We as a couple

Good day my beautiful read.cash fam!

How was everyone here?Hoping that everyone is fine and having a great day today despite of whats the world is facing now .Always remember that GOD is with us always .

Let me share to you my relationship with my husband and how are we being a couple.But before anything else,let me introduce you my generous sponsors.

Our relationship started without any courting happened,though he courted me but I felt it in not a serious way ,he had a girlfriend before and me was still trying to heal my broken heart.After a weeks or a month maybe ,it was happened that he gets my number and that was the begining of what we had right now .I found out that I am happy talking to him and he also ,I guess ,oh I am sure that we had a mutual feelings .After their break up with her girlfriend ,his attention was in with me ,and me ,I don't know why I feel something for him .Maybe thats they called the sense of humor makes me feel in love with him .I can't deny that my day is'nt complete without his presence and until one day I became pregnant ,how does it happend?lol!

At first ,it was hard for me to adjust our relationship because of the age gap we had ,I was expecting that like the other guy ,he would remember our special days like monthsary ,anniversary or even celebrating valentines day but he don't know this kind of celebration .Anyway he was 10 year older than me and day by day we both trying to adjust and we never let our age gap be a barrier of our relationship.

We are now in our 6years in relationship and we had two kids .After 6months of living together he asked me to marry him,a civil wedding he wanted but I said "No" to his proposal since we both catholic I wanted to have church wedding (demanding is me ba?)I was not asking special wedding ,what I wanted is to married him infront of the altar and our wedding was happend last October 10,2019 ,after the 3years living together.

We are not a perfect couple but we are trying to adjust each other ,we do respect each other desicion although there are many times that we arguing but we never let it the reasons to ruin what relationship we had .I am not the type of a wife who always chasing my husband ,I trusted him ,if he get drunk its okay for me as long as he let me know where ever he go ,I gave him a time for his friends as long as he know the limitations.My husband is my bestfriend ,we always have a chitchat before we slept ,I did'nt forgot to asked how was his day at the work and sometimes I waited him to come home so that we can have a dinner together .I was working what should be the role of a wife for me.

What do you see as your best character trait?

Me as a wife ,I was doing anything for my husband,since I don't have work so my job is to helped him ,help him preparing his food and prepared all the things he need to his work .One time my brother in law saw me busy preparing my husband things ,after I packed his lunch I was preparing his uniform and cleaned his shoes ,my brother in law told me "how lucky this man is(my husband) to have a very hardworking wife ,I did'nt experienced that chelle,even making a cup of coffee ,I was the one who did it ,my wife never did what you are doing everyday .And I realize that our man really needs our care.So,for me my best character is being a loving and hardworking wife to my hubby.

What mistake did you learn the most from

One thing I learned is the relationship is not based on the length of time you spent together,its based on the foundation you built together.

Our relationship is one of the example for it ,even we spent a little time for it the the ending was a wedding ,unlike my experienced of my 3years of being on a relationship with my boyfriend before ,but it ends with heartbreaking.

What is the important thing in a relationship?

For me is the LOVE,yes its the love because of love you trust your partner,because of love you will sacrifice everything ,because of love understand each other .Because of love the two hearts become one .Because of love you are in a relationship now .I do believe that love is the most important thing in any relationship ,either its a family ,a friends ,a neighbor or the people around us remember Jesus Christ died on the cross because of his love for us.

And this is my entry for the birthday give away of miss @carisdaneym2 I don't know if I did it well ,hopefully I was .And of course ,let me greet to you a belated happy birthday ,may our Lord God grant all your wishes .Wishing you all the best.

And for those who wanted to join,here's what you gonna do.And I dare to tag you @Iamhasmin to join this .