to get it repaired, then considering the area i am residing, it is a rural area, whereby i would have to go to urban and get it repaired to my taste, so it can functions again.
My files was the situation here, i was angry but Joshua said, it is a small thing, because i was angry, i let him at home and said, "i want to be alone", i went out to a drinking bar, where i would have something to drink, i drink and drink till i was drunk, the bar manager have to get my phone and call the first number which he sees at the call history and it was Joshua's number..
He told him to come take me home, that "I am highly drunk" in the morning after the alcoholic spirit has left my soul and body, i knew i have messed up, because i could remember going out to the drinking bar when my i see that Joshua has dismantle my computer but what i didn't remember was "how i make my way back home"
When i realized it was Joshua who come and take me home, i felt ashamed of myself and go to his apartment and thank him for being caring and always looking out for me, but to my greatest surprised, he rather, answer that i should not mentioned it, that i am not to be blamed, rather he is, because it was him who broke my computer and that Makes me to get angry and visit the drinking bar from there, i had to drink more than expected, till i was drunk.
I Walked to him and i gave him a hugged him, because no matter what could have been the case, i was wrong for allowing annoyance to take the best of me.
Life is turn by turn
A lot of people think outside the box but could not wait for the manifestation to come.
No one was created to suffer, it just that the society at times put some of us to where we do not belong.
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If you cherished a thing, no matter what it is, when you put your mind to that thing, you would achieve it, there is no difficulties in achievement and nothing is so easy to achieve, it just depends on our abilities and the efforts we put in pursuing the goal.
If you have a desire for a particular thing, it is better you go for it once and for all, face the obstacles on the way, work towards it and wait for the results to surface, because it would sure surface and put a smile on your face, but the problem we are having nowadays, in the society is that, a lot of people want to make it faster than themselves.
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And as such, making faster than themselves likely becomes a problem to them on a long run, because some of them would not even enjoy the riches, some ugly things tends to happen on the way because of how the richest was made, ill gotten wealth is faster but would not last for a longer time.
I could remember one of my friend who always preach about ill wealth, he did got himself into it and later regret at the end, as he could not have rest in his life despite the fact that he was filthy rich, everyday he would be battling with one problem to another.
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He rush into being rich when it was not yet his time and regret with the rest of his life, his life was not the same again, but as a friend, I could still feel his pains, and I wish I was able to give him the happiness he need but it was out of my hands, I am just a man, waiting for our turn is what we should look out for and pray and not something we should rush into, to avoid regret and cry at the end.
The first thing is acceptance the second thing is obedience
This was the issues with Daniel, after being elected as the leader of the association, he was doing as he likes, talks as he like and keep on jeorpadizing the interest of the association, without taking cognisant control of the reasons why he was chosen to be a leader of the group.
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His attitude was what make me to give credit to the ascertain which says that , leaders are unborn but i refuse to believe this statement in days back because i see unborn statement when referring to leadership as bias, i do not believe in such thing, what i believe is that, so you make your bed, so will you lie on it , that is to say that, " everything entails planning, and it is all in the head, when you dream, work towards it, so shall it be, it would be achievable, that was my belief and the belief i live with for a longer time, but the attitude of Daniel has gear me in the way of changing my view of mine.
I see that lineage shouldn't be a thing that categorized us when it comes to leadership, or am i wrong about this belief?, could it be that my ascertain and belief was wrong?
Are they a particular people only meant for leading?
Or would Daniel learn of leading characters if been told?
All this thoughts was on me for a longer period of time but the more i think about it, the lesser i see.
**The first thing is acceptance and the second thing is obedience**: is really the issues in the society of today, getting our minds from that of Daniel, i think this has also emerged in others shpheres of life, let not used my association alone as the subject matter, let consider politics in general, when an aspirant is aiming for a political seat, he would be humble, loyal and obedience at all cost, but once given that position most of them would tends to be doing his or her own things then leaving the interests of the people and not minding what comes out of them.
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Leaving the general public to suffer and be dying of hunger while using the public funds to their own advantage.
The leaders of our days also play this attitude, come to think of it, the ascertain of leaders being inborn are true because an inborn leader would care for his people's, his people's complaint would be his own complaint, he would never in anyway do without drawing out a plan that would favour the general public.
Lies corrupt our minds
Putting your trust on somebody and at the end he/she betrays you is not always easily forgetten, because it was noted that you have put all your trust on them but they let you down, our beliefs are what keep us alive and going, it is through our beliefs that we shape our life into what others knows us for, but when we are being betrayed the real us would began to fade away and we will be acting in a different way that does not shows what is in us, because in times like that our heart would be beating and our mood would not be the same.
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Two days ago, i came to realise that, i have been lie to by someone i did not even think of was capable of letting me down, but such is life, at time things happens for us to be aware of what is to come ahead of us, when we know a person's true identity, we would now begin to follow them in such manner so that we will not hurt ourselves more than we have been hurt.
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The whole thing happens when me and George travels different ways, he could not sees me for sometimes, i was on my own and so was he, our views were not the same anymore, George began to behave in a wrong way i have no knowledge about, unlike him, my best friend who never for once, lie to me, he can lie and could not even think twice about what he said, but i was not cool about his new lifestyle because that was not know what i knew him for, and i think a lot, how could someone who has been way too good began to show wrong attitudes, it really broke my heart when i heard from his elder brother, how he formulate lies to him and go away with two hundred thousand naira #200,000, i was like, how na?, when did Gorge began all this attitude, maybe he was looking for money to solve his pressing problem, but i also asked myself, which challenges did he has that i didn't know?
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Even as that, the lies that George portray he shouldn't have used it because that is not always the answer to our problems, lies would only brings more lies at the end, as individuals we should not consider lies as anything in our life, like. way to solve our challenges, as my best friend, i was really disappoint in him but although i still consider him as my friend, because no matter what we do, they must always be a reason so i am looking forward to hear from him, but now i am not happy about the lifestyle of my friend George.
I wish to see him soon and hear from him.
Understanding is the key to an healthy relationship
It is alarming how a lot of people go into a relationship but would be complaining of not getting the loved the deserve, most people easily get into a relationship and some do not go into it so easily, but relationship is relationship we all need the same thing to loved and be love, which is also the issue facing by some people in most relationships.
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When i was in secondary school, i could remember my class teacher saying that any relationship that is not beneficial is parasitic, he make it clear that, such relationship is not to be involved in or considered gointo into, so that it would not to be a problem to any party on a long run, he made mentioned of the main thing which we need to make relationship beneficial, which is **caring** it was in his words that he outlined to my understanding what caring to a person really entails, he said, when you care for someone, you would make that person challenges your challenges, when he cry, you would cry and when he walked and laughed, you would Walk and laughed.
Caring is the energetic substance that builds a strong and reliable relationship, for instance, if someone who claims to loved you heard that, you are not feeling too well and he refused to come see you, concerning your health and how you are doing, it only means, that he doesn't care, because if he really care for you, he would Have come, check up on you and get to know your health status.
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But these days, most people are not getting the best they should get in their relationship, why should it be so? Is it that, it is how a relationship should be? or is it a kind of bad luck they have? Is there any bad luck in a relationship? some maybe as a result of work and some maybe as a result of unnecessary daily challenges face by a party can make them not to put in their best in their Relationship.
Another keyboard that can sustained any relationship is understanding, for the fact that we know nobody is perfect, it is advisable to at times overlook our partner's actions and look straight and do not want to know everything that our partner may do for a healthy relationship, it is good if we at times looks straight and do away with thoughts which we may find not contributing to our relationship life, because i once read a story about a man, whose always have problems with his wife, due to her nature of job.
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It happens that her wife was a nurse and she at times work overnight, then the husband always complaint about her not been at home and taking care of the children, this went on for quite sometimes and the two party could not cope anymore, which lead to divorce, and they went their separate ways, if only they could look into their problem more and understand themselves they would not have had issues, meanwhile a lot of people out there got married to nurses and doctors and they stll lived happily, why? Because they understand themselves and they put their differences aside for the benefits of their home.
Understanding is really what we need for the comfort and the growth of our homes.
With understanding we can easily heal out wounds, and amends our differences.
Grateful for life - Happy birthday to me
It is more a thing of joy to celebrate this day with good health and happiness, the said "birthday's are memorable day in our life" but I see today as a day more than memorable in my life, have you ever had this good combination in your birthday before, today is Tuesday, 22nd February, 2022, this seems like the best birthday to me.
For a longer time I have been thinking, would I have a day like this again in my birthday? But the answer is No! then It was from there, I realized that today is unique and worth celebrating and drinking more.
I would celebrate another 22nd February on Tuesday, that is for sure, maybe as times goes on, I would still have this combination but how about the year 2022, would I still have it? I am feeling tipsy already but the celebration has not yet started.
I am indeed happy and to conclude it, I must say that I and happy, I feel like dancing right now, hehehehe... I am unable to sleep because of how excited I am, I went out today and I treat myself a chill drink and some friends, I drinks to life and to show how happy I am today.
Is time to make a Wish, I want to blow the candle now and make a wish, I wish myself long life, more success and healthy living.
Knowledge is the key hard-working is just a play
Getting your mind into a certain thing and be thinking it should come just as you are thinking, would put you in something not planned for, when it was meant to happened so Shall it be, one thing about achievement or success is that, it doesn't really matter if you are putting much of the thinking, yeah! is true, i am not of the view that you should not put more effort in what you are doing but what must be must be, that is why for me, i rather do the best i can and leave the rest, because i strongly believe in appointed time, in the time which was meant for me, the time which i must meant to rise, so shall it be, you would rise once it get to this medium and nothing would stop you.
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Coming to think of it, a good examples are the bricklayers, their work on Earth are so hard and difficult but yet what they paid out to them for their services is too small and nothing to take home about, yet they do the must difficult and hard work, but why are they paying such meger of money for their service? In my country Nigeria what they charge for their services is one thousand naira per bag of cement (#1000) converting it to Dollar it will be equivalent to 1.8 dollars, that is why i said doing something which seems so much difficult isn't all that matters, but knowing the right way of getting your things done is the key.
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I know, a lot may see me as someone that complaint the most, but i do not complain in any way but i just have a lot to say at a time, lolss..,
**My experience working in a blocks moulding factory**
I once work in a cement factory and not a cement factory really, in a Factory that they mould and produces blocks, that was three years ago, that day i was having little money on me and i wanted to buy this ipod, my friends were all using iPod and i did not have money to buy it, i decided to trek along the road to see if there is any place i could see casual work, and so was it, i met one that day.
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I walked closer to the people's in charge and i talked to them if they is still vacant, they should take me in, at first what they told me was no, and as i was about to make a step, the other one called me and said, if i have done mixing of cement and sand before? i said no, but i would sure try my best and followed up the work, if i took me in, and so was it, they accepted me and it was not up to five minutes after the little orientation they gave me, i was performing perfectly and they all like my efforts, sure! My efforts does make them happy, at the end i was paid three thousand naira (#3000) equivalent to 5.4 dollars because i was able to mixed three bags of cement with sand and produces blocks.
Even as i was working, i felt for all the workers and for myself too, because seeing that everything there was done manually, make the work more tedious for everyone.
The right people hold the right answer
No matter how good we are, the right people is what we need to create more opportunities and for the right answer to our questions to be answered, no one operate in a vacuum, we all relate with one another and our aims are met, having the right people around is means you are bless, having their opinions is making you to put things right and be strong, vibrant and health in decision making.
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The right people are the right source of income, without the people the Money and machines are of no used, having the right people around you on check all the times, would surely make you grows rapidly in all your endeavors, and it also means thay you have everything, just as in a relationship, the way you want it to be is the way it is going to be, you put things right in your relationship things would always be right for you. What you do is what you will get and nothing more.
For Instance when a products target a small number of people such products market shares can not be more than what it design as target, but when the target was for a greater number of people, it would surely get more and more numbers each days as the target that was spelt out for the products was good,
I remember taking opinions from my friends how my life was elevated, the thing here was they were Supportive of idea, when I reached out to them, Thw right people holds the right answer. could not help me but tends to contribute with positive ideas to the subject matter.
They put more ideas together and make my question come through to light manner.
The growth we need on BCH
This is one of the ways of fulfilling my promise on read.cash, have you ever think of the share button as a tool of growth?, therefore, today's lesson is going to be base on that, nothing is made for nothing, there was a lesson why the share button was placed right there at where you could see them, it was not just for fun or for decoration of the platform, it was for a purpose, now asked yourself this question, "who are the people that could make the purpose to be fulfilled"? After you might have finished asking yourself this random question, from there you would understand that, we the users on the platform are the ones to execute this objectives.
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If we could share more of our articles here to other blockchains or social media, we would sure bring more people into this platform, which is one of the thing we need to do, to inculcate growth in the platform, because one thing is for sure, when we have more users of read.cash, the platform would be famous and as such more and more users of BCH would be coming to the platform everyday.
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Now, considering the number of total users that read.cash have currently and imagine how interesting and fun the platform could be if we are double of this number we have right now, this has make me remember something, when a friend told me, he would be coming to my house and I said is alright that when he is about coming he should let me know, so that I would expect his coming, then he asked me if many neighbor's are living around me, that is if the people in my neighborhood are many, I said no and he replied he doesn't like places with few people, what he needs is place with many people, a kind of place that is always booming, but I was only laughing at him and when he noticed that I was laughing instead of asking him the reason he said what he said, he now to go ahead and conquer that he meant what he had just said, In that case, I should be the one to come see him instead.
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So let join hands together and Make this platform a better one and bring more users to read.cash, with one voice we would be heard louder, let Make used of the share button and bring the light of read.cash to the understanding of everyone around us.
Kindness is a good way of living
showing care and attention to somebody are one of the things that would make you a lot more prosperous, life is like a chess, if you know it very well, you will be going higher and higher till you reached your destination and become the Winner, a man with a kind heart would surely brings more loved and peace to the world and his life on the other hand Would be full of abundance blessings.
when someone is kind, what would always follow him would be kindness, accepting this way of life, to me is a blessing because you might not know when you would be down at your feet
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A good example why kindness is as good as a blessing was when i needed money to solve pressing challenges, and i called everyone i had, they all said they are not capable to deliver me at the moment and it was remaining only one person, it was Tamuno, when he came to mind, i didn't have any interest of asking him for help but what i didn't know was that, he was the person that would rescue me.
I pick up my phone and i gave him a call and do you know what? Tamuno replied to me that, if he does not help me now, that i am in dying need, it only means he has failed me as a friend and as a man, he make me to remembered that, i once help him when he was facing difficulties in 2018 and if wasn't for me, he wouldn't had been able to solved the challenges he had back then, he didn't even let me to finished, he requested for my account number and he did send me some funds which was more than what i was expected, i couldn't thank him a lot, he said, i am not to refund the money, now you see, the good act of kindness that i show in the past was what save me from hectic situations, when i was down at my feet.
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I know sometimes difficult situations can as well make a man to be acting devilish but men were made of love and i strongly believe that devilish attitudes is not what men was made for, men are product of love as well as women's, it was how the world was suppose to be but unnecessary circumstances has to block the good path of life, that is why we as humans must not back down, we must try as much as possible to make our world as beautiful, peaceful as we want, let kindness be our pictures of the day, let it be the thing we always have in our heart, the way we keep our mind is how the world we be like, because they said, the things that are occupied in a man's heart so would he do and no matter what, the one in his heart will have to come out first, before he could give rooms to any other thing, and when we allowed our minds to be filled with kindness our world would be a kind world.
Be careful is better than sorry
No matter how much I may have loved or treasures you, whenever you go wrong I would come straight to you and tell you that you are wrong about what you just did, I would be open to you and tell you what you should do and how you should lived your life, when I find out you are going not in a right proportion, that such ways are not better, I will have to called you to action and make you think straight, therefore, in a situation Whereby I decided to keep silence and show no concerns to you, I would regret as times goes on and say I should have stood up to you and show you the right way to lived life, when the time was on my side.
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When Daniel told me that he has been observing things which he thinks is not right in the life of his brother, I think it was a joke since my friend Daniel can as well says think that are not true at times, but never did i know that, this time he did meant what he said, it was true that his junior brother was into drugs, and Daniel could noticed it at the early stage.
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One-day he invited me to their house and when I got there, I saw how his brother Joel behave, he was not his usual self and it quickly reoccurred to me what happened to my younger brother and how he normally behave when he started smoking, since I once had the encountered with my younger brother, I called out to Daniel's brother, "Joel and he came, I look at him in the eyes then I could noticed he was not looking at me straight, he was with me but his mindset were somewhere else, since I was the only one in the parlor with him, I have to educate him about the danger of drugs, and how drugs has intoxicated the life of our young ones.
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Joel gave me his listening eyes but I was not convinced that he was going to change from taking harmful drugs although he did gave me his listening ears, therefore just now, I hear my cell phone ringing and when I picked it up, it was Joel, the first thing he said was "Thank you brother" for since the day you talked to me about the danger of drugs, I find it difficult to take drugs again, I am really grateful to you for saving my life.
I was so happy to hear such words from Joel and to know that I am creating an impact in the world really make me happy.
Our family our heroes home
The work of our forefather's still lived, every family is known for who they are through the work of their father father's, like it is in our community, they called us "The Afangideh's" meaning the tribe that never submit to another, that is us and that is what my forefather's were known for, and as a member of that lineage, i am no exception.
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Families our power from birth, it is the free gift which we inherit from birth, every man on earth originated from a family and he / she family's has what they are known for and it is this which we are known for that makes us what we are in life, i know in some cases, some people may not want to go in the same direction with their father father's but such is life, because one man food is another man poison but others do not see it that way, as they are happy embracing what their forefathers has left for them.
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I could exposed of a certain man in my community who never for once do away with the traditional way of life, to him, he beliefs in this doctrine of life and he is happy about what he does and how he make his living, others may see it as bad but he does not sees it that way, he circle his mind on it and he never allow it to bothers him in any way, the way i am seeing it is that, when we do not feel bad about anything we do, it means that particular thing is not bad to us in any way, everything is a matter of belief, what we believe in is what we would do and the ones we do not belief, we would never want to do it.
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**Is traditional system of living bad at all ?**
Some may say it is bad and some may belief nothing of such is bad, the whole thing depends on our reasoning and that is the way we reason and think, to me, traditionalist also perform miracles at times, hehehe.. that is if you have ever witnessed any, they do perform miracles and through spirituality method and they also gives solutions to life and come to think of it, isn't it helping humanity? what else do we need if not making life easy for us all.
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**Are traditionalist regarded as good or dangerous people ?**
To some extent, traditionalist are regarded as good and bad people, the whole scenario depends on the person's point of view, how he view his belief, and come to think of it, does it even sound right for one to doubt another person's belief?, i think the answer is no! because our belief is what make us what we are in life.
**What were our earliest families belief ?**
our earliest families belief were base on traditional system, that was what the earliest men could focus their mind on easily, Because they were living their life relying on what they see and not what they may be told would work.
Education is the key to the builders hone
Is education becoming our tradition?
what are the benefits of education to our society?
what are the difference between education and enlighten?
I see this as something worth discussing about, because education is becoming like a doctrine which seems like a must for everyone in the world, that every child need to undergo without knowing the actual meaning while they are educating, every parents take it as a must to send their child to school, some do not even give it a second thought if the kind of school they send their child to is what would benefit the child in the future, it is becoming a compulsory affair, whereby everyone has to involved their children in.
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**is education becoming our tradition ?**
No, i have never been told that education is our tradition, i was only been told that one need to go to school inorder for the person to be enlighten and know how to behave in the society, i see education as something that is costly, because parents have to pay their Children's tuition fees inorder for them to be allowed in school and for them to be tutor or teach.
I have see people who make sure they put everything apart just to give their child quality education, and this is not bad at all, it is only not all that good in Country's like mine, "Nigeria" where you have to pass through the stress of reading and being taught then at the end, no job opportunity is made available for you, instead you are being told to start a business of your own, how can one start a business without a capital?, now making all the ideas inside of you to be rotting and becoming a problem to you.
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**what are the benefits of education to our society ?**
Being educated has many benefits over some certain things, for one to be educated, it means some level of ignorance has been flushed out, and the one who is educating is now aware of how he should behave in the midst of people, especially when presenting himself, and to mention education has many roles she undergo in our life's.
To read and write is one of the role of education in us, to think and reason like a normal being and to understand things things easily.
**what are the difference between education and enlighten ?**
Being educated and being enlighten are somehow the same thing, but one can be educated and not enlighten about the things around him, because being enlighten is all about knowing what is expected of you before going into that field of study, while educating is a process of being informed of those things.
I could remember that some of my friends where into business even while they were in school, back then i did not understand what they went through and why they do that, it was just like a television to me, that i have to watch, it is now i know, that those people who were studying and also doing business were been enlighten about life and what is expected of them, that was why they do what they had to do and save their self unnecessary stress after graduation.
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**How do they know about this principles of combining studying and doing others things ?**
Some may be because their brothers or sisters has enlighten them about how difficult it is to find work in the country, now they are aware and they work towards being self made even after their graduation, we that didn't know, were only focusing one side and now we have to face the unknown result since we were not informed earlier.
The lost in the dark
He said, he could not see clearly, the dark is too much, would my eyes explode! am i blind already? Life couldn't be like this with me, what am i doing wrong to deserve this punishments, why am i keep in the dark for something i have no knowledge about and which i did not committed. I am praying that they caught the culprit and i would be set free. Because i can't wait to get back my freedom.
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They said life in sail is a living hell, is true and the people who said it, were right about what they said, maybe, it was from their experience, this few days has really taught me a lot about life in sail, although this is not really sail, here look just like it and i wish this kind of a thing didn't happen to me because i have done nothing wrong to deserve this punishments, or is it wrong again for someone to have a glass of drinks in a tarven trying to erect his busy day?
Oh! Shit! It wasn't bad at all, they broke in and set the tarven on fire, beat the tarven managers and put the rest of us in a van and drove away, what more could i say, we were told to keep our mouths shut else we will get the shock of our life, we obey what they said but i regrets going there and i wish i was in my home and not going anywhere as at that moment, they make me see having a drink outside the house as being a dangerous thing, i should never do, but what more could we do, We are human's at times we need to seat outside and closed to people and have a chit chat and from there have a more enjoyable drink and enjoying the moment of your Life.
They acted as Government official but what i did not know was that, we were being taking hostage for something we did not know, but such is life. Things happens and people learn from their past, shape theirself and never to put theirself in danger again.
Is appreciation really necessary?
Yeah! Appreciation is necessary and Showing appreciation means you are grateful in whatsoever may comes your way, be it big or small, at some point i have noticed that a lot of people tends not to appreciate when something small or meger is given to them but this is wrong, as it may be a kind of test to you and if you failed to show appreciation, that would be the end for you and nothing more for you next time, we all know, they will always be a next time, then asked yourself this question, how would the next time be like?
what would it seems like?
Would i be remember or recognized in the midst?
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I use to be a victim of not showing appreciation when i am offered something i did not expect to be given and i would be bragging and bragging that i deserved more than what was given to me, yeah, it may be true, that i deserved more than what was given to me, now since this is what was given to me, why can't i just be grateful and expect something bigger and greater in the future but i didn't know this and I would choose to look the other way out, making me to missed more and more opportunities in my life, as some people may not like my reactions and may choose not to do anything with me again or would refused to engaged or do business with me.
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I see appreciation as a motivation for your supporter to do more and more, that you acknowledge their kindness and generosity and that you are grateful for that which he is doing for you, That is why, at some point, you would easily come across some people carrying around this phrase " Never despise your little beginning" because your beginning May be small but the end point may be greater tomorrow, we all are familiar with the words that "Nothing good comes easy" and that the begining does not matter, yet all what that matters is the end.
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There was once someone paid my transport fare, that was two years ago, i was on my way going to a friend's house, me and the other passenger had a conversation and i told me that, i am new in the neighborhood, i asked him where to locate my friends residence, for the fact that, he had stayed there for a longer time, he knew all the routes and he directed me, and i thank him wholeheartedly, i reached where i am to drop, when he noticed that i am so grateful for the little assistance he gave to me and thanking him for giving him the right direction on how to locate my friends neighborhood, he was so happy and he said, do not worrying about your transport fare, i would pay it for you, and that was it, i showed appreciation and being grateful for the little assistance he offered to me and he did more for me and also requested that I gave him my number, he was calling me to check if i landed on the exact place as he directed and up till date, we are still friends and he is more like a father to me.
Rules and Regulations are Essential On read.cash
As I already said earlier that I am going to breakdown everything step by step here on read.cash, what I mean to break down are the tips, which I promise to offer for the growth of everyone in this platform, which we must undergo as a BCH blogger, so on today's lesson, we are to focus on the **rules of this platform**, I have realized that it is not so easy to stick to rules, hehehehee....
Which is why I want to break it down today so that we see the importance why we should consider observing this rules, but before we continue, I would like to asked a question, have you ever make a post in a community and the post has not been approved? Depending, some may YES and some may Says NO! at the same time but the answers here depends on what we want to achieve at the end.
Yeah! unlike me, this has happens to me severally on read.cash and to be precise I think it happens everywhere, therefore, rules are conducts which we must follow, for we to be successful and reach our expected ends, we must not do without rules and regulations, in a situation Whereby a post you make is not approved in a certain community, it is only means that you are not going according to the rules of that community and which will be treated as spam, for us to make a successful ground here on read.cash it is necessary for us to take time and go through the rules that is governing a particular community and do not just joined a community without knowing what is expected of each of the community member.
Nevertheless, there are Community that their mode is set to general, those kinds of Community are general Community, which means they accept all kinds of articles and all types of languages depending on How the admins view the concept of being general in nature.
Here on read.cash, rules and regulations governing each Community can be seen at the up of each Community, that is the top or the front side of each Community, it can also be seen at the time you want to join a Community, that is when you see it comes as a prompt message, requesting for your time to read it carefully and digest it, because as far as you are a member of that Community, those rules would governs you and if in any way you violate it, it would attract a punishment, although the punishment here is not the same as that of real life but it can affect your growth as a BCH blogger negative so we should always read community's rules and know what is expected of us before accepting to be a member, as it would help our efforts in the overall goal achievement.
Thank you for your time.
*HAPPY WEEKEND EVERYONE*🙋
Is your community safe?
speaking of safety, i think this is one thing we must always have on the back of our minds, since safety comes first in every field of humans endeavor, be it in the workplace, offices, houses, Community and the world at large.
The following can affect the peace and safety of a community and they includes:
climate change
Hazardous substance
conflicts
**climate change** The chnage in climate at some point can greatly affected the well-being of man and People's living in that same geographical area, climate change can be as a result of defforestation, high usage of electricity appliances on twenty four hours, etc.
each Community should endeavor to take cognisance care of this for the safety of their Community, and to safeguard of the people living in it.
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**Hazardous substance**: wrongly usages if hazardous substance and materials can as well be harmful to a given Community, Community shoud always have it in minds that chemicals substance after using should be properly place and put to it place, for the safety of the members in the community and not to become something that would causes harm to the people after being used and derived the purpose it was meant for, hazardous substance or materials can be so toxic.
Because i remember when My younger brother tried to put a pesticide in his mouth, because he thought It was a juice drink, if not for the help of a visitor that came to our compound that day, he saw him trying to drink the pesticide and he rush to him and took it a way from him, caution him not to be drinking something he sees without asking if it is safe for him to drink or consumption, now, whose fault was it? are we to blame the child? No, but the adult is to be blamed, because after using of the pesticide they should have place it properly, maybe by taking it to the waste bin or throwing it far away from children's reach.
That is why it is written in some products "keep it out of children's reach".
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**Conflicts**: I would say that conflicts is the number one retardation of Community's safety and the reasons why the world at times is not at peace, Come to think of it, humans being are full of conflicts, and at times they disagree to agree and at some point nothing at such, they would only argue and argue and argue.
when they disagree to agree that is functional conflicts, because it will points out the truth at the end, then that resolution is making it to be functional conflicts. but when we disagree and refuses to agree but keep on disagreeing, I think in that case, the conflicts is dysfunctional and dysfunctional conflicts is very bad which is why Community's, States and nation's at times have issues with one another.
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but i am glad they is what we called, Conflicts Resolution mechanism" these are agency's that help in solving conflicts concerning Community's, State and nation's, they do not allow conflicts to last long between two parties, they must endeavor to step in and have everything settled, then give a fair judgment on the both parties.
To me, i see that Conflicts are not productive of any kind and should be avoided for the safety of each Community.
The Best Advice Is The One You Give To Yourself
I tried all my best to make David stop smoking, but the more i talked to him the more he went on doing it, i became tired and gave him his way, he was living his life, as he likes, to me, i see what he did as a hell of a life, because such attitudes would add nothing to him but would rather make him, see his self below life expectations at the end.
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At some point It became very insultive to me and at point, i let it slip away, but something also happened that got me confused, it was on Monday and through out that whole week, David could not smoke a bit of Indian cigary, i was observing him as if it was nothing, i refuse to says anything about his new mood, at the early stage, but I could not control it anymore, as i asked him, what is the matter with your usual way of life?. He smiled and look at me.
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And replied, i smoke no more Brother, i asked am i hearing this right? what did just said? you stop smoking? WOW! i dance, today must be a good day to celebrate, because i always note that anyyy done with utmost time would soon slope away, not like smoking is not done anywhere else but David make his own an habit which seems irritating to me when considering the negative side of smoking, but here it nice and awesome since be can control the habit, have you ever read what is written on cigarettes?
He smiled and looked at me , hugged me so tight and from that moment, i could realized that, the best advice is the one you give to yourself.
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When a person mind is set to go on doing a particular thing, no matter what you Said, he / she would not see reasons to change from that particular attitudes but when he alone learnt of what he did, maybe see that it is not right, you would see him change and never to look back at it, but when you are the one pushing him to stop with all your efforts, you would rather push him to somewhere else he wouldn't have been but allowing him to make his choice and later stop is awesome and a good way of making them see why they should behave Normal, to me, i strongly believe In freedom, if i see you are happy with what you are doing, i let you to it, because i see happiness as everything on earth, an happy heart is a healthy soul and a healthy soul can as well make another man happy, then life would be great and good as ever.
Follow a user on BCH
As part of the tips I promise to be sharing here on read.cash, today we are to talk about, the power behind the follow buttons.
I know some may not realize the importance of following a user on read.cash but I am here to share with you the importance of having this done, as we sometimes believe that to follow a user is wasting of time. But is it true that to follow a user on read.cash is a waste of time? No, the answer is Capital NO! Because unlike me, when I joined this platform, it was just like a white blank space given to me to filled and without me knowing what to write and how to go about it, so what i do was to follow some top accounts and those ones I found their contents on the top of the space which was boost contents, I took time to go through those articles and from them I learnt how the platform is running and the a kind of contents that is allow on read.cash and in each of the community's Community.
Just as we know, no one is a pillar of knowledge, as far as we are still alive, we have to push harder and climb our ladder of success everyday, because i do not have to stop where I was and so do you, we have to push harder and go on achieving our aims in settling our life's challenges, because our needs are numerous while the resources we need to satisfied it are scarce.
To learn from someone who has much experience than you, is sure a big thing for oneself because so would you get big as times goes on, his teaches would sure shape your life and make you more enlighten than how you were.
That is not all, you could in turn get a follow back from the user you have been following here on the platform and what does that mean, it means you have begin to grow your audience here on read.cash, one thing my father used to tell me is that, "man know thyself" as a man you should be able to give an account of what you do each and everyday, that makes you a rationale being, Humans are Humans when we flushed out the ignorance in our life's.
To me, I do not joke with anything that has to do with learning, I believe learning to be a great tools for me to scale out in all my endeavors, because without a proper learning, the things we know would not be known to us, following a user would make you learn from his life experience and would also Make you grow because experience is the best teacher.
Thank you for reading my article.
I guess by now we have seen reasons why we should follow a user through the insight outlined above.
Time is what you need on BCH
There was once a time i used to bother about being a man of my own and whenever i come up with the intuition, my father would be telling me not to go faster than myself, that my time would come to do everything i want to do in life, and when it is my time, i would not have to bother or struggle too much but i would see myself climbing the ladder of success faster to where i wanted to be, a friend once told me, it is not how far, but how well ?
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Three days ago, as i was coming back
from the Market, i saw a woman crying, i was touched, honestly, it saddens me whenever i see someone crying, come to talk of an elderly woman crying, when i drew close to her, i asked her what is the matter?, why is she crying at this time of the day but she Said, it has been long since she said her eyes on her children's, i could feel how difficult it was for her as a mother, i told her not to cry anymore, because even her childrens out there are also thinking about her, that they will come see her anytime soon, life is full of ups and down.
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But now here i am, those things which i use to find very impressive, are not important to me anymore, this now make it clear to me that, "not all that glitters are gold" at times i used to think of how wise, were our forefather's Because looking at the words they used to utter, it really adds value to life and it also serve as what we used in life as a guide nowadays.
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I used to asked myself this questions, if their teachers were so good than what we have now in schools, why do we have to make used of their understanding rather than our own, why thinking and thinking and thinking of what could be the secret behind it, i was able to find out that, our forefather's were only focusing on what they see with their eyes and not like us that mostly relied on theoretical work or already made data.
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Time is really what anyone who wishes to be successful and prosperous in life should look out for, rushing into something without a proper guide would make you not to get a better results, but when you took out time to study it, know it very well, good and positive results would be derived, taking time to understand a thing is not a waste of time. that is why in every organization, they would exist a prosper medium for time management and even manager do not just strive without knowing that it is the right time, time is all we need, with time we would have it all and with the right time, we would make it the right way.
When you dream big you would be big
What we circle our mind on, are what we would actually get, no matter the times taken and what we may go through on the process, the results will still be what we intended for in the future.
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Life is a like a leaf that dances whenever a breeze is turning it left and right, the wind is the power which we must withstand, nothing good comes easy, to makes better route we must watch our ends very well and closely if we are still at the right path.
But at times our dreams can make us not being free with the things we should do, Just because we needed to achieve it, that is what we called sacrifice, have you been hearing what sacrifice towards getting a particular thing means, that means for one to really reach it goal and what he always want to be, so many things at time have to be considered, and come to think of it, it may affect your present way of life.
That is how sacrifice comes in on what we have to do, the limits we now set, and the unnecessary stress we have to undergo towards pursuing that set aims is what sacrifice has to say, some people at times do refer to sacrifice as punishment in the moved of attainment, but are the challenges you face towards getting your aims a punishment? No! There are not punishment but they are only what we must pass through to get to where we ever wanted to land.
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In times like this, some may tends to go away and throw away their desires, which is what we know as consistency, to be consistent is to be dealing and pushing on a normal formation and do not allowed it to be like a problem to yourself, it is also imparting endurance and believing something good would comes out of it, but this days, no one wants to endure anything anymore, i could remember when a man, who heard that a certain boy name is endurance, he got angry and said "who gave him such name", that what is he enduring, that such names is not good, just as the man is saying it, if you should trace it, you can would know that the man lack consistency in him and could not have to abide to it if he finds himself in such position.
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While others would never considered it that way, no matter what, you should hold it tight and never let go, which is what would bring us to another elements who is known as preserverance, when you know you are going on the main direction, instead if letting it down, we tend to hold it tight and avoid loosing it all, but to stay on the grind and believing to attain at the end. This is why some people said, "half bread is better than none", it is true because not taking anything at all is bad but no matter how small it is, we should endeavor to take it because not taking anything is worst and we should hold tight to the ones we already has and not to loose it all.
our minds is the strongest weapons we ever has on earth, so you are thinking, so you would do.
Why interaction is a vital tools on read.cash
We are here today again, If you have been following my post, you would realise that I make mentioned that I would be given out tips about how to be successful here on read.cash and on today's edition, we are going to talk about about the interaction aspects of scaling out and becoming successful, this simply means how engaging in members posts can help you grow rapidly in this Community.
Interaction here on read.cash is a crucial tool for scaling out your way and becoming successful, interaction would not only help you to be successful on read.cash but it would sure make you connect to many people that matters in your life and build you a more successful friends. that is connecting you to the same people in your niche.
When you interacts more in a community, you would be noted as an active Community members and as your efforts grow so does your understanding enlarge generally in read.cash platform, as we all know no one is a pillar of knowledge, we learn everyday, due to the things that comes our way, moreover we can not have what we want if we do not interacts with one another and show positive response to our community member's post, as they always said, "we grow by lifting others" without lifting others up, we would not have the actual growth and development we need.
Since one tree can not make a forest, and only a king can not make a kingdom, it is good if we carry everyone alone, because only with this notion in our minds that we would scale out positively and help the people within our spheres, for instance, if you follow up the people who are more popular here on read.cash and engaged greatly on their posts then keep on interacting in their article, so would you be noted as a great contributor and so would you grow popular too within the spheres in times to come, because when you keep on interacting, you are also publicize yourself to his targeted Audience and as that, it is understood that fourty percent of his audience would also pick interest on your articles and be follow you also, now adding fourty percent with the audience you were already having, it would now give you a more bigger Audience and so would you be popular and be growing within the spheres.
To me, it is through reading other users articles that I came to understand each and everyone of us here on read.cash more and more, like what we like and what we do not like and how each and everyone of us go along in our daily operations.
I guess by now, the importance of interaction and engagement is made known to us.
Thank you for reading this article.
Everyone are unique! Really?
How true Is this statement?
Are we really unique?
What does it mean for someone to be unique?
**How true Is this statement**?
I have thinking and I do not know if what i am thinking is true, is uniqueness a quality to everyone in the society, or is it a quality for everyone to discover? seeing that we have different belief, lifestyle and attitudes can greatly answer this question, being unique is a quality to everyone, we are all same because we are Humans and blood is what runs in our body, but we are also different In some aspects of life, ways of reasoning and understanding, our pride is also difference and our does and don't are difference also. The above mentioned is a good example for uniqueness and why we are unique in Nature.
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**Are we really unique**?
I could remember Back in those days, when I was still in my child age, I always admired singing but my voice could not let me to be a good singer but I was so good in writing and which is what lead me to hive, Samuel my friend was a good singer each day I would be going to Samuel House to practice Singing, I practice it for more than six months and that was when I was able to be changing from one utterance to another, yeah! it was from the help of Samuel, He made me achieve this aims and i was so happy about it and I also thank him so much. I began to singing and which has lead me to have some studio work till that moment when my family and told me to stop singing that they do not acknowledge me to be a Singer.
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**What does it mean for someone to be unique**?
To know that we are unique in differents ways, you would see it through when you go close to Peoples then you realized that they are things which they know but you do not know, at times, those things maybe things which you may wanted to have in your life and at times, it may be things you do not want at all, but such is uniqueness it comes In different dimensions, you find someone which you love and you two agree to get into a relationship and when it was time to outline what each other may like, you find out that you two may be having feelings for each other but you two have different liking, it is now on your view to acknowledge and amends your views for the betterment of both party's and for everlasting peace and harmony.
My experience on read.cash
Hello ladies and gentlemen, I have been on read.cash for some months now, and I have learnt something very special about this platform, which I want to share right now, although this might benefit the newbies a lot but it can as well has a great impacts on the already existing user's here on read.cash, I do not know if you have ever heard the word "plough back" in business, for those of us, who are not yet familiar with this approach, I think, now is the right time to understand this approach more and more.
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Plough back simply means, putting back your profits into your business, the profits here are your gains, earnings that you make in your business, then you now reinvest it, add it with the capital and purchase a new batch of preducts, now adopting this method on read.cash is a good idea, being here on the platform for the some months, has just taught me that, I have been to many blockchains, like I Write on hive and I also in tends to Start writing on Amazon, that is to publish a book very soon, but it appears that the plough back approach of making profits is more attractible here on read.cash and which is what makes the platform more unique and outstanding in her nature.
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One thing is for sure, for you to be making it big in the market, as a product just as BCH, you must be unique and outstanding, when a product is outstanding, it always commands questions and attentions, and by so doing more and more ideas about the products would be harness, so uniqueness is a quality aspect of products realisation.
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Now for you to plough back in read.cash the simply steps to follow is just by taking time to boost some articles which you finds are good but are not getting the audience they should be getting, **Boosting** of post are way too good for read.cash users, but it attract cost and this cost maybe what you make in your previous Posts or Money you deposited into your read.cah wallets, now when you consider taking those money in boosting a Post it is just like investment, you are investing more and you are expecting something In return as the article would be shown across Many user homepage on read.cash and it would sure generate you more than the investing costs, since you believe it to be a good article and it was lacking attention, now, Because you have boosted the article, it would now derived more and more attention to itself, and sure would make you more gains depending on the information you conveys to the public.
I guess by now, we all know what plough back in business is and also how to boost our articles on read.cash and generate more income.
I would be giving more insight on how to be successful here on read.cash everyday, my next post on how to be successful on read.cash is coming on tomorrow.
Thank you for reading to end.✌️
To climb higher you must leave your comfort zone
I have been thinking, is our comfort zone really what we should leave?
what would happen if we leave our comfort zone?
This question came to mind this early time of the day and to support this view, i think it is wrong for me to leave my comfort zone but one thing is for sure, no gain without sweat, if you want to climbed higher than you should climb in life, therefore, you must considering leaving your comfort zone, leaving that things which you find are the things that gives you joy and happiness then pursue the one that would give you everlasting joy.
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we have heard many things about hardwork and sacrifice, do you think sacrifice of oneself makes one happy? it does not, rather it involve endurance, Commitment and preserverance, They is a saying which always porport about it, which says that, nothing good comes easy, anything in life takes times and with the time frame taken, we needs to put everything we needed and makes good use of the time.
leaving your comfort zone Implies doing the things which you find are necessary in your life and not minding how difficult and tedious may seems, because it may seems difficult difinitely you still derived a Satisfaction at the end, they said, no food for a lazy man ad being idle would surely make you a lazy man and at the end they would be no food for you.
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which is what every man should tries as much as possible to avoid, rather choose to leave his comfort zone of the present and make another comfort zone in the future, being futuristic in your plans would likely help so much in achieving your life goals, although one had to go through unnecessarily stress and difficulties but one thing is always for sure because at the end the sacrifice would Worth all that was put.
Considering leaving your comfort also implies risk taking, to take risk is to consider the things which you may find tedious but may work towards making your life better at the end, I know these days a lot of people dislike works but would want to benefits from what they do not work for, which is unfair as an individual and should not be considered, taking things you do not plough for, would add no value to life rather would at the end put you through unnecessarily thinking as ways to start again and again.
Val's gift
It came right on time as i was about to cry, one thing about me is that, i easily get carried away with things which i felt are not going the way it should be going, i was beginning to think if no one loves me, if i am alone in this world, it was a kind of inferior feelings which wanted to arouse in me then my brother proven it wrong, that was a totality of feelings of inferiority and i am so happy that my he could save me out of this negativity of thoughts.
Gifts really brightens ones heart and spark ones into doing great things, i love to be receiving gifts, hehehehe, when i looked at my time, it was almost a minute to six o'clock and then i saw a good handsome man, knocking at my door when i opened it, behold it was a brother who did not even tell me about it that he is going to present me a gift this val season, you know what? I dance to it and he was just laughing at me and the whole thing i performed was like a thing that make him laugh but i was great because i performed it with boldness, because he remembered me and stop me from having an inferior feelings that no one in this world cares for me.
At times the little things we do to our friends, families and our neighbors can be so big in their eyes, do you know why? because they didn't expect such things to come onboard and the whole thing would just be like a miracle in their eyes, just like what had just took place in my life this early time of the night, i was so happy and i received the gift with a heart full of gold.
He is sure a good man, and the kind of person the world want inorder to make it a better place, although a lot may be wanting to be like him to his friends and families but could not do it due to not having the resources, i pray may they scale through in all their endeavors.
Live a life you could be lived to be remember.
40 percent of my earnings goes to my parents
Seeing the extent that my parents had push me up to in life, makes me want to give them more of my resources, considering the nature of their jobs and their salaries then seeing the level they have lifted me up to and the life they have given me, make me want to endorse them as my role model.
*One of those days in tertiary institution, back in 2015*
Because being a teacher here in my country Nigeria, isn't meaningful at all, I means you have to starve while others are eating, the salary given to teachers here are not something to appreciate anyone about, this has make me realize how they have sacrifice to get me to where I am today, I use to feel like a big man in college but now, I can see i am nothing but a young man who needed to be humble, right now I am thinking of how were they cooping with Such salaries and still afford to send me to school and pay my tuition fees.
*when I was in NYSC orientation Camp, at Wannune, Tarka LGA Benue State*
Yet I didn't know that while being in school, they were suffering and was still smiling at me, it is now that I have graduate a long time ago and staying at home and seeing how is life here in my country then beginning to imagine what the have gone through in given me the life they could afford to give me that is what no matter what, I said "Thank you to them" because it through them that I was nurtured and nourished and getting to a point like this is by their doing.
*My passing out parade and when National certificate was given*
Few days ago, Dad called me that, he wouldn't say they had not paid him his pension, he said they did pay him but the pension could not meet up his upkeep, he insisted that I boost him up, i was somehow not free at the moment but I beat up my chest and said, this duty I must carried it out, and I did send him the amount I could afford at the moment and Dad was so happy about it and he keep saying good things to me, some which i expect would have to manifest soon.
Looking up to our parents feels good and it is one of a kind feelings and what we must always have in mind as their children and knowing they are growing older everyday, we must always have it in mind that they needs us more than we need them, let be there for them and to our love ones.
Thank you so much for reading my post.
The risk of keeping our password unsecure
Risks are uncertainty, sometimes we do not know when it will happen or how it would happen, keeping our password safe, should be our number one priority, because just one click away with your password everything you have ever work could be gone.
There are many ways which we may adopt to protect our passwords, we can protect our password by downloading it in a flash drive and keep it where no one else could see it but the hideout is best known to us alone.
we can also endeavour to have it written down in a book, we can as well stored it in Google docs or Google chrome which is always the case that may lead to account being stolen, hack or lost keys, as we all know, it is possible that you yourself can mistakenly clear your browser cache without taking cognisance care of your saved passwords which was saved in the Google chrome and this act may also lead to Keys and passwords being lost and providing you with no way to login into your account, just as what we have here on read.cash, your keys and password are your gate way and you can be log out at anytime if being stolen so taking appropriate care of our password should be always remember.
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To me, i see it that, to save your password in a good condition, one must make sure to store or save it externally and not on apps or browsers, unlike me, i always considered having my keys written down in my jotter which is kept nowhere anyone could sees except i am the one who told you about it and also enlighten you about the pages of the jotter where passwords are written, because i would have to used my nickname that my siblings used to call me five years ago, because i know merely looking at it, no one would ever believe that passwords Could be written in Such a place with funny nickname.
I think about it a lot and i say to myself, how would i feel if my password is lost?
what would life seems like to me, if i wake up one-day and i am look out and i could not be able to log in anymore?
so we need to keep our passed always in check and never to relay it to friends, because i know some people do that, like share their keys and password with friends, honestly, i do not see anything wrong with that, but it depends on who you are dealing with, we must always trust our friends before we put our password in their care, at least being vigilant is better than crying and be saying 'had i know".
Thank you for reading to this point, i hope my post was helpful?.
What Noah's need to do to gain back his love
The look on Noah's face make me asked if he is really okay, but he refused to open up to me, i told him, i would not force you to say what you do not want to share with anyone, but remember challenges share are half solved.
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It was 7:45AM and i was already late to work, i didn't want my boss to see me as one who do not keep to time and do as he like, but when i got to the office i was still not myself, i could not attained to customers for longer without thinking what could be Noah's problem at this early hour of the day, never did i knew that he has thinking about his ex girlfriend, to me, i thought he was having pains inside of him which he does not wants to tell me about it but to keep it a secrets.
When i got home from work, i calm down and have a chit chat with Noah, that was when he open up to me, how hurt it is for him, whenever he think of Victoria her ex girlfriend, he was talking and was Shading tears, he said, by this time last year, they were still together, and being with her was the best thing in his life, till the time they got unnecessary argument which lead to their separation, when i look at Noah and how soaked he was, i was deeply touched and felt how hurt it is for him for not having Victoria again in his life.
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I will advice you to go talked with her, she may still be feeling for you too, such is life, and when you are going to see her, you can as well accompany yourself with a gift, we are in val moment, gift can make way for that exit that were blocked because gift make ones heart joyful.
He replied, if only i could have her back i would not be rude and corny to her in any way.
It is good you have learnt of your mistake and decide never to do it again, maybe that was how it was meant to be, so that you could learn for better, fight for your love my friend because love is a beautiful thing.
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